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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

Yeeki, JSTN,
你哋住邊架?? Sunday 嚟唔嚟玩呀!!

Carrie,
Potty Training message喺呢喥..

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

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日間小朋友介尿片
-正如我每一次所講, 小朋友每一個都係獨一無二..所以, 如有出入, 唔駛担心...當小朋友心智,體能準備好, 就係時候介片..
以下係表示小朋友已準備好可以介片嘅訊息:
一. 小朋友明白字面解釋—如小便, 急唔急, 去厠所,..etc.
二. 小朋友可以hold到2個鐘頭小便.
三. 小朋友識嗌 “急尿” …就算遲咗, 都係好嘅, 因為佢有意識—尿急.
四. 小朋友可以無需協助自已著同除褲
五. 小朋友可以無需協助自己踏上厠所腳踏
如果以上五點都做到… 你個小朋友已經準備好喇!

1.夏天介尿片比冬天好, 因為小朋友開頭介片, 時有失手.. 好易凍親. 夏天就算濕咗, 換衫都易啲!
2.擇日--- 哈!哈!…係揀假期… 同小朋友去shopping…買一本(星期曆) 同可愛超細貼紙… 如果唔想買, 可以share大人個月曆俾小朋友掛喺佢自己嘅地方同用maker畫公仔代替貼紙公仔
3.同小朋友解釋,點解以後唔著片, 有小朋友會好抗拒, 做父母就唔好強行同佢介, 咪佢一疴濕褲仔, 就會好嬲大人令佢出羞,亦好嬲自已唔爭氣…如果介片時, 小朋友有壓力, 就只會 [事倍功半]
4.頭幾日介片不宜外出, 因為出一轉街可能會濕幾次… 因為小朋友會冇安全感, 所以, 明明未急, 但都會濕咗褲仔.(心理障礙)
5.每2小時嗌小朋友去小便一次, 急唔急都要 ‘排空膀胱’ , 尤其係佢集中精神睇電視, 玩玩具, 遊戲, 睇故事書, 一定要帶佢入厠所同坐一陣厠所, 就算真係冇小便都冇防. 之後教佢沖厠同洗手
6.如果小朋友喺厠所小便就獎勵小朋友, 貼一個貼紙或劃一個公仔上去星期曆上
7.當日晚上, 就喺晚餐時mention 當日有幾多次成功… 等小朋友嘅爸爸好開心咁稱讚小朋友
***小朋友鐘意人讚, 切忌挑佢有幾多次失敗….***
***當濕褲仔, 要正面, 一.要立即更換衣服, 二.要同小朋友解釋, ‘意外係會發生, 下次我哋再早小小去厠所小便咯, 仲有下次就算只有小小急都話俾大人知,立刻去厠所!’ ***
***介日間尿片時, 夜晚要繼瀆用片啊!, 因為日頭,小朋友巳有唔小壓力, 不宜同時介夜片, 因為只會苦咗大人同小朋友, 你只會不停同佢換衫換床單, 想介夜片, 宜待小朋友介掉日間尿片2星期, 而一晚通宵, 小朋友都冇濕片, 先好開始試
祝介日間尿片成功!

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

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如何小孩可以兩星期日間全部bingo..去厠所小便, 而又試過一覺瞓醒都係乾嘅呢..即係話...小朋友可以試o下介夜片lu.
一.鋪一張防水墊於床中間1/3位置或更濶,上面才鋪床單, 以防有時忍唔倒而整濕床, 因為床褥濕係好難乾,加上尿味和漬係好難清理
二.多準備兩套睡衣,毛巾和床單被鋪(夏天時記得..濕咗身嘅小朋友吹到冷氣好易凍親,如濕咗床,請先關上風扇冷氣)
三.睡前3小時介飲料(晚飯後就唔好飲咁多水喇..咪會成晚疴尿
四. 睡前小便
五. 放小朋友個厠所仔(痰罐仔--香港)於床邊..
六. 半夜叫小朋友起身小便...如巳濕床,第二晚便早多半個鐘叫醒小朋友去小便.
注意! 每個小朋友都唔同,所以盡量避免比較小朋友,边個介片介得快,靚,正....尤其係盡量避免喺小朋友面前講太多,大人講者無心,小朋友聽者有意, 小朋友聽到,一啲都唔好受..咁做只會增加佢哋嘅壓力同令介片嘅時間拖長

