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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

Hi! all moms,

I am very upset this week, i didn't tell you last week that
my father is in hospital last Sat. I went to the hosptial
yesterday and discussed with doctor, and he is proved to have pancreatic cancer胰臟癌, needs to have a big surgery tomorrow to take away the bad cells, and actually the surgery will have high risk.. Those few days, i thought a lots, i suddenly find out that it is very happy that i became a mother, but my parents are getting older and older, which it is unavoidable to see some diseases, sickness on them. As a Christian, i really understand what the life is, and how we have to face with..however, at this moment, i really don't know how to say...

Ying Ma/Cherly/Ec822,
I think the kindergarten visit will be on schedule, Better leave T.K.O at 11:00, as i cannot visit him until 5:15 pm according to the regulation by the hospital. Also, all the things should still be proceeding .., right ? ( as i don't want to be too moody at home and think a lot of bad things.. ) unless any unexpected thing, i will cancel the appointment, and i will call you.
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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

Mon,

聽到這消息, 我為你感到難過, 其實我一直都有你的感受。我爸爸在我5歲時患有鼻咽癌, 那時我太細了, 不懂擔心和害怕, 但到我和妹妹都懂性以來, 每天都過著不知幾時會失去爸爸的日子, 直到現在, 雖然爸爸還健在, 我還是很害怕去想像他會離開。由於爸爸很年輕已開始生病, 他有很多願望都沒法實現, 所以我知道他對我們是很有期望的。我生玫瑰的部份原因都是希望爸爸能在有生之年抱孫, 實現他其中一個願望。

無論如何, 現代科學昌明, 希望你和家人都能樂觀面對。亦要提醒你媽媽好好保重身體, 因為你爸爸是很需要老伴的照顧, 支持和關懷, 這是子女都不能代替的。

Take care!

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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

Yuen Wa,
thanks much. I hope i can be released. However, our situation made me very sad. As i told you before, my sister has sickness also, and she immigrated to Australia last Aug, while my elder brother immirgrated to Canada last year Feb, which now in HK, only my big brother and me stay here. My brother in Canada already knew this bad news and he was very sad also, as he planned to come back in Sept with his family... now he is very contradicated about his plan.

Re my sister, right now we didn't tell her, my father loves her the most, he didn't want to bother her health, as her emotion will be affected if knowing it because of her sickness . My father strongly advised us not to tell her. However, i really think my sister has the right to know about this, .. on the other hand, she cannot leave Australia until Aug 2006 , otherwise she will lose the critizen in Australia, because she came back last Dec for her father-in-law, her father -in-law also got cancer last Dec, and my sister's family came back and spent time with him, then her father-in-law passed away last month, but my sister's family didn't come back.

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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

Mon,

It's really tough decision whether to tell your sister. I think you may tell her husband first to see whether your sister's emotion situation is suitable to take this news. I think there's no need to decide whether your brother and sister should come back to HK immediately, as they cannot arrive here before the surgery anyway.

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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

Mon
I feel so upset to hear this.
Wish God be with ou always.

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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

Mon,

How's yr father's operation? Hope he'll recover very soon.

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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

mon,

have called you few times, but cannot reach you. Just want to ask your situation and pls take care.

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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

多謝各位好姊妹,
我爸爸終於做了長達9 小時的手術, 他現在在
ICU, 情况穩定. 今天我3:30 離開公司, 再在醫院與
媽會合,但在手術室外等到6:00仍末見他做完.
當時的感受十分難捱,一邊不停講一些無謂野
令我媽分心, 一邊

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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

oh~mon
i am sorry to hear that!!! i could not come up here these days coz i was veryvery busy for work until 10pm everyday~~so tired. so i just knew that today.
pls don't feel alone, we are here to pray for you....& the god has his decidion, don't worry and take good care. you can't fall down now. your mum & moses need you.....

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發表於 05-5-15 22:08 |只看該作者

Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

昨天跟幫爸做手術的医生談他的
狀況, 他說原本只切除有腫樓的胰臟头,
開肚後發覺他的胰臟.
尾也委縮, 如留下來, 只會有多一个
Risk, 因駁回小腸的駁口很細, 有机會漏,
這樣就有并發症的可能. 故此現在他整个
胰臟, 小部分胃, 十二指腸, 部分
膽管也切除, 故此之前所講的risk 小了.
現在他仍在ICU, 情況很好, 手術出來也

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發表於 05-5-16 14:34 |只看該作者

Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

Also, sisters,

please keep praying for us, my dad is fine but my mom does not feel well on her stomach and she wants to take a rest these few days.
i don't understand why everything happens at the same time.

