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發表於 04-9-14 16:30 |只看該作者

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Hi alanchoi,

Don't worry! I think Alan will easy to adapt his school life & should be enjoy it very soon. As I saw from his pic, he is very smart boy. Also your handsome boy will be attracted alot of fans, just headache for choose which one he would like to play with him/her first, heehee.

Besides, I think he has quite good social skill as he has a elder sister accompany him. Liam is no brother/sister right now, so I will also afraid he scare when he goes to school later. Therefore, I always take him goes to park to let him close to other kids.

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Hello! I am King Liam I was born on July 1, 2003

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Hi miffy,

I fully understand your feeling & how exhausted to do a full time mum job. Time flies, I did a full time mum already 2.5mths, but still feel very exhausted as everyday like a "war". My son always very close to me, cant give me take a break to breath. He will take a nap twice a day, but only half hour every time, "thank you very much":cry: . He is 14mths now, sometimes I will put him into safety corner to play by himself. Now he can walk free hands a few steps, moreover, he likes to catch somethings such as DVD, TV, video player or some danger things. Therefore, I have to watch him almost every mins seems a security guard!

I also feel very boring special I have no friend in UK.

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Hello! I am King Liam I was born on July 1, 2003

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發表於 04-9-15 00:23 |只看該作者

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JellyBeanyD,

I think I can only take closer look on him rather than pushing him to speak. He will learn to speak naturally, sooner or later....

Now Alan is playing with his sister crazily every day.

You don't need to worry about Liam's social skill because he will soon establish at playgroup or school. But you should be prepared that child at less than 2 years old likes to play alone rather than play together with other children. This is what I observed from different children at different playgroups.

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發表於 04-9-15 05:39 |只看該作者

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Alanchoi,

Really! I thought most children like to play together with other children. I think not many kids like to play alone as they always need someone to accompany or play with them. So do you mean you've seen kids at playgroups who like to play by themselves?

We're not easy to be good parents, but I believe it will be awarding later.

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Hello! I am King Liam I was born on July 1, 2003

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Miffy

Why I can see you in this topic? ?-( Long time no chat with you la, if you have some time, call me la,
we are go to tea tea

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發表於 04-9-16 19:38 |只看該作者

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JellyBeanD,

As my Alan goes to those playgroup required to have parent/adult accompanying with the kid to the class, most of the kids will stick to their parent/maid rather than playing with other kids. But certainly I hope Alan could learn to play with other kids.

In the playgroup, the teacher do encourage the children to do the work together with other kids. e.g. tidy up the toys and share the toys with other...

But be patient, they will learn

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miffy,

Alan都係10月至返nursery, 而家我比佢每日visit下間學校, 希望佢會對間學校有歸屬感和佢可以同d老師熟落d, 點知我工人話比我知, 佢而家已有d抗拒返啦, 成日要我工人陪佢入去, 一係就唔肯入,

我而家好擔心佢10月返時唔知點算.

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alanchoi,

Thanks for your advise! I just knew from my friend, most of kids can start go to play school from 18mths, so I have to check which one is good in London. I moved here only 2 & half mth, and no friends & relatives are there. Actually, I dont know where can I ask for this information! :evil: I'll try to ask our health visitor I think they should be know but may not be tell me which one is best. Also I'll ask my hubby to check with his colleagues too, hope can get some idea soon.

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Miffy,

I dont have any good advise to you, but I think every kids are unique. No one understand him more than you. I believe your son will enjoy his school life once he gets some interesting things & friends. Dont remember for his age, they like to play all the time! Explain more to him, I guess he will understand or try to alanchoi's method let him to know more about his school!

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發表於 04-10-6 16:41 |只看該作者

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Dear all ~~

終於有番部電腦。Miss you all ~~

Winsome ~
知到你地攪完gathering，你地一定talk得好盡情。忻忻講野一定好叻，佢仲返playgroup?天天返pre-school，每朝三個鐘。

AlanChoi ~
唔好意思，因為冇左部腦兩個半月，本來冧住比D receipies你。

Posemom~
你同左姪女補習，朝體會到而家D教學。有冇好似我吟要同佢地做project, esp. 上左中學。英文深嗎？

Hoyin 媽媽~~
浩浩講野清唔清楚？天天有好多發音都唔準。

Honeybee ~~
ＢＢ打完你後，有冇叫佢錫番你。不過即時要抱住佢，教佢唔好。拽拽後要同佢講數。

Miffy/Moody ~
我以前都同你地一樣。Quit左份job去揍仔，每日都好似部機器吟，老公仲以為我日日都同BB訓覺好嘆。天天都到處攪事，好煩。我會比佢玩煮飯仔，會比D菜佢砌下，叫佢炒菜煲湯，駛開佢。

Jellybeand ~~
有冇人幫你揍BB，睇來你都enjoy with your BB。

talk later ~~

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hi all,
i 've started to be a FTM on 23rd Sept
nice to meet u all here

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Hi all~

我是新手媽咪. 有一事想請教各位. 我的BB現在17o個月. 最近不知何故她常常"摟計", 如有不滿, 她就大哭大鬧

. 真不知如何是好. 請各位建議一些好方法.

大小姐自拍照. :-o :-D ;-)

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發表於 04-10-11 07:29 |只看該作者

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Tin-tin mami,

Glad to hear you got your computer again!

Please keep chatting in this forum.

Of course not, we hvnt got any helper in London, so you're right, my son always "with" me

Everyday like a "war"! :evil:

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Hello! I am King Liam I was born on July 1, 2003

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Hi Jodiemama,

Welcome to join this forum!

I guess your daughter feels sometimes frustrate if she cannot do what she wants. Have you tried to comfort her or explain how to do things? If she is naughty for no reason, I would suggest to punish her. For example, I put my son in his playpen & let him calm down. But I tell him why he is being punished so he can learn.

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Jellybeanyd

Thanks for your reply. I did punish her after my explaination doesn't work. Perhaps she is a such a stubborn girl that she won't give up until I give up first.

Right now, I just punish her (

大小姐自拍照. :-o :-D ;-)

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