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發表於 08-4-11 13:44 |只看該作者

Kellyangus2004,

Thanks for your encouragment. I think it will be better now as I sense God is looking at me. Although I don't understand Him too much (from experinece, not in knowledge), I know everything is in His hand.

原文章由 Kellyaugust2004 於 08-4-10 21:13 發表
Nemo1222
hope u can gain strength from God. i m/c for 3 times. but i still believe God will give me a baby. just "timing " matter.
be strong.

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KELLY,

我明白妳的心情! 唉! 自己未有, 見到人地得左, 唔開心好正常GE! 如果係我, 我會比自己唔開心, 因為唔想屈住屈住, 所以妳唔使FEEL BAD WO! ^^

我好快就返HK了, 18/4就返了! 今次會睇左中醫先, 條理下先放雪胎, 因為上次IVF完之後, D M 好怪, 由5日變左3日, 再變左日半, 我諗住CHECK左卵巢功能+子宮內膜, 才再決定幾時放!

近來心情有點改變, 可能等得太耐, 心態唔同左, 都幾ENJOY 二人世界, 多左欣賞未有小朋友的依段日子! 我覺得活在當下好重要, 之前成日掛住想有小朋友, 令自己錯失了很欣賞身邊事物的機會!

加上, 上帝透過好多生活上的點點滴滴來告訴我, 祂仍與我同在, 衪仍關心我的生活及靈命成長! 而且, 我在這邊也認識了好幾位有相同情況的教會姊妹, 我地互相支持, 感覺很好! 我相信同路人的互相扶持都很重要!

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發表於 08-4-17 15:45 |只看該作者

Nemo
very good. glad to hear that. let's us keep strong faith in Him.

原文章由 Nemo1222 於 08-4-11 13:44 發表
Kellyangus2004,

Thanks for your encouragment. I think it will be better now as I sense God is looking at me. Although I don't understand Him too much (from experinece, not in knowledge), I know eve ...

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發表於 08-4-17 15:49 |只看該作者

sugar
thanks for your comfort and understanding. i feel much better now. only sad for a few days.
i'm in day 10 today. last trying before ivf in next cycle. sometime i just wonder when's God 's timing. not sure whether God like me to do ivf in May. but for my case . it's very obvious that the success chance of conceive naturally is very very low. as my eggs are not good. i do have relaxing time but back to a bit nervous recently.
anyway, will keep praying and asking God's direction. hope i can hear from Him.
keep praying for u . very happy that u're feeling relax.

原文章由 castersugar 於 08-4-16 01:53 發表
KELLY,

我明白妳的心情! 唉! 自己未有, 見到人地得左, 唔開心好正常GE! 如果係我, 我會比自己唔開心, 因為唔想屈住屈住, 所以妳唔使FEEL BAD WO! ^^

我好快就返HK了, 18/4就返了! 今次會睇左中醫先, 條理下先放雪 ...

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發表於 08-4-18 13:37 |只看該作者

Kellyangus2004:

We do the best, GOD do the rest.
If you believe everything is in His hand.
Just let Him prepare for you.
We don't know what's the best for us, but He know. I can't say I will pray for you because even I myself sometimes query if it is work. But I really care about your feeling.

曾有中醫師告訴我一個案例,他有一病人做了ivf很多次也不成功,因她太緊張,做了ivf後,便租了酒店在醫院附近往兩星期 (because of reducing moving),希望fertilized egg 能著床,因她太緊張,每次都fail.
後來放棄了,只看中醫而成功.
我教會也有一姊妹,醫生告訴她成孕機會很很….微,於是她放棄了,專心做其他事,在一次短宣回港後發現懷了孕,雖然短宣時很辛苦,但也能成孕.
這些例子告訴我有bb與否,不是在我的控制下,既是這樣,何不享受現在,活在當下.

原文章由 Kellyaugust2004 於 08-4-17 15:49 發表
sugar
thanks for your comfort and understanding. i feel much better now. only sad for a few days.
i'm in day 10 today. last trying before ivf in next cycle. sometime i just wonder when's God 's timi ...

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發表於 08-4-18 15:33 |只看該作者

Nemo
thanks for your sharing and understand. i will try focus on other things which God wants me to do .
relax . and relax

原文章由 Nemo1222 於 08-4-18 13:37 發表
Kellyangus2004:

We do the best, GOD do the rest.
If you believe everything is in His hand.
Just let Him prepare for you.
We don't know what's the best for us, but He know. I can't say I will pray fo ...

