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原帖由 Sharon886 於 10-7-4 11:50 發表
好似有少少野漏出來，又有少少痛，不過上幾次食吓野又唔痛，要睇吓點。

Sharon, how are you doing? What colour is the discharge? If red, must see doctor. Keep watching if you have the kind of feel like M coming and see doctor where necessary.

Hope you are fine!!

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Sharon,

Ella and other beauties have the rith point. Your new horse isn't that bad in terms of her attitude. I think if you keep her here after little queen's birth, she will treat and care little queen well.

ALl it matters is that she may not know the right thing to do at the right time. I understand how you feel because your situation is to have a new born bb who need to be taken care of, which is unlike most of us here (including myself) who have bigger kids and thus can tolerate horses who don't need to be exact. Some ignorant outsiders even comment I do not give the horse enough chance to practice or interact with my kids to have made her performing the way she is now. They don't know it, but God knows that I have done my best to train,remind, motivate, etc. End up it seems to be my fault.

My horse don't seem even to know my kids after being here for 3 months. Neither interaction nor even taking a look at their faces. I wonder if my horse can identify my kids from among a crowd of kids! I'm not kidding! In terms of this, I think yours should be much much better if you are to project it 3 months' time from now.

I suggest to spend a little more time managing and motivating her to see how it works out. Give yourself and the new horse a last chance!

Gd luck!

[ 本帖最後由 pollyw 於 10-7-4 14:46 編輯 ]

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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-7-4 14:36 發表
Sharon,

Ella and other beauties have the rith point. Your new horse isn't that bad in terms of her attitude. I think if you keep her here after little queen's birth, she will treat and care little ...

Agree

BTW

你看下情況, 真係流啡, 都好去see dr

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原帖由 Sharon886 於 10-7-4 11:50 發表
好似有少少野漏出來，又有少少痛，不過上幾次食吓野又唔痛，要睇吓點。

How are you going?

Any abnormal, go straight to doctor / hospital! Let's know you are OK, right!

To me, attitude is the utmost important. No matter how clever the maids are, how efficient they work, how well they get alone with children & grandparents, it turn out that they play tricks!!!

I believe most people with positive attitude would mostly pay effort in their works.

Remember that I also have 2 kids. I feel what you feel right now. If I were you, the first most important thing was letting the maid knew how to take care your elder queen, particular you will stay in hospital for few days to a week. Then give a time table to her. Let go, you just sit back & relax to see how she works. Give reminder base on her work & performance.
(I remember that you aked for the sample time table. I replied you the time table should be your queen's time table. This is it.).

Any thing, do drop it here. There are many good and clever horse masters here. Support you.
Actually i am also taking lessons here.

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原帖由 Sharon886 於 10-7-4 11:50 發表
好似有少少野漏出來，又有少少痛，不過上幾次食吓野又唔痛，要睇吓點。

想你定必去了看醫生吧！祝一切安好！

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其實你小牛妹工作態度算好好了，我之前的極品，洗完碗唔會問我仲有咩做，只會坐喺房睇雜誌等夠鐘關房門，而家哩件鞋口，同極品有啲似，公主病，完全唔知自己係做咩職位，好似噚晚走出嚟問我佢房把鉸剪喺邊度？我真係小佢喇叭，我問佢係咪搞錯咗以為佢自己係太太？佢房鉸剪唔見咗走嚟問我？佢自己用自己執嘅嘢嚟問我？痴孖根，連我隻佬都擰晒頭，又一件垃圾！

原帖由 Sharon886 於 10-7-4 10:55 發表

係，淨講工作態度，呢隻小牛妹係幾好，幾唔錯。

不過，我既expectation同need，唉，講咗...講咗...講咗...好多次，昨晚我同佢坐低慢慢再講（講到覺得自己好口臭）...

希望佢真係get到啦～

之但係我都俾咗個期佢，同佢講睇佢表現 ...

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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-7-4 14:24 發表
Sharon, how are you doing? What colour is the discharge? If red, must see doctor. Keep watching if you have the kind of feel like M coming and see doctor where necessary.

Hope you are fine!!

Hi Pretty,

I like your hair style!

Any discount if referred by you?

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咦...sharon仲未埋位, 唔知佢點呢....?

polarmama你又點呀? 阿囡好唔好玩呀? :lol

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原帖由 Sharon886 於 10-7-4 11:50 發表
好似有少少野漏出來，又有少少痛，不過上幾次食吓野又唔痛，要睇吓點。

Sharon,
問侯你, 而家點?

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Hi beauties,

Asking your advice this time.

Middle lady showed me this morning before she went on holiday her middle finger which was terribly swollen like a marble.

I told her I would bring her to the doctor tomorrow morning.

When she came back, she told me she had seen a doctor unknown to me, recommended by her friend. Showed her receipt to me (to ask me for refund). It amounts to a stunning $5XX.

Preliminarily I told her it was improper to claim me for the fee charged by a doctor where there was not advance compromise between both parties. And so I told her I cannot refund this full amount. As for what I actually will do (to refund or not or how much), I have some idea in mind but would like to collect you girls' opinion first of all.

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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-7-4 21:29 發表
Hi beauties,

Asking your advice this time.

Middle lady showed me this morning before she went on holiday her middle finger which was terribly swollen like a marble.

I told her I would bring her to ...

比著我, 呢張單我唔會認數. 自把自為, 鐘意就欏張單返來問我欏錢.

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原帖由 pollyw 於 10-7-4 21:29 發表
Hi beauties,

Asking your advice this time.

Middle lady showed me this morning before she went on holiday her middle finger which was terribly swollen like a marble.

I told her I would bring her to ...

普洱姐
根據勞例5.2章節
問 5.2 當傭工患病或受傷，我可否為傭工指定醫生？
根據僱傭合約，傭工須接受任何由僱主提供的註冊醫生的診治。
你應事先與傭工達成協議，說明傭工患病或受傷時該接受哪位醫
生的診治。

你既然已跟中女講明翌日會帶佢去見醫生(即已達成協議, 但哩個協議我諗大家以後要記得録佢音會比較穩妥, 以防哩班劣馬反口), 在法理上佢係唔應該自己去睇未經你同意的醫生, 你係有權唔俾哩個費用. 但, 在情上因你仲要keep佢, 你會點同佢講?

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原帖由 ellawyc 於 10-7-4 20:31 發表
咦...sharon仲未埋位, 唔知佢點呢....?

polarmama你又點呀? 阿囡好唔好玩呀? :lol

係囉, 唔知sharon點呢?

polarmama個囡實好玩啦! 而家一定好忙, 仲好滿足tim, 我仲好懷念當時的感覺!

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原帖由 lily-of-valley 於 10-7-3 23:16 發表

How old am I? 我自己都唔想提, 生日都唔慶祝.
Oh forgot, 你處事好冷靜. 我就好火爆. 睇我同個隻萬人憎黑魔鬼鬧交就知.

我都冇慶祝好耐了, 更加唔記得自己幾多歲, 如果有人刹時間問我, 我都要停一停, 諗一諗, 先記得自己幾多歲!

還記得我囡囡細時, 約6, 7歲, 開始問我幾多歲, 我年年都答佢18歲, 終於佢有次問我, 點解我年年都係18歲的? 嗰次笑到我

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原帖由 lily-of-valley 於 10-7-3 22:31 發表

你指World Cup?

係呀~

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原帖由 bb鼠 於 10-7-4 23:11 發表

係呀~

我隻佬嗰日咪鬼殺咁嘈囉, 話睇小咗場波喎!:;pppp:

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