國家地區媽媽會 今日: 0 | 主題: 20263

積分: 269

81^#

發表於 07-4-3 09:22 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

三月媽咪 :

多謝你幫忙.. 我現在放心好多la...

之少知道我冇insurance cover去到美國生時會點樣.. 我真係安心好多la

..最希望我老公唔會俾人炒la..咁大家就開心la..你bb近日好嗎.. 我來到美國生了之後. 可能要請教你教我點解湊bb先得la... 我想再問去美國入境時有什麼東西唔可以入境ka..

私人傳訊

積分: 724

82^#

發表於 07-4-3 16:03 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

我個BB近日非常難湊。。。真係囖我命。。。。唉，唔好提~~請教我就唔敢講啦，我都係新媽咪，但係我可以比D意見同SHARE我D經驗既

。入境果到我就唔係甘清楚，前排美國機場出現orange色警告，所有liquid既野，好似香水，牙膏，水，等等都唔比帶。不如你問下你老公個警告仲係唔係到，不過學我老公話齋咩都冇帶都OK但係最緊要帶錢，來到有D咩事都起碼有錢打電話！

私人傳訊

sleepingbeauty

男爵府

積分: 7445

83^#

發表於 07-4-4 09:47 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

Hello, mums from Chicago

我係路過，想問一上呢排Chicago 既天氣點樣，洗唔洗

私人傳訊

積分: 724

84^#

發表於 07-4-4 14:31 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

呢排天氣唔係好冬不過有雨，你幾時來啊？好似下星期會冬返我唸帶定幾件厚衫會好D！

私人傳訊

積分: 269

85^#

發表於 07-4-7 08:53 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

三月媽咪 :

Happy Ester!!!請問你生完bb之後.. 有冇請人幫你手ka...還是你爸爸媽媽幫你手湊bb ka....我聽很多人講生完BB第一個月好辛苦. 坐月.. 因為我老公要返工. 除非佢俾人炒左姐. 唔係得我一個人係屋家ka..而且我第一次做媽媽. 擔心雞手鴨腳 :-( .. 所以想做好準備工夫..而且又計計$$$我哋是否affort得起請人...你都知bb初初出世時要很多開支..

私人傳訊

積分: 724

86^#

發表於 07-4-8 07:22 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

garfield0923：
BB出世之後老公1個月冇返工，陪我坐月，所以老公幫我一齊湊。其實我都唔知去邊請人湊，不如你到時來到我幫你問下啦，我唸請個人來幫手都唔會好貴既。。生完BB頭果一兩個星期真係好辛苦，因爲下面仲痛，好彩我個BB係坐月期間都好好訓，冇咩扭計。bb初初出世既開支都唔係好貴者。。。我個B一個月都係用百零蚊（因爲我冇收入可以申請奶粉比BB，自己就唔使比錢賣奶粉。），但係賣BB clothing, crib, car seat, stroller.....就貴D啦，我好似都用左幾千蚊，不過呢D野係BB未出世之前可以慢慢賣。

私人傳訊

積分: 78

87^#

發表於 07-4-14 21:23 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

garfield0923,

I just came back to Chicago from HK. I know the new rules of airport is already operating in HK. you can see the ad. on TV everynight or online

http://www.tsa.gov/travelers/airtravel/prohibited/permitted-prohibited-items.shtm

liquid no more than 100ml on carry-on laugage, but more than 100ml you need to put it in the check-in laugage.

When are you coming to Chicago and where will you live?

