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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-4-22 18:36 發表
Hey kiusha, dont get too deep in it.

Neither can she handle big jobs (cooking/child minding), nor can she handle small jobs (cutting a cake). I am still in the middle of exploring what other area ...

我明白, 每個人都有佢自己嘅強項, 弱點. 但我亦相信, 每個人, 喺街見到有小朋友需要幫助, 唔多唔少都會幫吓手, 何況係少主呢? 呢隻衰野, 連畜牲都不如?

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原帖由 Sharon886 於 10-4-22 18:24 發表

又流馬尿，話我鬧佢喎～話佢睇到大家既關係已經好差，個腦好亂，唔可以集中做野喎～

我再問多一次我既問題，要佢答，佢話做唔到我既要求，handle唔到NB...

＜好彩上得來BK多，此時即開手提，錄低所有對話＞

最後我問佢想點，條友冇出聲，我再問佢，究竟你需要更多時間適應我份工，定係你冇信心去handle一個NB，佢答我後者

當中我冇講過要炒佢，仲話我唔想炒人。。。

而家call 咗 agent，睇下點收科

成功在望.

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原帖由 SandraLo 於 10-4-23 12:46 發表

講開又講.....
之前我咪話d bun 好似attention deficit, 事實係, 即使佢地同d A仔比較, 眼神都比佢地更加空洞......

對眼一樣甘係無焦點............

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原帖由 KiuShaBB 於 10-4-23 13:34 發表

成功在望.

Yes.

Sharon,

You are nearly done!! Please tell some more of your progress whenever there is because I am learning it.

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原帖由 CrabPincers 於 10-4-22 18:44 發表

wahaaaaaa 好彩連你都認同..........第時叫個女吾好搵靚仔做老公.............

咁靚仔都未必係A仔. 個個男仔追你個女嘅都係靚仔, 唔通叫個女唔好嫁?

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原帖由 KiuShaBB 於 10-4-23 13:38 發表

咁靚仔都未必係A仔. 個個男仔追你個女嘅都係靚仔, 唔通叫個女唔好嫁?

not only that, 靚仔好易比人搶........wahaaaaaaaa

其實, 係想教佢, 吾好以貌取人, 揀男朋友/老公, 吾一定要靚仔, 對你/'你'既屋企人, 即係佢呀媽我好既就得啦, wahaaaaaa

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原帖由 KiuShaBB 於 10-4-23 13:19 發表

我明白, 每個人都有佢自己嘅強項, 弱點. 但我亦相信, 每個人, 喺街見到有小朋友需要幫助, 唔多唔少都會幫吓手, 何況係少主呢? 呢隻衰野, 連畜牲都不如? ...

My thoughts right now are a bit contradictory. On one hand I treat that she is bitchy to behave like this, on the other hand, I consider allowances for her , say, she maybe too green to the environment, unfamiliar with my kids, or shy to take any action , or whatever.

I will still take some time to coach and to closely observe how she absorb my idea. If some time later I find that middle lady's condition calls for a change, I will imitate what sharon is doing and finally kick it out.

These two years I have invested a lot of money in firing and re-hiring rubbish maids already and I truly don't want to lose money so soon again. I gotta be realistic.

Lets wait and see.

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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-4-23 13:57 發表
My thoughts right now are a bit contradictory. On one hand I treat that she is bitchy to behave like this, on the other hand, I consider allowances for her , say, she maybe too green to the environm ...

Truly appreciate you guys' patience and see things from different angles.

I am more result-oriented and tend not to invest so much time on a piece of rubbish, so that resulted in my quick changes these few years.

A lot to learn from you girls.

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原帖由 CrabPincers 於 10-4-23 13:56 發表

not only that, 靚仔好易比人搶........wahaaaaaaaa

其實, 係想教佢, 吾好以貌取人, 揀男朋友/老公, 吾一定要靚仔, 對你/'你'既屋企人, 即係佢呀媽我好既就得啦, wahaaaaaa ...

我都常常滿口呢d理論。不過,有一次,我老公串我,“咁你又成日去整面、整頭犮、整呢樣整果樣??!!!”

講真ㄚ,以貌取人,去到邊都係。有邊个不以貌取人?只係視乎去到乜程度姐。

[ 本帖最後由 pollyw 於 10-4-23 14:10 編輯 ]

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原帖由 CrabPincers 於 10-4-22 19:15 發表

WAHAAAAAA其實我係驚佢比人呃

我岩岩今朝未話佢呢兩日心事重重既, 頭先返到屋企, 佢又無野啦, 還同我講佢有個同學散(拍拖), 之後我多口問佢, 甘你呢? 有無同學話鍾意你, 之後一輪咀爆晒比我知.......

