好耐沒上來.
Just want to encourage all moms here. My boy is pre-mat, one of the twins who is alive and is now nearly 4. He was born in 32 weeks and stayed one month in icu before discharged. Of course we have overcame and gone through some of the medical difficulties and problems like yours. Now he is overall okay, he is going to promote to K2 in the coming Sept. Except he is always allegic in respectory system, weaker in health, the shortest in the class, guess he is also the thinnest (around 30 pounds) , in class, eat very less & slow, motor skills and social skills are a bit lag behind ...
Yes, all pre-mat moms and childrens have to walk thru/ a different and toughest road other than others, but I think this will lead us to a closer and warmer relationship.
Keep up all moms, don't give up, you are the only one that could cheer your child up. don't let him/her alone.