I spend a lot of time in Shanghai & Beijing. Early on, I thought I was in heaven, northern girls are more attractive, sexy, aggressive, & they know how to please a man. Unfortunately, the honeymoon was soon over…for me and for most “expatriate” men , Chinese & Caucasians. These women are shrewd & mercenary. First, they would want you to wine & dine them …then buy them handbags, shoes, & I Pads … then allowances…watches, jewelries… cars…& finally apartments… What I really want now is a “real” relationship with a Hong Kong lady, and HK Matchmakers has been most helpful.