Re Moses, he sticks to me very much, yesterday when i visited my dad, and i let him stay with my mom and my aunts in the park near the hospital, he cried very heavily because both his dad and mom left him.
but he started to eat by himself , of course the floor will be very dirty, he refused to wear any bib.

Ying ma- you can also bring a plate with some cartoon for Ying YIng, then when you put the rice, noodles there, you can tell Ying Ying, after you finish all the rice or noodles, you can see Mickey and Donald, if you don't eat, they will not show up.
and moses also loves to use the Pooh's spoon,
it is a good way to train her to eat more.

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發表於 05-5-16 22:16 |只看該作者

Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

Mon,

提醒伯母保重身體, 可能她有些緊張, 所以胃部不適。你也要保重身體, 你父母很需要你啊!

玫瑰都開始自己食飯了, 當然天一半地一半, 所以我會在high chair底舖一張報紙, 方便清潔。我發現比玫瑰用小型中國匙羮, 她食得好些, 可能匙羮短些, 容易控制。

昨天我和老公帶玫瑰到愉景灣沙灘玩, 我發現玫瑰真是大個女, 佢可以一個人係我地傍邊玩沙, 不用我走來走去, 又不怕水, 肯在岸邊踢浪, 希望下次可以帶水泡出海了。

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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

Yuen Wa,

I don't think mother's illness is due to the stress, she told me
she found the area near her stomach was painful for long time,
but she didn't tell. . I will ask her to see the specialist
doctor.

when our babies are bigger and bigger, we are no longer younger and
younger, then our parents are older and older.. a lot of issues that
we have to face with.

Yes, Rose and Moses are now toddlers, they learned things very fast,
Moses now can brush his teeth and eat by himself, i am delighted to
see if he can wear his clothes by himself one day, but on the other
hand, i do miss the dates when he was a small baby.

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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

Mon,
你爸爸肯祈禱真好 ~ 是個好開始，你可繼續邀請他並教他說阿們，你爸爸心裡一定感受到你那份心意的，也希望禱告中聖靈大大感動他，你要努力啊！I will keep pray for your family!!
你媽看了專科醫生未？有消息就話比我哋知啦！

Dear all,
我哋今個星期六便是 pg 最後一堂，我建議先報 Graceful，原因：
1/ 我諗呢輪大家都各有各忙，亦沒時間去試堂，因此沒太多選擇
2/ ７月才開班，大家可以休息一下
3/ Graceful hands 都算有好評，一試無妨
4/ 大家出太子都算方便，地點只在 MTR 側

mon, Graceful hands 有冇話幾時要報名？

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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

Cherly,

Thanks for your care.
my mom is better now. she did visit the specialist yesterday, but the doctor only said she might be under stress. my mom prefers to take the medicine from the chinese herbal doctor.

my dad has been transferred from ICU to regular ward, however, the nbr of nurses are less there and they didn't offer him the pain-killer drops.
also, he cannot drink water after the operation, so he feels very dry and difficult, the nurse only allows us to wet his mouth, or drop a little bit water inside. my dad is grumbling that he prefers to die without any operation if he knows he cannot drink water after the operation. it made me so upset, i cannot help him but only pray to our God.
I will try to pray in front of him.

re playgroup
yes, everyone is busy, so this topic will also drop at the bottom soon.. agreed to enroll graceful hand, but i am busy at works , somethings happen on my subordinates so i am very busy to manage it .
could you please call Graceful hand to check again ?

other moms- how about your decision on PG?

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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

哎喲！！ Graceful hands 加咗價喎....

5:16 - 6:30 pm (Saturday) start from 02 July 2005
$1360/ 8 lessons = $170/lesson (75 mins)
$1980/12 lessons = $165/lesson (75 mins)

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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

Hi all,

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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

After discussing with my hubby, we decided not to enrol any playgroup for Rose, as Rose is going to school in October anyway. We are looking for swimming course for her now. However, I do wish that Rose can meet her friends regularly, perhaps once or twice per month. Do you guys agree that we keep meeting regularly?

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Re: 自組基教幼潛班1/22/05 (朗豪坊) ~ 分享園地 ~

yuenwa & all,

我哋下星期六 5/28 冇 pg 可以去沙灘玩喎！！

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