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yes, the $ for employ a local ee is almost the same as using yan yan (for cooking and basic cleaning).
And my mother will help me to take care of my kids at night. (after school).
However, for 2 of my kids goes for full day, I will use more $ for the school fee.
But I don't need to have a outsider live in my flat!!!!!

原文章由 lai_tat 於 08-10-15 16:46 發表
ac321,

咁要睇吓你自己應唔應付到又要返工, 又要湊子女, 又要煮飯做家務喇...

請ee都有over $4000, 請yan yan唔駛喎...

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I don't know it is good for my kids or not.

原文章由 lai_tat 於 08-10-15 16:46 發表
ac321,

咁要睇吓你自己應唔應付到又要返工, 又要湊子女, 又要煮飯做家務喇...

請ee都有over $4000, 請yan yan唔駛喎...

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-10-15 16:41 發表
Hi sisters,
Would you give me some suggestions?

My daughter will be in K1 next Sept. At that moment, my son will be in K2. (He is in K1 half day for a.m. now)
As my yan yan's contract will be ended i ...

我覺得各有各好，學lai_tat話齋，有yan yan就可幚你做哂D家務同煮飯。如果無，就要大家分工合作，如果c6合作一齊做，咁樣就可以成機教小朋友愛護自己屋企，能提高一家人既sense of belonging。但係如果c6唔合作，就做死自己，同埋搵交哎。真係要睇你自己既實際情況。

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ac321,

係呀,真係好辛苦架!妳仲要帶佢地去課外活動呢!
咁妳之前有無試過印印要返屋企2星期既日子呀?如果果時都得唔覺辛苦既都可以諗諗既,但
lai_tat又講得啱架,請ee都有over $4000, 請yan yan唔駛喎...

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ac321,

以你嘅觀察, 你個yan yan好唔好吖???

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-10-15 16:51 發表
I don't know it is good for my kids or not.

我覺得無yan yan對管教小朋友會好D。我見我D朋友既仔女都係大小姐，大爺，因為yan yan會幚佢地做哂D野。咁佢地又點識照顧自己？！

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原文章由 ume 於 08-10-15 16:56 發表

我覺得無yan yan對管教小朋友會好D。我見我D朋友既仔女都係大小姐，大爺，因為yan yan會幚佢地做哂D野。咁佢地又點識照顧自己？！

咁就要睇家長點教喇...

我老公個家姐有yan yan, 不過兩個仔女啲野, 佢自己都識得handle...
(由BB湊到而家4年級同中一...)

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my 實際情況 is that,
I don't know how to cook, I don't know how to take care of kids.
Before we have kids (after the first few years of getting marry), my husband cook for me, and I will do the basic cleaning.
And now, we plan to 分工合作 like this:
local ee: cook for dinner sometimes, cleaning in weekends (1 full day every week)
my mother: washing every morning (by washing mech.), take care of my 2 kids if we back home late, cook for us (if no ee that day)
husband: take care of 2 kids (if he is at home, holidays), play with them (go outside), cook (if no ee and mother), all heavy housework (such as buy fruits, go to super market, wet market ...)
me: teaching/follow home work of my 2 kids

原文章由 ume 於 08-10-15 16:53 發表
我覺得各有各好，學lai_tat話齋，有yan yan就可幚你做哂D家務同煮飯。如果無，就要大家分工合作，如果c6合作一齊做，咁樣就可以成機教小朋友愛護自己屋企，能提高一家人既sense of belonging。但係如果c6唔合作，就做死自己，同埋搵交哎。真係要睇你自己既實際情況。...

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Before this yan yan came, we have 2 or 3 months without yan yan and bun bun (I fried the old bun bun). Then, a ee help us in the evening. However, at that moment, all my 2 kids haven't goes to school. My husband, mother and ee share all the housework. (my son is 1.5 years old, and my daughter is 1or 2 months at that moment).
My husband and my mother 覺辛苦, not me because I did nothing to help them (I don't know how to take bath for new born baby, I don't know how to cook........

sorry to say that)

原文章由素兒於 08-10-15 16:53 發表
ac321,

係呀,真係好辛苦架!妳仲要帶佢地去課外活動呢!
咁妳之前有無試過印印要返屋企2星期既日子呀?如果果時都得唔覺辛苦既都可以諗諗既,但
lai_tat又講得啱架,請ee都有over $4000, 請yan yan唔駛喎... ...

