cicy,
When will the Sat. gathering start? Cause I think if I come after work maybe a bit late, so I just thinking that I ask my colleagues to come early to relieve me say around 2pm, then I can arrived in TST around 2:30pm or 3pm.
Little Natalie join to our family on12.2004.Little Hayden join to our family on 2.2007
i also don't know what time on Sat or the place yet but I think around 2:30 or 3 as we have all discussed before. They said they don't want to post the place or the time here as might be too dangerous. we will communicate that through personal email woh.
Will definately let you know when I find out so we don't get left out, okay!!!
cicy,
Thanks for your words, just I feel my emotion is easy to get up & down recently.........ai........don't know why, feel a bit relax when go through our messages here. Otherwise, sometimes feel lonely.....as hospital work is super busy and seems hubby don't spend much time with me, even he stay at home with me, but only concentrate on other things.......... like only myself want to have the BB but not him. Some silly thoughs..... :-(
Little Natalie join to our family on12.2004.Little Hayden join to our family on 2.2007
I felt that sometimes as well especially before I was 3 months pregnant, he doesn't want to talk about the baby or read books said afraid will "siu hei" then I think I got really mad once, he then changes his thoughts. He is now more involved after he sees the ultrasound and recently these few days he can feel the baby kick. We sometimes have to be a little bit understand as well since they can't feel the baby as much as we do everyday, i.e. they don't feel the pain, the don't feel the baby move, etc, sometimes hard for them to get involved.
I also bought a pregnancy journal book from Page One, it actually details everyday what is going on in our body, places for us to write our thoughts, record our waist size and weight, my husband loves the book, he is the one who puts in all the date and read ahead of time, he then underlines things he felt important, I think it's a great way for him to get involve with the process since he can't get involve in other ways law.
cicy,
I feel better and will try to think in a more positive way after read your message..........U are correct that, our hubby can't feel our pain in tummy and can't feel what we worry everyday.
I still haven't feel the BB move yet, but sometimes just want him to listen what I feel and what we suffer from pregnant, it's the most easier way to show their concern, right?!
However, I will try to change my mind to stand on his point, and can u tell me the name of the book so that I can go to Times Square tomorrow and take a look, see if I can buy it or not. Hope it would also works between me and my hubby. And I think u create a very good method to bring your hubby involved and show his interest on BB, U are great!!
And really thanks a lot for listen to my "Complain"!! :evil:
Little Natalie join to our family on12.2004.Little Hayden join to our family on 2.2007
Don't worry, I have my share of "complain" all the time as well.
The book is call "The Pregnancy Journal --- A day-to-day guide to a Healthy and Happy Pregnancy" by A. Chrisitne Harris, PHD. It cost HK$180.10.
I think it's totally worth the price since when you can't really feel the baby move yet or your tummy is still not too big, you know what is going on inside everyday.
cicy,
I am in my mummy's house now, as my hubby have an office meeting till 9pm, so have dinner here law. I work AM shift today and tomorrow, till the end of this week........super tired!
So need to wakeup at 5:30am again, tomorrow, seems have typoon nearby, right?
Little Natalie join to our family on12.2004.Little Hayden join to our family on 2.2007
So when you go home ah??? Try to get enough sleep lah. I read in some books that for people like you who have to work shift, it's very important to get 8 hours of sleep ah.
My husband said no typhoon woh, where you hear that?
cicy,
I would go home after dinner, I think around 10-11pm la, as I work AM shift, always can't sleep well in the night time, wake up to go to toliet and wakeup by tummy pain. So for average sleep for 4 hours only. Sometimes on my rest day, I would sleep more to compensate.........
As the weather is hot and stuff, from news they say have a typoon from Taiwan, so the sky is red colour now.
Little Natalie join to our family on12.2004.Little Hayden join to our family on 2.2007
Today really run into "black" everywhere, very mad. First I went to Mothercare coz the other day I saw the Advent bottle steam sterlizer selling for $599 at 10% off, but today no more 10% off, so I will wait for my friends to buy for me since a lot of them are asking what I want law.
Then I go to the place I have been introducing everyone to buy swimming suit, she won't exchange my 2nd swimming suit, it's a bit small.
Then ... I don't know if you remember I got fired by my company, so I wrote to"Equal Opportunity Commission" they are actually not very helpful. The last time time they told me, the company have to say they fire me because of pregnant, wah.... what company will say things like that. Then today the officer call me to get more information, I wrote in the complain letter that my company praise me for good work before they found out I was pregnant, the officer then ask if I remember the date or if I have those emails ..... I told him of course I don't have lah, if I knew they will fire me I would have collect those things in advance...... Then the officer ask me :"So what do you want from the company???" aiya, if I know then I wouldn't be asking the "Equal Opportunity Commission" for help lah.
Anyway, I'm going to meet the company at the labour department on this Thursday afternoon, a little bit afraid law even though I did nothing wrong, no mood these few days, worrying about Thursday.
cicy,
Ai........ya,, really not very good bor, but in CWB there also have a Mothercare shop, so if I go there I'll take a look for u and call u, as I got your number as well.
And your company is SO BAD!!!! Don't afraid as u are the RIGHT person with the Strong and right point, think of us, and we will fully support u ka! Last time I have some quarrel with the wedding photos shop, and at last I call the police and also phone to the Customer consumer council in there shop tim bor!! And even bring the mini tape recorder and DV to tape the whole process tim bor. So I suggest that, even u will face to labour dept. with your company, I suggest u to bring a mini tape recorder to tape all the things u discuss for reference, of course I don't know it's allowed or not, but put in your bag, others' won't know, it's to protect yourself ah ma.
The Equal opportunity Dept. is really "waste"
RE: Then the officer ask me :"So what do you want from the company???" aiya, if I know then I wouldn't be asking the "Equal Opportunity Commission" for help lah.
What u want is an FAIR Explaination & Equal chance to all employee!!!! STUPID!!!
Little Natalie join to our family on12.2004.Little Hayden join to our family on 2.2007