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發表於 08-4-21 12:42 |只看該作者

Kelly,

在等的過程一點也不好受,而且壓力都會getting higher. I understand your feeling. Most of sisters waiting for it have the same feeling too. Many friends around me get pregant. But I got nothing. I even have pressure from my parents and parents in law. Lucky, my husband fully support me.

I think having 同路人 is very important.

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發表於 08-4-21 16:00 |只看該作者

Nemo
thanks for your support and sharing. i'm trying hard to live what God wants me to do . though it's not easy .
let's keep supporting each other and praying .

原文章由 Nemo1222 於 08-4-21 12:42 發表
Kelly,

在等的過程一點也不好受,而且壓力都會getting higher. I understand your feeling. Most of sisters waiting for it have the same feeling too. Many friends around me get pregant. But I got nothin ...

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發表於 08-4-21 17:40 |只看該作者

hello kelly,

估唔到係 lee 邊都可以見到你!

你囝囝最近怎樣呀? 你是否繼續try naturally?

而我都有keep住睇bk既post但就無勇氣留言, 因為與我同期小產或與我同期開始努力的bk姊妹大多bingo咗, 個個都講懷孕既心得/體驗....而我就叫做try咗5個cycle (因我honey在我排卵期間常常不自覺地感到很大壓力, 再加上佢既工作很繁忙, 我地通常每個cycle在排卵期間個5-6日開工1次, 最多2次, 所以bingo既機會又相對細), 今日係第6個cycle day4, 唉!

另外, 與我同期懷孕的親戚下個月尾就生, 我 lee 排時常諗如果唔係小產, 我的bb都會係下個月尾出世, 所以近日心情又再次跌入谷底!

小產已半年了, 仍未bingo, 我又擔心會否上次刮宮刮薄咗子宮內膜, 又擔心係咪輸卵管塞咗, 有時會擔心到哭起來, honey 安慰我話應該係"開工"不足有關, 但係我同佢講上次bingo都係開咗1次工!

其實我完全明白生命是神所掌管, 地上的timing同神既schedule係唔同, 但我好軟弱, 經不起神給我既訓練 (eg. 忍耐, 順服, 信心, 平安, 不妒忌, 不擔憂...等).

我就快高齡, honey就41, 我真希望可以快些承受神的產業!

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發表於 08-4-21 22:28 |只看該作者

Julibe
how are u doing?
my son is improving but of coz , having difficult times .
i'm trying naturally as well and probably will do ivf next cycle .
i know it's not easy for us . but keep praying for u to have strong faith in Him. having more quiet time before God is good for u . i heard His comfort words these days so gaining strength .
gan ba de!
God's timing is unexpected and His love to u and endless.

原文章由 Julibe 於 08-4-21 17:40 發表
hello kelly,

估唔到係 lee 邊都可以見到你!

你囝囝最近怎樣呀? 你是否繼續try naturally?

而我都有keep住睇bk既post但就無勇氣留言, 因為與我同期小產或與我同期開始努力的bk姊妹大多bingo咗, 個個都講懷孕既 ...

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發表於 08-4-22 11:33 |只看該作者

"其實我完全明白生命是神所掌管, 地上的timing同神既schedule係唔同, 但我好軟弱, 經不起神給我既訓練 (eg. 忍耐, 順服, 信心, 平安, 不妒忌, 不擔憂...等). "

Julibe,

I think it is the normal feeling of us. Don't be so unhappy! At least you are not the only one. I had mc in Apr 07 and have been wait for 1 year.
During the waiting period, I am also very emotion and question about God. Sometime even want to give up. Those who do not have this experience may not fully understand our feeling or may be even blame our faith is not strong enough. But I think I get support from here. Because we have the similar experience and we are in the Lord.

Try to be relax!!!!

原文章由 Julibe 於 08-4-21 17:40 發表
hello kelly,

估唔到係 lee 邊都可以見到你!

你囝囝最近怎樣呀? 你是否繼續try naturally?

而我都有keep住睇bk既post但就無勇氣留言, 因為與我同期小產或與我同期開始努力的bk姊妹大多bingo咗, 個個都講懷孕既 ...

