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原帖由 何媽媽 於 09-1-27 12:14 發表

riko, how come u r double standard arh, haha! u know, i m worried my kids to be les/guy rather than they hv too many girl/boy fd.. u know i got some les fds that they were les since high school... s ...

double standard cos men and women are different lor. At the end of the day, Men still need to 'chase' women. That's why I think men had to be trained to see more girls when they were young and how to communicate with girls lor.
As far as I know, none of my school friends are Les wor. So I don't think studying in a single sexed school will make them become les/gay?!

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原帖由 hk30 於 09-1-27 12:12 發表
riko: 唔系day trip呀﹐系星期五去星期一返呀!!!!

wow so envy u! U r so relaxed! If martin has taken part in looking after the kids even when u r at home, I think he should be fine!

Are your friends from Macau?

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原帖由 riko-uk 於 09-1-27 20:14 發表

I don't like the kissing games, either. I think it is a stupid game, too!!!! Yeah, I remember when I was at primary school, my classmates also liked to say who fancied who!! It is very childish! ...

yeah it's very childish but they are children mah, haha! o, i just opposite to u wor... i always remind siuwa try not to care people saying... people would say whatever they want to say coz they all got mouths.. so if siuwa only plays with boys than i wl let her just to be herself... siuwa just opposite to kiyomi..she concerns people thinking too much, that's why she behaves diff at school, more shy & quiet.. and rejects to take certain pack lunch coz she scares classmates wl laugh at her lor...

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原帖由 hk30 於 09-1-27 12:10 發表
 http://www.centerparcs.co.uk/

U will go to the one in Cumbria? I think u should take your family with u next time la!

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原帖由 hk30 於 09-1-27 20:10 發表
 http://www.centerparcs.co.uk/

Fran, that's nice! my fd said it's v nice as well and it's far better than butlins such thing! siuwa wants to go there but i found out they only do a set period like mon-thu, fri-mon but we want sun-wed!!!! which location wl u go to?

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原帖由 何媽媽 於 09-1-27 12:25 發表

yeah it's very childish but they are children mah, haha! o, i just opposite to u wor... i always remind siuwa try not to care people saying... people would say whatever they want to say coz they al ...

Kiyomi has never worried about other children laugh at her?! But she likes to copy other children which means if she sees other children eating certain kind of food or wearing certain kind of shoes, she will want to copy! I am not teaching her to care about what other people say ga, I just want her to know the possible consequences jar. (actually my intention is I want her to be more girly, why a girl will be so boyish ga?! Noisy, descrutive, likes boys games?! So I am worried she is not feminine enough when she grows up!) When I go out, sometimes I see some women dress up very causally in track suit (but they are doing shopping, not jogging!) I feel they are very ugly ga (sorry!) So I don't want my daughter to be like that when she grows up ar!

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原帖由 hk30 於 09-1-27 12:10 發表
 http://www.centerparcs.co.uk/

It seems very good, very suitable for family. I would like to go, too but I think my hubby doesn't like this kind of break in UK. He is so fussy!

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原帖由 riko-uk 於 09-1-27 20:19 發表

double standard cos men and women are different lor. At the end of the day, Men still need to 'chase' women. That's why I think men had to be trained to see more girls when they were young and how ...

none of yr school mates became les?? i mean even at that time for fun?? wow, that's really good wor! i got 3 fds (classmates) really les till now..and i saw some of my neice's photos and fd's daughter's photos in fb, always hv 1-2 dressed like boy and they called each other husband & wife stuff.. i know they're not really les but still that kind of fantasy!!

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原帖由 riko-uk 於 09-1-27 20:26 發表

U will go to the one in Cumbria? I think u should take your family with u next time la!

原帖由 何媽媽 於 09-1-27 20:30 發表

Fran, that's nice! my fd said it's v nice as well and it's far better than butlins such thing! siuwa wants to go there but i found out they only do a set period like mon-thu, fri-mon but we want sun ...

yes im going the one in cumbria, coz that is the one near us! but i dont know how far it is, hehe... and i am going with 5 english gals!!

yeah i saw their websites, its great to go with the kids. so when mitch and imogen grow up a bit, then i think i will bring them to there for holidays!!!

ho ma, if ur friends said it is nice, then u should bring ur kids to go there as well. hehee...東主有喜﹐休息數天!!

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原帖由 何媽媽 於 09-1-27 12:39 發表

none of yr school mates became les?? i mean even at that time for fun?? wow, that's really good wor! i got 3 fds (classmates) really les till now..and i saw some of my neice's photos and fd's daught ...

