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太誇獎喇..
我只係老吾老以及人之老, 幼吾幼以及人之幼.
自已受過嘅要prevent new comer 行番同一條路
要多謝, 不如多謝我過世嘅嫲嫲, 同喺HK嘅daddy, mommy, 如果冇佢哋嘅身教, 我估我今日會好唔一樣...
仲要多謝肥bear老公喇...雖然佢開始成日埋怨..但都ok喇

原帖由 ellie79 於 09-4-13 08:07 AM 發表
如果呢個世界多幾個 Nillie_Mami 就會好和平啦^^
有心去無私咁幫人既人...就係買少見少啦...

多謝晒呀~

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Nillie_Mami
復活節去了4天旅行,未看你留言. 我第一次入境去美國13/12/08 至28/12/08 2個星期, 香港有1間自住屋,
美國會去叔仔居住一陣子,以後買屋學車,係6月21日走.
真的很多謝意見.

原帖由 Nillie_Mami 於 09-4-7 20:58 發表
for the first landing, how long are you going to stay?
are you staying with relatives?
how much investment you have in HK?
are you going to be stay in US for good?

As I came here for good on my firs ...

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好開心響呢度認識你Nillie_Mami...
希望我有一日去到美國可以見到你親自同你say hello & thank you!!!
我祝你既小朋友身體健康!!! 事事順景!!!
(好似好行貨...但係我真人多謝您)

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tell the truth, I had met many moms around US in these 2 years. And most of them are not living in NY state.
When they landed, they came over to visit us. Some of them stayed for a night, so my kids can play with their kids.
Some of them would like to check the living style in NY, so they come and have a check.
My husband is a buddish, so he believes that to help the others, will build good fortune for our children.
sigh.. pen power doesn't work, so can't really express my feeling.
which state are you going? we have guess rooms, so if you want, you can come. Free Bed and breakfast.. haha

原帖由 ellie79 於 09-4-14 12:08 AM 發表
好開心響呢度認識你Nillie_Mami...
希望我有一日去到美國可以見到你親自同你say hello & thank you!!!
我祝你既小朋友身體健康!!! 事事順景!!!
(好似好行貨...但係我真人多謝您) ...

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C1997,
It is good, go to US, and get your green card done. as the first land must within 6 months.
then, within the first year since the day on your visa, you will have 1 year unlimited re-entry to US. within this year, you can fly as many as you want.
then, once you get your greencard. Have your bro in law mail it to you.
the next time when you come back to US. If you are not staying here for good. Please apply for I-131 to keep your legal status.

Now, when you are still in hk, online and search the area you want to buy the house, do some research ahead. if your bro-in-law is willing to help, have him to check with the real estate ppl.
house should be good price this period. the interest rate is pretty low. about 4.875% +/- 0.5%
Good luck

原帖由 c1997 於 09-4-13 10:36 PM 發表
Nillie_Mami
復活節去了4天旅行,未看你留言. 我第一次入境去美國13/12/08 至28/12/08 2個星期, 香港有1間自住屋,
美國會去叔仔居住一陣子,以後買屋學車,係6月21日走.
真的很多謝意見.

...

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我會去LA...不過都唔係呢一兩年既事...你都知點解啦...haha
我肯定我有機會去NY既~ 到時我一定會去探你地!~

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ellie79,
你land 嘅時侯就同老公嚟NY探我哋喇... Amanda 同肥bear 老公都識spanish.. 有伴呀..
到時, Gabriel 都4-5歲, 會好好玩囉

我哋最顛嗰次係教BK媽咪自由行去FL disneyworld, 跟住走落去meet 佢哋... 一見面就認到對方, 好似失散多年嘅姐妹咁, 又喊又笑.. 我哋返HK又會揾佢哋出嚟飲茶. 感覺好真好親切

原帖由 ellie79 於 09-4-14 06:53 AM 發表
我會去LA...不過都唔係呢一兩年既事...你都知點解啦...haha
我肯定我有機會去NY既~ 到時我一定會去探你地!~

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發表於 09-4-15 20:59 |只看該作者

好呀~~~ 一於咁話...我地就keep住聯絡呀!
邊位係Amanda? 都係呢度既朋友?

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Amanda 係我大女, 佢而家5歲半, Gabriel 係細仔, 而家2歲4個月, 一樣咁电, 唉! Amanda佢喺 NY/NJ 媽咪會個花名叫 "打不死1號" 問你怕未?? 我哋有2-30個小朋友... Amanda 係至电同硬淨嗰個... 唉!滕條打都唔喊...

