damiergirl 寫道:
From my brother's experience, I feel that having distance (not being close) with my hubby's family will cause less trouble. Feels like we are not very familiar with each other will give more respect to each other. Do you agree??
JennyKwok 寫道:
crickey, 我奶奶同妳個奶奶差唔多, 又係見到$就開眼,老公個份糧除左供車, 供樓及家用外,己經所剩無幾,佢還要我老公給她每月$5,000買野食(因他未結婚及未買樓時,都有比)但今時唔同往日呀麻!生左bb真係一濶三大架麻,佢真係唔係好識得為個仔著想, 佢話咯, 親情不及錢重要咯,你話唔得佢死呀!!
非常非常同意 "佢真係唔係好識得為個仔著想",不過我老公唔 "bye"我諗法,佢認為就算佢阿媽有多餘錢使,例如每年必去1-2次旅行,六十歲人跟潮流換手電,頻頻招乎自由行親友(住食..)....都係啱既。佢冇諗過比少d佢阿媽用喺我地依個家作不時之需。孝順喎!但佢又知唔知佢自己仲有責任供樓,養兒,比佢自己進修錢....我地自己都好少去"嘆"下,佢老母就....我真係好激氣,見到佢阿媽仲帶隻鑽介,氣頂到上心口!!!見到佢咁"種"佢阿媽,又氣頂又心灰。
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