You think the only people who are people
Are the people who look and think like you
But if you walk the footsteps of a stranger
You'll learn things you never knew you never knew
-- Colors Of The Wind
Do you think you can successfully motivate a student who doesn't know what hunger is by a tin of sardines? Can you not see the hardship they are living? It's always so easy to talk about higher ideals. If he gives out food without any requirements you will still criticise because that encourage lazy behaviour.