私人傳訊

rubytang

子爵府

積分: 12706

88^#

發表於 07-4-15 17:04 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

HI, 各位靚mama,
我係無意中睇到你地呢個topic,
我都係住係芝加哥既wheeling,
應該係同三月媽咪既屋企近少少,
不過, 我生完細囝之後就番返hk做野,
我都唔知依家應該點算~
點解咁講呢, 因為我本來諗住申請左個回美證,
一年返一次黎美國咪得囉~
點知上年9月我帶住兩個囝返黎,
入境時差d唔俾我我入, 果個海關關員諸多留難我地三母子,
嚇到我個大囝 cc下, 佢到依家都仲有d陰影,
話點解要叫我地坐入一間大房, 淨係得我地三個人,
又無其他人係度, 一味係咁等,
又唔啋我地,又無問我地任何野,
卒之搞左成個鐘頭先至放我地!
所以, 依家我都唔知再返唔返黎好!
我03年先至land美國, 所以我係攞綠卡既,
當年00年, 我唔知唔係美國居住既人士, 都可以黎美國生仔,
咁我都仲係等梗批移民既簽證, 所以,大囝就係hk生,
咁到陀細囝時, 我本來都諗住係hk生,
o岩o岩又遇到個fd 既姑奶, 佢話俾我知,
無 insurance都可以申請medicare架,
仲叫我唔使擔心, 咁我咪係陀住3個月bb時特登辭左份工
返黎美國等生仔囉!
咁一直都好順利, 我仲有d 朋友幫我手, 真係多謝晒佢地!
但如果我要坐埋個移民監既話, 就要辭埋份工帶埋兩個囝返黎,
因為我個移民case係我媽申請我, 所以,
我當時無同老公正式註冊, 咁如果我要黎, 又要同老公分開,
依家我係hk份工, 返工時間同薪金都好好, 有d唔捨得~

但另一方面, 如果我唔返黎, 細囝就完全無問題,
因為佢係美國出世, 係公民, 佢幾時返幾時走, 無人會阻到佢,
但大囝就同我一樣揸綠卡, 我唔返去既話, 俾人取消綠卡,
就連大囝都會取消埋, 咁我又怕第時佢大個會怪我,
點解唔俾佢地係美國讀書, 等佢地讀書既環境好d~

我依家十分苦惱, 唔知應該點算好??
請各位姊妹俾d意見我啦~

私人傳訊

積分: 78

89^#

發表於 07-4-15 17:57 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

hi rubytang,

I completely understand your sitation. I have been also there.
I moved to Chicago for my husband in 2004 b'cos we got marry. I also quite my favorite job and come to usa. Now I have a 8 mos baby girl. I take care of her full time.
but now i want go back to work, but i do not enjoy working in usa. b'cos they are so lay back, and I'm a chinese, i don't think i would have much promotion opportunities as the american. so i have a thought wanted to go back to work in HK.

but i still choose to stay here after consulting with friends, it is b'cos of my baby. i think she receive education here better than in HK. b'cos i saw many things in HK on this trip (i just came back from HK this week). my friend's kids are so stressful in school and the adult are so stressful in their life.

there is no perfection in life. you gain something but you will loose something in return.

for my case, i give up my career for my husband and kid. but i will find happy in other way in my life.
so you got to choose by yourself. good luck to you.

私人傳訊

rubytang

子爵府

積分: 12706

90^#

發表於 07-4-15 19:01 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

Hi, littlecow,

多謝你既意見~
你都講得好o岩, 就係因為咁, 所以,
我先至個心15/16,
你都話同埋老公&囡囡一齊係美國啦~
但如果我既話, 就要一家人分開做太空人囉,
因為我都未申請我老公黎美國, 而且,
佢依家做梗政府工, 佢重有十零年就可以揀提早退休,
咁到時果份退休金對我地黎講, 唔算好多,
但係慳慳地既話都夠生活既~
所以, 我老公話佢就唔會辭工同我地一齊去美國,
佢話就算佢黎左, 佢都唔知可以做d咩工,
佢話佢既英文又唔得, 學歷又唔好,
唔通叫佢成40歲人黎到洗大餅咩~
咁佢都有佢既睇法, 我真係由舊年返黎hk之後,
一直個心都唔安落, 都唔知個人既方向應該要點先好~
你知啦~
如果我同兩個囝stay係美國, 一年先返hk一次睇老公既話,
唔係話信唔信佢既問題, 兩夫婦既感情一定會有問題架~
而且, d囝又好黐佢老豆, 我又唔忍心分開佢地,
好似我係衰人咁~

私人傳訊

積分: 78

91^#

發表於 07-4-15 22:00 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

hi rubytang,

i see, i thought your husband is in usa as well. but now it seems hk is the best place for your whole family then.

my purpose staying here is b'cos i want our family can get together.

