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原文章由 kerrielam 於 08-10-16 16:51 發表

仲有捐比dr 的$$$

噢！我暈喇！

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原文章由 kerrielam 於 08-10-16 16:46 發表

聽講好的育嬰院好快full booking
到時你覺得用外傭好方便d, 又可幫手清潔 & 放狗
而且平過用鍾點

加以你家有狗, 唔多唔少都會掉毛, 清潔地板多d, 對bb 健康都好d

祝你今個月派彩成功, 但千奇唔好有壓力
昨日朋友 ...

我心情ok架！我巳經做定最壞打算，如果真係生唔出就領養！
不過我都担心我會遇上你朋友個case，如果要我面對這些情況都唔知點好！

[ 本文章最後由 ume 於 08-10-16 17:01 編輯 ]

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Thanks for your kindness.
She have already had a Dr to follow up for years.

原文章由 kerrielam 於 08-10-16 15:00 發表

My mother also get high blood presure in these 2yrs.

your mother's blood pressure hv good control? taking medicine, i taught my mother to measure BP everyday,
now she's lazy, only measure once per ...

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回覆 #921 kerrielam 的文章

你都講得啱，真係請個外傭好d，不過我真係唔多喜歡有個外人在家住，感覺唔多好。
不過又要帶小孩，又要放狗，又要做家務，又要煮飯。而家D外傭咁醒，都未必願意接受offer！

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原文章由 ume 於 08-10-16 17:00 發表
你都講得啱，真係請個外傭好d，不過我真係唔多喜歡有個外人在家住，感覺唔多好。
不過又要帶小孩，又要放狗，又要做家務，又要煮飯。而家D外傭咁醒，都未必願意接受offer！ ...

請未曾在hk 做過的外傭, 米ok law, 我個bun bun 要清潔/ 照顧貓狗/ 照顧bb, 又唔可以次次放 sunday

佢暫時都ok, 因為hk 人工高d

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原文章由 kerrielam 於 08-10-16 17:40 發表

請未曾在hk 做過的外傭, 米ok law, 我個bun bun 要清潔/ 照顧貓狗/ 照顧bb, 又唔可以次次放 sunday

佢暫時都ok, 因為hk 人工高d

Thanks a lot！睇黎我真係要計清楚條數。
之前我仲大安指意諗住，多個BB最多就用多一萬囉！估唔到原來仲有咁多其他無諗過既開支！唔怪得我c6對生bb反應咁担心，原來真係有D壓力喎！

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發表於 08-10-17 00:31 |只看該作者

Agree that love and care are the most important thing for kids.
However, as 'responsible and loving' parents, you would also want to give your kids the best education. That's what I believe. For best education, I don't mean the traditional famous school, but happy and inspirational school (and after school education). Therefore I put my son into international school and a lot of after school activities (according to his real interest and for socializing purpose as he is our only kid). These cost us over HK$15,000 per month already !

Not to mention the 'inflation' of other costs due to bigger flat, maid, car (for outing and picnicking), overseas trip (for their exposure) etc. Of course you can say these are not necessary. But honestly, if those are 'affordable' to you, you as parents would rather sacrifice other expenses / savings to give your kid all these.

I used to say "it's not necessary la" when I was not yet a mother. But now, I share this 'philosophy' with many friends/colleagues of mine who are also parents.

It's really not easy to be a parent nowadays, as "the world is flat" and our kids are facing competition with the world population, not only HK or China or Asia.

But on the other hand, I think once my kid finishes all his education (probably bachelor or master), I would not help him financially anymore. I am against some parents' idea of buying a flat for their kids. Maybe becos my parents did not give me those but it did make me working harder and be more independent. I believe my most important role as parent is to give my kid the best education (at home and school), which should help him survive well for the rest of his life. That's the biggest asset for his lifetime. It's better than let him inherit a fortune from us.

Just my personal opinion.

Ruby

原文章由 ume 於 08-10-16 17:46 發表

Thanks a lot！睇黎我真係要計清楚條數。
之前我仲大安指意諗住，多個BB最多就用多一萬囉！估唔到原來仲有咁多其他無諗過既開支！唔怪得我c6對生bb反應咁担心，原來真係有D壓力喎！ ...

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原文章由 Ruby1219 於 08-10-17 00:31 發表
Agree that love and care are the most important thing for kids.
However, as 'responsible and loving' parents, you would also want to give your kids the best education. That's what I believe. For best ...

我都好認同呀！
我媽媽從小就對我說，讀書，學不同的課外活動就是我嫁粧，我攞得幾多就幾多。

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回覆 #1 ume 的文章

Ume,

You are lucky to have a mom like that. My parents love me very much but they are the old-generation. They sent me to school near home and no activities. I wanted to learn piano at that time but they did not allow me. : (

Ruby

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原文章由 Ruby1219 於 08-10-17 10:36 發表
Ume,

You are lucky to have a mom like that. My parents love me very much but they are the old-generation. They sent me to school near home and no activities. I wanted to learn piano at that time but ...

我媽媽是個不一樣的媽媽，在我成長的年代，她和其他媽媽好不同。我家很窮，由板間房住到去公屋。由於能力所限，我也是讀屋村學校。不過我媽寧願食少一點，著少D，其他地方省一點，都要比我地學多一點不同的課外活動。她的理論是，上課外活動課可以kill time，而且一定比無所事事在家、或是和隣家小孩玩樂好。
我媽永遠認為培養小孩的開支一定要排在最前。所以我即使是在公屋成長，但我幾姐弟妹小時郤學過piano、長笛、violin、單簧管、ballet、泳水、踏單車、畫畫、童軍‧‧‧等。雖然每方面，我們都不出色，但郤令我們長大後有足夠自信去行自己既路。但另一方面，我家從來不到茶樓飲茶，成日都食隔夜飯餸。我第一件自己賣的衫是在中三，之前大部份的衫都是親戚朋友送的，或者是媽媽造的。玩具也沒有，我最記得我的玩具都是用recycle paper自制的，還有一個媽媽用D爛衫做的公仔和我第一次考第一的百足寶寶。
其實我好認同媽媽的教育方法的。我相信我日後都以她的原則去教我的小孩。

[ 本文章最後由 ume 於 08-10-17 11:14 編輯 ]

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聽你地咁講, 真係好驚要養多個小朋友負擔唔到喎...

咁究竟生唔生好呀

???

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原文章由 lai_tat 於 08-10-17 12:03 發表
聽你地咁講, 真係好驚要養多個小朋友負擔唔到喎...

咁究竟生唔生好呀 ???

唔理咁多喇！生咗先算，平有平養貴有貴養囉！

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I don't know you conditions, it is difficult to give suggestions.

原文章由 lai_tat 於 08-10-17 12:03 發表
聽你地咁講, 真係好驚要養多個小朋友負擔唔到喎...

咁究竟生唔生好呀 ???

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發表於 08-10-17 13:59 |只看該作者

不過可以肯定嘅, 有咗小朋友之後, 一定唯持唔到我而家嘅生活質素囉...

俗啲講句, "分薄咗"...

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me too! =>一定唯持唔到我而家嘅生活質素
However, you will get extra happiness!!!

原文章由 lai_tat 於 08-10-17 13:59 發表
不過可以肯定嘅, 有咗小朋友之後, 一定唯持唔到我而家嘅生活質素囉...

俗啲講句, "分薄咗"...

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我估如果我真係有咗BB的話，我相信我會手緊咗，而家都叫做有D錢儲下，感覺上經濟都充裕。不過有BB之後，或者經濟的壓力會大了點，只能儲佷少的錢。

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係呀, 到時唔可以成日去旅行喇...

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