原帖由 ellie79 於 09-4-15 07:59 AM 發表
好呀~~~ 一於咁話...我地就keep住聯絡呀!
邊位係Amanda? 都係呢度既朋友?

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咁Amanda咪tough囉...呢d小朋友...大個咗先唔會比人蝦呀~ (不過佢蝦人就另計呀下~

)
人地話呢一代既細路好唔同...學野快到不得了...講都唔信...
我今年都30歲...我亞媽話我細個同蕃薯一樣...

咁佢錫唔錫細佬架?

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同我哋細個時咪一樣, 好嗰唓時糖痴荳, 掙玩具時水溝油, 但80%時間攬頭攬頸多囉...
家姐唔俾我哋打細佬, 細佬見家姐整親而喊...感情..明顯比我哋個代豐富, 因為我哋呢一代, 學識表達愛. 孩子唔會收埋自己嘅情感呢

原帖由 ellie79 於 09-4-16 02:54 AM 發表
咁Amanda咪tough囉...呢d小朋友...大個咗先唔會比人蝦呀~ (不過佢蝦人就另計呀下~ )
人地話呢一代既細路好唔同...學野快到不得了...講都唔信...
我今年都30歲...我亞媽話我細個同蕃薯一樣...

咁佢錫唔錫細佬架? ...

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我細個同埋d cousins響亞婆屋企...亞婆"臭"大...80%打交多haha...4-5個細路...而家小朋友幸福好多...

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原帖由 Nillie_Mami 於 09-4-15 22:04 發表
Amanda 係我大女, 佢而家5歲半, Gabriel 係細仔, 而家2歲4個月, 一樣咁电, 唉! Amanda佢喺 NY/NJ 媽咪會個花名叫 "打不死1號" 問你怕未?? 我哋有2-30個小朋友... Amanda 係至电同硬淨嗰個... 唉!滕條打都唔喊... ...

Nillie,
我個Amanda都係好硬淨,試過佢同哥哥爭坐我隔離,咁啱佢隻手揸個硬膠block,佢一忟一嘢打落哥哥度,哥哥即時成為有樓人士,喊到cc吓,我話Amanda唔啱,叫佢講sorry同錫番哥哥,佢c人都唔講,仲好惡咁話no,之後我唔理佢,錫番仔仔,佢居然大聲喊,好似佢係受害人咁. 佢真係好硬頸,開始有脾氣,學嘢學得好快,我估係有樣學樣,人人聽佢講嘢都唔信佢得20個月. 唔通個個叫Amanda都係咁?

花旗太太生活在花旗國，留意時差，你問我未必即時答到。

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may be because they also have the name start with letter "A"... very high self esteem.. haha..
Gabriel is the one who behaves badly at home, Bite and hit Amanda all the times. Amanda won't fight back.. because that is her own little bro.
she will cry and say that it is not right, Gabriel.
Gabriel will never say sorry... subborn?? I got one at home too... sigh...

原帖由 rose-mag 於 09-4-18 02:43 AM 發表

Nillie,
我個Amanda都係好硬淨,試過佢同哥哥爭坐我隔離,咁啱佢隻手揸個硬膠block,佢一忟一嘢打落哥哥度,哥哥即時成為有樓人士,喊到cc吓,我話Amanda唔啱,叫佢講sorry同錫番哥哥,佢c人都唔講,仲好惡咁話no,之後我唔 ...

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我剛移民到美國滿十個月, 初到時只能同屋企人同住, 但發覺相處相當困難, 佢地都出哂聲唔鐘意咪搬出去. 我真係好想搬出去, 但又剛遇到經濟衰退. 而我地仲有兩個小朋友, 所以得我老公出去做工, 人工又極之少. 係美國又因言語問題好難揾到較好既工作. 我只係求小朋友大些我都可以出去做工. 若果唔係金融風暴, 我地之前既投資還可買到樓, 依家真係渣都冇, 所有野都唔係我地預計之內. 我好想能夠揾到有協助幫我地搬出去過新生活. 但真係唔知有咩機構可暫時幫到我. 不過我諗以我地只不過來這裏一年, 根本冇人幫到我地. 我一心絶冇想過來美國靠協助. 一生既辛辛苦苦儲蓄冇哂, 為左對仔女諗住馬死落地行投靠住屋企人, 點知全部都唔係我預料之內......返香港又唔係(已經沒有可住既地方同工作), 留係美國又唔係(與父同繼母不協調).....真係好想死鬼左去好過, 可能會舒服D....但又唔寫得兩個小朋友....