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回覆 #850 ac321 的文章

如果係咁，有Yan Yan好D喎！

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發表於 08-10-15 17:30 |只看該作者

If for full day, then no need to go to 帶佢地去課外活動. It is because there are 課外活動 everyday inside his school in the evening.
yes, 請ee or yan yan almost the same price.

原文章由素兒於 08-10-15 16:53 發表
ac321,

係呀,真係好辛苦架!妳仲要帶佢地去課外活動呢!
咁妳之前有無試過印印要返屋企2星期既日子呀?如果果時都得唔覺辛苦既都可以諗諗既,但
lai_tat又講得啱架,請ee都有over $4000, 請yan yan唔駛喎... ...

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發表於 08-10-15 17:32 |只看該作者

I just don't like a outsider live in my flat.......

原文章由 ume 於 08-10-15 16:56 發表

我覺得無yan yan對管教小朋友會好D。我見我D朋友既仔女都係大小姐，大爺，因為yan yan會幚佢地做哂D野。咁佢地又點識照顧自己？！

[ 本文章最後由 ac321 於 08-10-15 17:39 編輯 ]

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-10-15 17:32 發表
I just don't like a outsider live in my falt.......

o i c，我都唔喜歡，不過如果無yan yan全天候幚忙，你媽媽和老公都會好辛苦喎！

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I think she is ok. not 'very good' but 'good'. She loves my kids, she work hard and quick. However, she wants to find a family without 'elder' people. Therefore, she may not want to renew the contract with me.

原文章由 lai_tat 於 08-10-15 16:54 發表
ac321,

以你嘅觀察, 你個yan yan好唔好吖???

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sorry呀,恕我直言
我就覺得幾辛苦架,以前的工作不是硬性去做,但沒工人後就變得一定要去做,eg買日常用品,必需品...
有時候在公司已然做得很疲倦回到家又要做太多煩所的工作,而且小孩太小,好多時要看緊些免生意外.
日日要返工,又要做家務係好辛苦架!
我認為妳既小朋友仲係太細個,佢地會成日係地下玩,所以地下要好乾淨.
我既小朋友就會成日食野或者玩,搞到地下好污jo,無姐姐既日子地下係唔見得人架!我又要返工喎!
三思啊!

原文章由 ac321 於 08-10-15 17:20 發表
my 實際情況 is that,
I don't know how to cook, I don't know how to take care of kids.
Before we have kids (after the first few years of getting marry), my husband cook for me, and I will do the basi ...

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發表於 08-10-15 17:44 |只看該作者

Therefore, if no yan yan , then I will send my 2 kids for full day school. 8:00am - 6:00 pm.

原文章由 ume 於 08-10-15 17:40 發表

o i c，我都唔喜歡，不過如果無yan yan全天候幚忙，你媽媽和老公都會好辛苦喎！

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yes, I know that.
It is because my yan yan always mud the floor (7-8 times per day). And my 2 kids like to play on the floor. My floor is as clean as my bed now!

原文章由素兒於 08-10-15 17:43 發表
sorry呀,恕我直言
我就覺得幾辛苦架,以前的工作不是硬性去做,但沒工人後就變得一定要去做,eg買日常用品,必需品...
有時候在公司已然做得很疲倦回到家又要做太多煩所的工作,而且小孩太小,好多時要看緊些免生意外.
日 ...

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Therefore, I am considering should I go ahead or not.
It is because I should to the school for full days or half days for my daughter when she have interview this sat.

原文章由素兒於 08-10-15 17:43 發表
sorry呀,恕我直言
我就覺得幾辛苦架,以前的工作不是硬性去做,但沒工人後就變得一定要去做,eg買日常用品,必需品...
有時候在公司已然做得很疲倦回到家又要做太多煩所的工作,而且小孩太小,好多時要看緊些免生意外.
日 ...

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