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Re: 有冇四十歲左右準媽咪?? 大家傾傾苦與樂!

包B

我估你未辭職既, 因為之前幾年, 我成日諗住搵到工先走, 一路係咁send信, 都係得一,二間見過下工咋, 仲要見親都話, 我地想請個可以即時番工既人, 車....把鬼...咁咪叫我黎啦.

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Re: 有冇四十歲左右準媽咪?? 大家傾傾苦與樂!

唉!!!
個個要返工的媽咪最愁就係仔女的學業，我一直以來都勁夜放工，一年都冇5天的 week days 是在正常的晚飯時間可以在屋企食飯。
自已知自已事，所以我個仔讀國際學校其中一個原因，是我知我的工作時間唔容許我可以跟貼他的功課；我唔想因為我不能配合而影響成績.........

要在工作家庭都安排得成功、取得平衡，談何容易!!

stmummy 寫道:
forty+,

You are right. The role of women is much more complicated nowadays. Luckily my job is not so demanding. Otherwise I just can't manage my daughters' studies after work. When my boss is away, I will make use of the time to prepare work sheets or papers for them. As their ages are so close (P5 & P3) so it's very difficult to finish the work before they go to sleep at 1000. You can imagine how rush it is.

I'm so slow in typing Chinese although I know it's much more 傳神.

Stmummy

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發表於 05-3-22 21:01 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇四十歲左右準媽咪?? 大家傾傾苦與樂!

Dear HPChingchingma:

係呀！你上特區個網預約就得架啦！

係呀！一定要剪番個靚仔頭呀！

我剛岩返左２日工．

betty

HPChingchingma 寫道:
嘩！
勁開心 :-P
原來有很多年紀相約又有的仔女年紀仲差唔多！！

而家才見這 tyopic ，就係想出返黎做野至睇呢到，真係 very good ！

BK 不錯，勁多 20幾 mami 就有5, 6 歲大的仔女。我的朋友、同學多 30 幾 40 咁大，仔女都係得1 歲至 5 歲左右咋，仲有很多仍是BB。

我大仔下星期11歲了！
想知點換兒童身份証？
是否要預約？
要不要剪個靚頭至換好的呢？

仲有，你地是否全部均是上班一族？

NNN

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發表於 05-3-22 21:05 |只看該作者

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Dear wing0503:

你有時間上勞工署網睇呀！仲有星島個jobmarket ah.

有的人工都幾好架．

betty

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BETTY,
你浦頭都5看住自已個場 :evil: :evil: :-( :-(

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發表於 05-3-22 21:10 |只看該作者

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Dear 包豬：

你做邊行架，我見網頭署網址，星島個jobmarket都好多工架，我都send左好多份架．比多小小時間耐性呀！

betty

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發表於 05-3-22 21:11 |只看該作者

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Dear 栗子媽媽:

黎緊啦！我一路食晚一路覆啦！吾該晒你呀！食左飯未呀！

betty

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叫緊外買,仲係OFFICE呀 :-( :-( :-( :-(

bettylam 寫道:
Dear 栗子媽媽:

黎緊啦！我一路食晚一路覆啦！吾該晒你呀！食左飯未呀！

betty

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發表於 05-3-22 23:11 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇四十歲左右準媽咪?? 大家傾傾苦與樂!

goodies ,

你個仔讀國際學校幾年班呀, 學費係咪好貴? 唉, working mother 要去兼顧家庭, 實在心力交箤呀。咁你返咗工, 日頭係咪菲菲幫手呀? 你老公會唔會幫手睇細路啲功課呢? 我老公就唔會嘞 :cry: 。

我係一個都幾八卦嘅人, believe in 因果, 風水命理。有果必有因。

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發表於 05-3-22 23:48 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇四十歲左右準媽咪?? 大家傾傾苦與樂!

HPChingchingma

點解你個名咁長嘅? 係呀,我諗我地大部份都係上班一族或者係等待上班一族, 冇係咁好唔駛do有人養呀:cry:

你的朋友、同學多 30 幾 40 咁大，仔女都係得1 歲或BB, 我就話意外啫, 咁佢地係因為遲婚定咩原因呀?

好似我地女人四十先生bb, 冇番咁上吓積蓄點有經濟能力養大個b呀 (我係例外, 因為我冇計劃, 而家係見步行步, 唔咁諗咁多, 唔係好容易產後抑鬱)。

我係一個都幾八卦嘅人, believe in 因果, 風水命理。有果必有因。

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發表於 05-3-23 00:04 |只看該作者

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forty+,

「中年危機」可以包括很多方面，你說的是，還有轉工、轉．．．和第三者，唉！我識幾個朋友都對伴侶不滿，有個常常想著另一個人，見到都好煩！

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flysss

唉！第三者？常常想著另一個人？唔好啦啩，咁嘅年紀仲玩激情？

叫你啲迷失朋友唔好去自尋煩惱，好好想想自己老公的好處吧。如果冇，咁咪又諗吓自己又可是完美？可以同埋係一齊就是緣份，我後生嗰陣都曾經有婚姻危機，有第三者。後來睇清楚，啲第三者都唔係真的想同你一生一世，何必喺一個阱 jump to another one which you couldn't be sure how deep it is? 我會諗，我老公點唔好，我都已經清楚知道，但如果另一個，會唔會仲更加不濟呢？

　

我係一個都幾八卦嘅人, believe in 因果, 風水命理。有果必有因。

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發表於 05-3-23 10:21 |只看該作者

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forty+:

我個仔在KGV 讀 Grade 10即英基的中學，學費都頗勁，

好彩得一個，都算應付得來。
我特登同我的家人住得近d，讓他日常多d人照顧，又有d表弟一起會冇咁悶。
唉!!一般來說，教仔女都係個媽咪做

:tongue:

forty+ 寫道:
goodies ,

你個仔讀國際學校幾年班呀, 學費係咪好貴? 唉, working mother 要去兼顧家庭, 實在心力交箤呀。咁你返咗工, 日頭係咪菲菲幫手呀? 你老公會唔會幫手睇細路啲功課呢? 我老公就唔會嘞 :cry: 。

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badegg 寫道:
包B

我估你未辭職既, 因為之前幾年, 我成日諗住搵到工先走, 一路係咁send信, 都係得一,二間見過下工咋, 仲要見親都話, 我地想請個可以即時番工既人, 車....把鬼...咁咪叫我黎啦.

係呀!

比你估中我未辭職, 因為驚搵唔到呀!

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Hi Wing

So you are not looking for a job for the purpose of money? It's good then when there is no financial burden. I have never stopped working since I left school, except when my elder daughter was born that I took several weeks of maternity leave without pay, I have been eager to become a housewife and do not need to go to work for money. I have been working for the same company for twenty-two years now - unbelievable. Now, with my baby coming, my dream to become a total housewife could not come true earlier unless I am fired, but then 手停口停, 真惱人啊! So you are lucky if you don't have financial burden - money never could be enough, but at least if one family's income could cover the family basic requirement, I would say this is already very good la.

我係一個都幾八卦嘅人, believe in 因果, 風水命理。有果必有因。

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Forty+,

I have been working in this company for almost 18 years. Though I'm exhausted in taking care of both work & daughters but sometimes I still feel good to be a working woman. The reason is I don't have to deal with my daughters' affairs only and widen my knowledge. Another reason is I can have more money to spend on my own discretion.

Goodies,

I also wish I can afford to let my daugthers to study in International School. Then both of us will not have that much pressure.

Stmummy

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