佢通姦在先, 要玩野是好容易的. 就算跟法律一人一半, 男方也要比樓主和三個小孩善養費 ... 佢地以後都唔好過. 囝囡細官多數會比小孩跟母親. I have been through the process ... it just than my ex do not have much $, as i earn more than him .... but 樓主 case 和我唔同. if 樓主 need help, can pm me. but 樓主 want to stay in the marriage, i also support as everybody as different preference. She still loves her husband. Staying in the marriage makes the other woman always the other woman, as long as 樓主 can take this for the rest of her life ... or at least a few years as the other woman will also get old, her husband may dump her in a few years anyway ... he is just an ordinary HK man!:pppp:
idid not 報服 la, since my ex say yes toall my request... as his "illegal behavior" is not smart and i gotall the evidence. we did not even need to go to court. my case just settledeverything in law firm. so smooth. and my daughters and i live happily everafter. I just know my right and he knows i know, he knows he cannot "蝦" 我. butas a responsbile ma, i will get all the benefit that my daughter entitled. Itis my daughter's right. And i will protect.
Mypersonally feeling is if i need to stay with someone that "touch"other already, 這才辛苦. buteverybody is not the same, and 樓主husband still good to his sons and daughter, i think. but my case is not. so, iget my right and move on ... 點會辛苦, 就是因為我冇報服, 所以ex仲會問我advice....butif u define "getting back my right, including $" is 報服, 那在你眼中我是
報服
了!