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發表於 08-4-22 15:16 |只看該作者

Julie,

唔好無心機啦, 你得閑睇反我寫的經驗吧, 我試過三次小產, 第三次仲係成24週, 傷心左差不多3年, 後尾正視左自己的問題再次面對自己同神, 又不停咁禱告, 終於等左前後9年我的小b才在今年3月出世, 我都唔想做高齡媽媽, 但神決定時間的! 所以我點解27歲都唔得, 但要高齡先可以呢? 你試吓同心和你的蝦子餅禱告, 為你們的心境和未得的產業禱告, 也求神教導你們祂的心意如何!

原文章由 Julibe 於 08-4-21 17:40 發表
hello kelly,

估唔到係 lee 邊都可以見到你!

你囝囝最近怎樣呀? 你是否繼續try naturally?

而我都有keep住睇bk既post但就無勇氣留言, 因為與我同期小產或與我同期開始努力的bk姊妹大多bingo咗, 個個都講懷孕既 ...

以馬內利, 神與我們同在! :-D :-D

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kelly, nemo1222 & manwah,

多謝你們的支持!

我定會為生育一事用心禱告, 傾聽神的話語, 使我所作所行的是合神的心意!

另外, 我現時的工作是合約形式, 將於年尾屆滿, 屆時整個部門都會解散. 近日我在想, 究竟應該趁現在市道尚可搵工, 定繼續做現時的工作到屆滿為止, 但一般來說年尾較難搵工. 我honey就覺得繼續做到合約屆滿為止才搵工, 因為佢話黎緊半年我地都會為生bb努力, 而我現時的工作不是太辛苦, 對我身心都比較好, 但我擔心如巧合地在年尾合約屆滿時bingo, 咁我就要等1年後才可搵工, 雖然honey 話問題不大, 如真的那麼巧合, 咪生完先工作, 佢仲話我想得太多, 好多事情時預計不到的. 但我始終唔想將一整年的家庭負擔由honey一個人背上, 因為佢份工都不是太穩陣, 工作壓力又很大! 我雖然很想有bb, 但亦不希望只是為了生bb的事而令honey這麼辛苦! 求神讓我能選擇合祂心意的道路!

manwah,

我真的覺得你很堅強, 亦很佩服你的勇氣! 在你的經歷中, 我亦深深體會到神的慈愛及大能! 你說得對, 時間是神所定的, 只要是祂的時間, 祂必會成就!

[ 本文章最後由 Julibe 於 08-4-23 00:39 編輯 ]

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我同老公傾過,覺得都是時候做檢查( 精子&排卵情況),請問各立有冇好介紹?請pm我,謝謝!!!

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sugar
how r u ? back to hk already?

原文章由 castersugar 於 08-4-16 01:53 發表
KELLY,

我明白妳的心情! 唉! 自己未有, 見到人地得左, 唔開心好正常GE! 如果係我, 我會比自己唔開心, 因為唔想屈住屈住, 所以妳唔使FEEL BAD WO! ^^

我好快就返HK了, 18/4就返了! 今次會睇左中醫先, 條理下先放雪 ...

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發表於 08-4-24 23:09 |只看該作者

Nemo
If you want to visit the Dr soon, maybe Dr So (in Mongkok) is good. His charges is reasonable.
pls let me know if you need his info. besides, do u consider to visit Dr Tay?

原文章由 Nemo1222 於 08-4-24 14:35 發表
我同老公傾過,覺得都是時候做檢查( 精子&排卵情況),請問各立有冇好介紹?請pm我,謝謝!!!

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發表於 08-4-28 12:42 |只看該作者

Kelly,

Thanks for your information. I get no idea on both doctors. We planned to have sperm checking first.

Is it expensive for Dr. Tay?

原文章由 Kellyaugust2004 於 08-4-24 23:09 發表
Nemo
If you want to visit the Dr soon, maybe Dr So (in Mongkok) is good. His charges is reasonable.
pls let me know if you need his info. besides, do u consider to visit Dr Tay?

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發表於 08-4-28 12:52 |只看該作者

很努力地看了一部份各姊妹們從前的留言,心裡已很感動,發覺神要我藉著這些見證學習忍耐,等候.

我再一次的拾回對神的信心,不再強求,將結果交給神.

當然也要謝謝各位的伐禱!!!!

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