No ar, we didn't play romance game at that time. If we played crazily in the classroom, we may chase around each other with, try to take off each other's dress, something like this. And there was a classmate who sometimes would be regarded as the most 'Les' but after leaving school, it proved that she is normal and she had bf and now got married wor.
Hey I was said I was Les la, I was at A-level, there was a classmate who I was very close with as we always together, there were some 8 por saying we were les wor (but actually I had bf at that time ga la!) And my this very good friend is now also married la.

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原帖由 riko-uk 於 09-1-27 20:39 發表

It seems very good, very suitable for family. I would like to go, too but I think my hubby doesn't like this kind of break in UK. He is so fussy!

i saw there are lots of activities to play, so i think it should be have one activities ur hubby likes and i bet ur kids must like it as well!!!

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原帖由 hk30 於 09-1-27 12:44 發表

yes im going the one in cumbria, coz that is the one near us! but i dont know how far it is, hehe... and i am going with 5 english gals!!

yeah i saw their websites, its great to go with the kids. ...

So u do have some friends from your village ga?

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原帖由 hk30 於 09-1-27 12:46 發表

i saw there are lots of activities to play, so i think it should be have one activities ur hubby likes and i bet ur kids must like it as well!!!

He is very fussy ga, he said he doesn't take a holiday break within UK wor! It means if we cannot afford to go abroad all the time, we just stuck at home lor!

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原帖由 riko-uk 於 09-1-27 20:32 發表

Kiyomi has never worried about other children laugh at her?! But she likes to copy other children which means if she sees other children eating certain kind of food or wearing certain kind of shoes, ...

yeah kids like copying others.. siuwa always said..xxx hv this..xxx's mum this or that.. u know my reply is '' ok then, go & live with them then!'' haha. well..tracksuits really that bad? haha! i was about to wear tracksuits on 16feb tim!!! how about yr hubby? wants kioymi more feminine as well? hoba does, he always remind siuwa to speak more soft instead of shout or too straight fwd lor.. he likes her girl more sweet tongue like..o daddy..can u ...pls.. that kind of stuff.. haha! may be he couldnt find anything feminie in me so he put his hope on his daughter la!!

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riko and ho ma:
Limited Special Offer - 2 night break at Elveden or Longleat Forest from £99
Stay at Elveden or Longleat Forest for a 2 night midweek break between 26th Jan 09 and 03rd April 09.

but i think this offer must be fully booked!!

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原帖由 hk30 於 09-1-27 20:44 發表

yes im going the one in cumbria, coz that is the one near us! but i dont know how far it is, hehe... and i am going with 5 english gals!!

yeah i saw their websites, its great to go with the kids. ...

yeah, i'd love to but do they do like fm sun-wed?? and considering the price, it's at least £800+ for a period which may equals to go overseas like france or spain..that's put me off a bit..haha!

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原帖由 hk30 於 09-1-27 20:44 發表

yes im going the one in cumbria, coz that is the one near us! but i dont know how far it is, hehe... and i am going with 5 english gals!!

yeah i saw their websites, its great to go with the kids. ...

o, i thought u r going wz kids tim!!! how lucky you are! i dont think i hv any chance to hv a vaccation without kids...but having said that.. i dont think i love to coz i think i cant really enjoy anywere without them.. !

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原帖由 何媽媽 於 09-1-27 12:56 發表

yeah kids like copying others.. siuwa always said..xxx hv this..xxx's mum this or that.. u know my reply is '' ok then, go & live with them then!'' haha. well..tracksuits really that bad? haha! i w ...

Oh you must wear tracksuit on 16/2!!!!! It is very bad as it is so comfy u know!

Hey I don't believe u will wear tracksuits la as none of your photos shown u wore any tracksuit?! Maybe when u went to gym, u do wear tracksuit but that is normal as u are doing exercise!

Of course my hubby wants kiyomi to be more girly la. He always wants to have daughter and this is the only daughter he has, so he puts all his expectation on her! I think he is more strict than me when it comes to Kiyomi. He doesn't like her to play with boys. (for me, I just prefer her to play with girls but for him, it seems like a must!) I think he is quite disappointed when Kiyomi is so boyish.

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原帖由 riko-uk 於 09-1-27 20:46 發表

So u do have some friends from your village ga?

原帖由 riko-uk 於 09-1-27 20:47 發表

He is very fussy ga, he said he doesn't take a holiday break within UK wor! It means if we cannot afford to go abroad all the time, we just stuck at home lor!

yes, those friends are from same village as me, and they are actually is martin's friends, so they are friends with me as well. and one of them is mitch and imogen's godmom (but both of them still havent done the christening yet, haha..)

i think u should show it to him and ask him to go once to see if he enjoys or not!!! martin is fussy as well, but he is fussy on the food.

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