私人傳訊

積分: 724

92^#

發表於 07-4-17 07:52 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

to littlecow: welcome back!!!

to rubytang: sorry..你個case 真係好難搞...我比唔到意見~~

私人傳訊

積分: 78

93^#

發表於 07-4-17 10:22 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

thanks 三月媽咪, my baby and i have a great time in HK sepecially my baby, she learn lots of things over there.

私人傳訊

KCKmom

伯爵府

積分: 15151

hashtag影視迷勳章醒目開學勳章畀面勳章環保接龍勳章親子達人勳章

94^#

發表於 07-4-17 11:37 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

Hi,
I'm also from Chicago. Nice to meet you all...

rubytang

因為你細仔係响 US 出生,第時佢响 HK 返學需唔需要比錢呀？
你同先生又 afford 唔 afford 到？
你可以從呢個問題去諗吓。

garfield0923

Please check PM.

私人傳訊

rubytang

子爵府

積分: 12706

95^#

發表於 07-4-17 14:41 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

Hi, KCKmom,

我細囝係美國出世, 但我地返左hk時都同佢搞左hk既居港權,
bb係hk讀書係會同大囝一樣享有hk居民既福利,
不過, 就算無既話, 都唔係太擔心,
因為daddy係做政府工, d 子女有讀書既福利sponser既,
所以, 都應該負擔到既~

我依家都係度諗, 想唔要綠卡, 係hk算啦~
反正成日都要提心吊膽咁返美國, 驚人地唔俾我地入境,
我以前未攞綠卡前, 返黎探亞媽都不知幾輕鬆,
反而, 依家就好似做賊咁,
都唔知做乜要搞到咁樣~

私人傳訊

積分: 269

96^#

發表於 07-4-18 17:38 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

Hi, littlecow:
Wellcome u come back la.. 我都唔知幾時來美國ar.. 到時我知. 再通知你哋la..

三月媽咪.. 多謝你幫忙..

rubytang
其實我覺最重要係可以同老公一齊..咁大家都會好開心過大家要分開住lor.. 好似我咁. 我老公係美國住. 我係香港.. 現在我有bb個老公都唔身邊. 有時真係好唔開心ka. 所以我先放棄我現在香港份工作去美國lor. 全職做湊仔婆...

私人傳訊

積分: 78

97^#

發表於 07-4-21 22:37 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

thanks garfield0923,

do let me know when you come to Chicago and let me know where you will live.

How's your pregnancy? You can hire someone to help you from Chinatown after your delievery.

私人傳訊

積分: 269

98^#

發表於 07-4-24 16:33 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

thank littlecow

我現在未知幾時來美國. 因為我未見移民局. 只係做了驗身及良民證. 我估下月先可以去interivew.之後就走ka la.. 我去到美國有時再找找你哋ar..

我bb現在都ok..你個囡囡好嗎.. 其實你哋每日湊住個女.. 會唔會好悶ka..

私人傳訊

積分: 724

99^#

發表於 07-4-25 07:41 |只看該作者

Re: any mother-to-be's from Chicago?

Dear; garfield0923
哇！甘快就可以來啦，恭喜你同你老公同你肚入面個BB，一家三口團聚啦！！

希望到時大家可以約埋一齊見見面啦！

P.S.對我來講日日湊BB當然唔悶啦！仲好忙添！

私人傳訊