tracyyuen 寫道:
SandraLo,
感謝你分享了你的經驗, 令我們得益不少, 希望踏入豬年, 我們可順利運用你的忌考, 做個醒目媽咪.
mdoip 寫道:
Dear Sandralo,
有時 , 教我仔(2歲4個月)真有點心灰意冷 , 我會試用你們提供的方法! 我亦曾經用ignore的方法 , 但可能是我吾夠堅持(或者是他太堅持),他真是喊極吾收口 , 喊到嘔都吾停 ; 而他最差一樣,就是打人, 細過他的固然打 , 但連我 , 爸爸及婆婆都打 , 唉......真沮喪!之前我都試過打他 , 我亦都知是無用 , 我已經叫自己同他講道理 , 但效果是無改善 , 他都識講吾好打人 , 但卻控制不了自己 ; 出街亦吾肯行.......
真是擔心 ! 請指教怎樣做 , 謝謝!
qaiqbb 寫道:
Dear All & Sandra.
After reading your post, I've learned alot. Thanks so much for sharing!
I am a bit frustrated about my 18 months boy overwhelming action. He is a very active and outgoing baby, likes to play all day long. Unfortunately, he also likes to scream or "talk" (still baby language) so loud all in a sudden no matter where he is and when.
I've tried to "tell" him not to scream/"talk" so loud many times, of course the situation didn't change. (sometimes my friends told me my baby is still "young". But it cannot be an excuse? right?) And I always got blamed about his screaming/shouting.
I wonder if there's anything I can do to stop this from happening?!
Really appreciate for all your valuable time and kind attention. :)
raise" him when he's not screaming/shouting; and "ignore" him when he's doing this.cwcutecute1 寫道:
Dear Sandra
我好擔心因我個仔幾個月人仔
已經常情緒唔好少少事大吵大喊
其實我地2個月左右已發現佢係咁
我地平時都係好安撫佢希望佢唔好咁
但都係無用..
佢依家喊得更大聲
佢係成日都喊…其實我地明白bb喊好平常
但佢既喊聲係好naughty果種好惡
我依家好怕帶佢出街
D朋友逗佢玩佢可以呢一分鐘笑下一分鐘喊
佢一喊d朋友都好驚咁問佢咩事..
唉..有無媽咪可以教我點做?
SandraLo 寫道:
[quote]
qaiqbb 寫道:
Dear All & Sandra.
After reading your post, I've learned alot. Thanks so much for sharing!
I am a bit frustrated about my 18 months boy overwhelming action. He is a very active and outgoing baby, likes to play all day long. Unfortunately, he also likes to scream or "talk" (still baby language) so loud all in a sudden no matter where he is and when.
I've tried to "tell" him not to scream/"talk" so loud many times, of course the situation didn't change. (sometimes my friends told me my baby is still "young". But it cannot be an excuse? right?) And I always got blamed about his screaming/shouting.
I wonder if there's anything I can do to stop this from happening?!
Really appreciate for all your valuable time and kind attention. :)
raise" him when he's not screaming/shouting; and "ignore" him when he's doing this.
http://hk.myblog.yahoo.com/jw!gQBYC8iRGBa3394TZMu8zBqW
,
. 我係唔係用錯方法呢 
qaiqbb 寫道:
Thanks for your answer, Sandra.
Actually i was doing this "praise" when he was being good. Sometimes I would "ignore" him if he just couldn't stop. Or screaming for no reason.
Sigh...
cwcutecute1 寫道:
多謝SANDRA同其他媽咪意見
其實我個仔依家6個月大
我點解知佢情緒唔好呢
因我見過其他同齡既bb
所以先知佢脾氣咁差
佢一喊果把聲係令周圍d人都會用驚嚇既表情望住佢
好多次向街試過比人話:嘩呢個bb喊得好惡 or呢個bb唔乖
我真係又傷心又擔心 我都唔知要點處理
當然佢每次喊我地係有立即用所以方法tum佢
有時係所有方法都試過(除左打or鬧)
佢都唔收聲
佢喊果把聲真係好好好好惡
係大吵大鬧型…
我覺得佢咁細個就情緒唔好
第時一定好臭脾氣….
:-(
SandraLo 寫道:
[quote]
qaiqbb 寫道:
Thanks for your answer, Sandra.
Actually i was doing this "praise" when he was being good. Sometimes I would "ignore" him if he just couldn't stop. Or screaming for no reason.
Sigh...
elainefyl 寫道:
sandra
你好呀, 我囡囡已經16個月大, 佢好鐘意笑架, 但佢好惡死, 一唔合佢心意, 佢會先扁咀眼濕濕, 但唔喊然後就好激動並全身震哂指住你鬧(雖然唔知佢講咩). 通常我會大聲問佢做咩咁惡, 但佢會繼續鬧多我幾次先唔出聲, 咁情況下我會同佢講佢錯咩, 然後放她到bb床唔理佢幾分鐘, 之後過去問佢知錯未知錯就錫番媽咪(因佢仍未識講嘢), 但佢多數都唔肯鍚, 情願响bb床瞓(佢平時唔肯自己瞓bb床架), 佢好硬頸又
suppernanny的教法是否已經適用於我個囡囡呢
。 你「放她到bb床唔理佢幾分鐘」原意係俾佢冷靜同有罸(isolate) 嘅意思，但呢個訊息唔夠清楚，因為你再番去時唔係話「罸完」錫番，而係嗰時先至「話」佢唔啱，要佢認低威，佢梗係「頂住」啦！mdoip 寫道:
Dear SandraLo,
Hi! 多謝回應!
你定否全職媽咪？婆婆有冇份湊？
(我是全職返工, 主要是印傭及公公婆婆湊 , 放工後就我湊)
bb甚麼情形會打人？
(呢個問題我想了很久 ......例 1: 有人想俾糖bb , 我說不好 ,bb就想打我!
例2 : 通常不如bb意 , bb就打我們!
例3 : 見到我細佬個仔(細佢1年) , 任何情況都會打)
通常扭什麼？
(扭食物(糖 , 餅)扭一些不應該玩的物件 , 扭(不明原因))
我試過讚bb同時獎糖 , 但之後佢就扭要再俾糖 , 結果又大哭一場!但我就無理佢 , 但佢哭的時間確實短左
另外 , 我想問如ignore佢後 , bb停了哭 , 應如何跟進?
如何才算成功?
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