都話架啦, ...

八卦姨姨想八吓, 佢開始拍拖未?

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原帖由 saiwanho 於 10-4-23 14:06 發表

Truly appreciate you guys' patience and see things from different angles.

I am more result-oriented and tend not to invest so much time on a piece of rubbish, so that resulted in my quick changes t ...

Ms Sai,

How I wish I can keeping changing maids until one day I can find a sensible one like what you did!! But, haha, it doesn't sound taht easy. To keep changing implies training programme to start all over again, meaning extra effort has to be spent by me, which will be tiresome. But in your case, Sawanho Mom is there to help you watch over an to train.

What is your good news you want to share for the day?? (Seems these days you have always got good news..haha)

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原帖由 CrabPincers 於 10-4-23 13:56 發表

not only that, 靚仔好易比人搶........wahaaaaaaaa

其實, 係想教佢, 吾好以貌取人, 揀男朋友/老公, 吾一定要靚仔, 對你/'你'既屋企人, 即係佢呀媽我好既就得啦, wahaaaaaa ...

正確.... 送上門嘅太多....
我地d fd 裡面都真係有50%離咗婚, 好多都係有第3者！

教仔心得：媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為，到底點解同點讚？
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1

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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-4-23 14:26 發表
Ms Sai,

How I wish I can keeping changing maids until one day I can find a sensible one like what you did!! But, haha, it doesn't sound taht easy. To keep changing implies training programme to sta ...

Yes, fully understood that how "troublesome" it could be about starting all the training programs.

MSL sometimes does have some silly stuff but I just try to pass her a clear signal.... I will point to the mistakes, not point to her personally. When I start to blame I have strong reason to support and she'd better shut up rather than using excuses to stimulate me to my marathon scolding.....

guess what.... I left my job already! Some politics within the company and I had been very cautious, but that still can't save me..... 平常心對待之 and I am glad to be able to spend more time now with my kid.

MSL's new hair-style.... let me try to take some pics and email to you. She's still so happy these days and not to tie up her hair during working days.

good news... mmmm...... recently found my childhood classics in the market: full series of DVDs of 小甜甜 and 藍寶石王子！！！！ No need to think twice and just pay and bring home!!!

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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-4-22 19:23 發表
No la!! Both little B and big B are lovely and pretty princess.

靚姨姨, 你真仁慈.

我只希望佢地健康, 正常. 唔好A, 亦唔好優.

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原帖由 KiuShaBB 於 10-4-23 14:22 發表

八卦姨姨想八吓, 佢開始拍拖未?

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原帖由 SandraLo 於 10-4-23 14:31 發表

正確.... 送上門嘅太多....
我地d fd 裡面都真係有50%離咗婚, 好多都係有第3者！

未係 , 總之, 對自己好既就得啦

普洱

或者你隻佬對你講呢番說話就得, 但對我真係吾多work, 我真係以前好小攪塊面, 係依家呀女用fancal, 我見吾係貴, 又ok, 先拿黎用, hair, 真係叫隻佬求其剪短就算........衫都吾買多一件

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原帖由 saiwanho 於 10-4-23 14:41 發表

Yes, fully understood that how "troublesome" it could be about starting all the training programs.

MSL sometimes does have some silly stuff but I just try to pass her a clear signal.... I will poin ...

o.............其實多d 時間陪下細路都好既
可能我自出黎做野之後, 都係在大公司樹做, 試過去d 細公司, 琪吾到一個星期已經走ed

所以我對辦公室政治, 又ok wor..............

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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-4-22 20:09 發表
From bottom of my heart, this hurts me much!

好在你嘅仔女有靚媽媽呵番.
你嘅荷包..... 真係好傷.

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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-4-23 14:46 發表

PY8bn8P6O_Y

早兩日未話佢心事重重既, 再看埋facebook, d 同學既留言, 我就有所懷疑啦................但問佢又吾講, 尋日無啦啦爆響口, 話全校都知有個男同學鍾意佢wor..............同我諗既一樣law, 我呢個呀媽, 觸覺有返甘上下既, 個女gu起條尾都知做乜啦．．．．．．．．

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