Sharon,
Ella and other beauties have the rith point. Your new horse isn't that bad in terms of her attitude. I think if you keep her here after little queen's birth, she will treat and care little queen well.
ALl it matters is that she may not know the right thing to do at the right time. I understand how you feel because your situation is to have a new born bb who need to be taken care of, which is unlike most of us here (including myself) who have bigger kids and thus can tolerate horses who don't need to be exact. Some ignorant outsiders even comment I do not give the horse enough chance to practice or interact with my kids to have made her performing the way she is now. They don't know it, but God knows that I have done my best to train,remind, motivate, etc. End up it seems to be my fault.
My horse don't seem even to know my kids after being here for 3 months. Neither interaction nor even taking a look at their faces. I wonder if my horse can identify my kids from among a crowd of kids! I'm not kidding! In terms of this, I think yours should be much much better if you are to project it 3 months' time from now.
I suggest to spend a little more time managing and motivating her to see how it works out. Give yourself and the new horse a last chance!
Gd luck!
[ 本帖最後由 pollyw 於 10-7-4 14:46 編輯 ]