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

中文版- 介片第一步之介便便片

教小朋友去厠所便便(大便)
請記住, 每一個小朋友都係獨立個體, 獨一無二嘅, 請唔好攞小朋友同兄姐或親友嚟做比較, 而且以生理發展, 女孩子會俾男孩子學嘢快… 媽咪們, 放鬆啲喇… ^o^
好多長輩會迫自己個女或親抱同自己個孫坐厠所…細至2-3個月BB根本未ready嘅, 我都聽過….但咁做會好易整親BB脊骨, 宜三思而行.
小朋友便便習慣係可以培養出嚟嘅, 已識自己坐嘅小朋友係可以每日由大人訓練佢定時去便便, 但當然, 想---事倍功半, 就睇吓BB有冇俾signal你哋…
如果BB ready, 有以下嘅行為表現, 代表BB可以介便便片, 坐厠所大便lu ^o^
BB在 ‘老’大便..但又唔疴落片喥, 但, 當你一除片, 佢就便便同show俾你知à佢已 “舒服晒”, 其實即係話….媽咪爹哋, 我可唔可以去厠所便便…?我唔想整污糟自己個pat pat啊!!!
起初想訓練小朋友/BB 時, 可以除BB條片用手抱ＢＢ, 大家同一方向, ＢＢ背脊對住大人心口…
每日重覆喺BB臨 “便便” 嘅時間, 同佢練習除片疴 ‘便便’.
留意: 起初BB 係會唔慣, 又因為BB冇安全感, 同唔喺佢急時同佢便便, 可能未必會成功, 大人要耐心Ｄ…
而大約七至八個月大BB們排便比較有規律(而且已開始坐穩唔會跌)…
pattern 有Ｄ一日一次, 二日一次, 有啲一日兩次… 有D係上午便便, 有Ｄ早餐後, 午睡後…個個唔同…..
當BB試過幾次大人抱住唔著片便便時, BB會慢慢學識 ‘便便’ 係佢下一樣要學嘅嘢.
咁大人係時候帶BB去shopping la… heehee… BB厠所有啲係成座嘅, 有啲用痰罐仔, 有啲用BB厠所板…適隨專便.
就喺第二日介紹BB厠所俾BB, 同教BB坐上去
BB坐厠所時,如果, 大人最好雙手要扶住BB兩邊腋下, 同不要單獨留下BB…
此時可以同BB傾吓計, 講故事, 令時間易過啲, 但唔好祈望BB會立刻識便便落厠所… BB需要時間, 學識呢個新技巧.
每一次坐厠所以18分鐘為限, 如果, BB唔想坐厠所, 就俾BB離開 (因為佢哋只有5分鐘嘅專注力)
如果BB係用BB厠所板, 會易控制啲, 因為BB想 ‘走佬’ 都唔得…哈哈..--- > 小小殘忍..
無論小朋友/BB 喺廁所 ‘放脾脾” , 小便或便便都要稱瓚佢…. 讚賞係正面學習嘅原動力.
BB就會知道 ‘便便’ 喺厠所係 Good boy/ Good Girl
當時間到/ 巳小便/ 便便, 就教小朋友/BB 同厠所講 byebye. 之後沖厠俾BB睇.
最後, 最重要嘅係…. 洗手液洗手….唔只係你, BB都要.. 15秒時限, 等於一首生日歌或一首兒歌, 同時呢首歌代表每次排便訓練完結
緊記..
1.個人衛生係由小做起, 建立慨念, 非一朝一夕..
2.每日唔好多過2次訓練
3.小朋友有時會疴咗落片, 你冇錯, BB都冇錯, 所以唔好鬧同罰BB啊!
祝介便便片順利!
Have Fun.

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

thankyou you like my description. I'm 24 yrs old mom, i live in new jersey, how about you? i livein hk beforei think i'm too early to do a mommy...

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

dear mavis,
if you want be a breastfeel mom, i think you will like this nursing cover,it's very nice! I bought one already~
http://www.bebeaulait.com/
hope you like this

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

yeeki,
今個sunday 你有冇空呀??
嚟唔嚟 staten island.. ?? 我哋開大食會呀!!

all moms in NY and NJ,
又係時候 mention 1次喇..
如果有揸車, 又用EZPass嘅你哋, 去EZPass個web site喥 apply car pool 啊!
所有由New Jersey 過new york 嘅toll (Port authority嘅toll)
每次使用 Holland tunnel, Lincoln Tunnel, Outer bridge, Bayyond bridge, Garthon (spelling error) bridge 3個人or more 都係USD $1咋!! 出入 NY & NJ 可以慳好多架
記住唔係 staten island橋.. 佢個car pool 只俾住喺島嘅住客用架..

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

dorisbee

我地又見面lu....我搵左D碟about Disney ga for Sai sai..因聽你地上次話想搵...我有多麻hehe!!到時比你啦

http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/rachelhahaworld/

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

Nelly
大食會,正呀~~不過老公話我地冇車會好麻煩去呀, 我地係要carpool呀, 但如搵唔到, 我地為有下次gathering先join啦. , will pm u my address and mobile
多謝你個中文版potty trainning呀, 我想share呢個info比我0604既mami知, will copy it to there, thanks so much for your help.