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What city/state do are you in US? Do you have friends besides your 屋企人 in the US? Do you have any religon or go to any church? Sometimes people from church have connection and may be able to help. I heard people can get aids (food stamp, free medical insurance etc) if their income qualify certain criteria (so more portion of the income can go to rent etc). I am not sure if new-imigrant can qualify for those (do they have those sponsor support thing or if your husband/you already had green card for a long time but just settle in the US 10 months ago). I heard frmo the radio that there are centers that can help new-imigrant (from San Francisco)... I don't know which location you are at. Maybe someone can find out more information for you if we know you location.

I understand it is tough for this economy but if you have a healthy body, try your best to 忍耐 and

錢可以賺回來. can wait for 雨過天清的日子. Stay strong.

原帖由 traci 於 09-4-22 01:21 發表
我剛移民到美國滿十個月, 初到時只能同屋企人同住, 但發覺相處相當困難, 佢地都出哂聲唔鐘意咪搬出去. 我真係好想搬出去, 但又剛遇到經濟衰退. 而我地仲有兩個小朋友, 所以得我老公出去做工, 人工又極之少. 係美國 ...

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bunnymonkey,

多謝你既安慰, 如果我住係大城市我諗個情緒會好d, 至少可以識到中國人傾訴下. 我住係中部colorado州fort collins市, 真係好難見到有中國人, 除非你走入中國餐館, 呢度就算你入中國餐館, 你只可能見老板係中國人, 所以食客都係外國人多. 就算比你見到黑頭髮既人, 都只係日本人多...總之一d人氣都冇, 我係呢度連親戚都冇, 唔好話朋友...我真係正正式式咁坐監......我地冇宗教信仰. 就算有, 入到church又唔識溝通.......總之依家個感覺好似等死咁....我真係好羨慕你地住係大城市, 有咩事都有好多中國人協助....如果我連健康既身體都冇, 我諗我一早自我了斷. 我只係担心我兩個小朋友, 好似我害左佢地來到呢度咁......真係唔知可以做到咩......

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你好呀Traci,

你唔好咁唔開心先啦~ 有咩野都可以慢慢解決既~
雖然我唔響美國又未小朋友, 但係我都響香港同屋企人住, 亦有你呢個情況, 就算果個係自己老豆感覺好似"寄人離下"咁, 投資失利, 又好似番唔到轉頭咁...
但係我覺得有咩係解決唔到喎...成條命響度...有手有腳...唔會饑得死既...佢唔鐘意既一係就"pea"晒你地野出街...佢唔"pea"既就照留響度囉...比人鬧又唔會痛...佢鬧得多都口臭啦...由佢囉...忍屎忍尿都要忍...大人無所謂呀...細路就點都要比個地方住既...過多一兩年環境好d既...咪搬走囉...d細路又大dd...到時又有另外d辦法解決架啦...
死無用架...到時你死左得番你老公同兩個細既...果時仲慘過你而家呀...所以唔好比佢發生啦~

世界咁大...一定會有好人既...可能聽日你去supermarket識到d新朋友呢...who knows! 唔洗羨慕住係大城市喎...大有大住...細有細好...總之咩都好...好好睇睇住自己&兩個細...比老公安心咁去搵錢...4個人一條心咪得囉!

加油呀!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Traci,
You can take a look of the website of City of Fort Collins www.fcgov.com and you can search for some information. I found an affordable housing program, CDBG & Home program which may be of some help if you want to own your home but not able to afford the market rate. How old are your kids? You can check if there's any financial aids program for says daycare, preschool tuition, etc. You may be qualified for some benefits after the 1st year. Food stamps, WIC are nationwide programs to subsidize people of low income group (not sure the eligibility requirements) and women with infants and children. But, I'm not living in CO, I'm not sure about how these programs run there. You can try to contact the city office and find out the requirements and eligibilities if you need to apply. You can also request for a social worker to help your family.

Do not feel bad of getting help. If you need to, it's not a problem. I had collected unemployment some years before. Since I paid taxes, I'd the rights to get some help when I need to.

Stay strong. It's always difficult at the beginning when you settle in a place which is totally new to you. I have been in US for more than 5 years and I still cannot 100% get used to it. However, your strength and ways to deal with living would set a good model for your kids. Think about them who would have a better environment (better air, more green....) to grow up and you should be fully charged with energy.

[ 本帖最後由 rose-mag 於 09-4-23 02:12 編輯 ]

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