Re: 〥2005年o既奶媽Come in Ⅷ〥>>日日快樂~~
Ding ma:
我地兩公婆, 當初請工人姐姐, 都是為了save more quality time with Hayes.
In fact, we enjoys much with having the helpful maid at the present stage...Hehe...because we are now very lazy!!!
妳列出的問題, Hayes pa & I 都擔心 & 考慮, very real difficulties for our working parents ar!!!
"請鐘點" 係我D church friends' choice, 因佢地話好enjoy無外人的私人家庭空間 & 小孩更獨立 和 主動.
我當然贊同可以train孩子la !
只不過, 無法抹殺工人在這課題上的影響力(her strong role & tasks on job).
If having maid, 我無可能天天要求Hayes自己負責洗校服 + 燙自己衫, 白鞋, 手帕, 小餐盒, 和父母一起分擔做家務, 如輪洗碗 & 洗菜 & 煮飯 等....(在我concept中, those tasks are very very important in helping our kid to be a competent person.)
或者, "針無兩頭利" 吧!!
惟有盡量教Hayes.... :-|
Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself!
Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy!!