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

Carrie,
No Problem.. ^o^

我會問肥bear 老公 car pool OK 唔OK.. ^O^
你copy 個message過去喇.. 係我2年前寫嘅.. 希望work for 香港媽咪喇!
記住話佢哋知.. potty training係冇得逼架!

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

Nelly,
岩岩睇左天氣report, 話今個星期日會好冷呀,得番40度or lower啵( 因有storm), 咁點呀?

係呀,我copied左去果邊啦, 我地d 4 月bb既mami都係時候睇多d呢d野,佢地見到都好開心呀.

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

All ny mami,
We already have plans this sunday. it's ryan's daddy's bday so we'll not join this time la.. hope you girls have fun..

Marvis,
I just passed by 79th St/Ave? today, it's very close to where I live, like just 2-3 blocks away.. Will you wanna come out sometimes next week when it's a lil warmer? we can see if Jayne wanna join too.. maybe we can go out for lunch together? I will get my car next week so we don't have to walk all the way down there ne.. =)

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

dorisbee,
u finally leave msg la....miss sai sai so much ler....is he behaving better now?

babygigi,
my husband will start to take days off after this week ar...my back pain is so hurt that i can't do much things at home, besides, he wants to quit his current job...so he will be off for few weeks to help me....u still can ask me out though, i want eddy to play more with ryan, maybe go to daycare together ler

mavis,
can you leave your phone # to me or babygigi? so we can ask you out when the weather is good....i will also pm you my number, you can call me anytime :lol:

甘多位靚媽﹐
我呢排訓得好差﹐夜晚遲遲都訓唔著﹐早上 eddy 又早起身﹐我覺得個人好累。依家個肚晚晚都好頂﹐好似要爆甘﹐日頭就好似月經痛甘﹐就身唔自在﹐上胎都唔係甘既。呢 d 係咪宮縮呀﹖係咪就生啦﹖唔知點解﹐總係覺得呢一兩個星期就生得。

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

Jayne,
It's good that your hubby takes a few weeks off from work so he can help a bit when you're sitting moon. You're planning to let Eddy jai to go to Happy Dragon too? hahaha.. maybe we can chk out the school sometime after you 坐完個靚月and see if the school is good.
It was so hard for me when it was the last month when I carried Ryan too.. couldn't really sleep in the whole month... I just slept/napped in a sitting position putting lots of pillows on my back and legs.. luckily the labor wasn't that long.. hehe

Nillie,
Have you recieved a letter from Dr. Wong, Alan's office yet? It's really sad that he's relocating to FL. He is a very very good pedi... I am sure lots of his patients are going to miss him ne.. :-|
Have you decided which pedi Amenda's gonna switch to yet? I'll probably let Ryan to try one of them in my living area if she's taking our ins (recommaned by Jayne), and see how she is.

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

babygigi,

That will be great. I'm expecting the next gathering. Pls check pm.

[img align=right]http://tac.families.com/ezb/884014.png[/img]

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

jayne,

I've pm you and babygigi my phone no. pls check pm.

I have similar situation as you. I can't sleep till very late at night. I think it is almost the time to deliver the baby.

Last night I have a dream that my baby is delivered.

[img align=right]http://tac.families.com/ezb/884014.png[/img]

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

Jayne,
Sai Sai is doing great except being very attached to me. (Not much time for myself lor :-( ) I think he is bored at home as we went out a lot in HK. Moreover, he met so many people (grandparents, auntie, uncle, cousins) there while only mommy and daddy here. I guess he knows the difference. That’s why he always wants me to play with him. I hope the winter will pass soon and we can go to the park more often la.

Nillie,
Sorry, we can’t join your gathering this Sunday as we have another gathering in Church. Hope you guys have a great time la! Take more lovely pictures wor…

Rachel,
Sorry we can’t meet you this time. Could you leave them to Nillie or you can give us the next time we meet. Thanks in advance!!

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

Yeeki,
I am a stay home mom with a 25 months old son named Joshua (we call him Sai Sai). We live in Brooklyn. Which part of New Jersey are you living? We have considered moving to NJ but not sure which county/district is good for kids. Any recommendation?

Carrie,
We are paying $950 for a two-bedroom apartment. The neighborhood is ok and is close to a subway station. However, the school district is no good and we will move when Sai Sai gets older. Which part of Brooklyn are you considering? I guess the rent for a one bed room apartment in my neighborhood is around $800. But it will take at least 45 minutes to an hour to Chinatown. I heard Park Slope is a very nice area and it is very close to Manhattan. But the rent will be a lot higher lor.

How’s Nat Nat doing? Have you both adjusted to the NY time zone yet?

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Re: Any mom living in USA now (Part V)

Nillie, Jayne, Babygig, Rachel, Mavis, Iamballball,

My friend told me Johnsons and Johnsons have a welcome package for new parent. This comes and includes coupons for free full-size J&J products. You just have to call 1-800-526-3967 choose options1-1-1 and they will send them to you.

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