reginang 寫道:
xother
係hk 做oscar 都要比錢,一般35yrs以上孕婦先會抽羊水.
現在既然已決定,就不要再想太多,有很多高齡媽媽都可以生健康既bb.
我們大家的週數都差不多,一齊努力吖 :mrgreen:
yennie 寫道:
hi xother,
I met my husband in Hong Kong. He was a teacher, most of his collegues were Chinese. He is very keen to learn Cantonese too. I said "forced", but not really...If I "forced" him, he would have lessons with me every week! Anyway, my husband and I are planning to move back to HK for 2 yrs in 2yrs...so it will be useful for him
We planned to have our second child-> we think 1.5 yr apart is ideal. Unforturnately my family are all in HK. I am living with my iin-laws, they are really really good in-laws and help me a lot (babysit a lot~ so that we can go out to see a film, or have a meal)
Last week, I started working in the creche, twice a week. Which I think is really good for me and Francesca as she can learn to share toys with others and play with them.
To be frank, I don't really care about money. Things happen, get over it. I see your idea of "double income", but both of us think it's important to look after our kids when they are young. They will learn faster coz' the bonding between us. Francesca behave very well, no matter where she is. Pre-school or creche doesn't make any different coz she knows what she can and can't do.
Tonight is freezing cold-> wet, chilly and rainy. Wamer than b4? I don't really know as this is just my 2 winter in England. For me, it's cold, full stop.
xother 寫道:
yennie,
Yes, if he is planning to work in HK or he is eager to learn, it is different.
I am glad that you have good relationship with in-law and have free time to relax. Just curious do you have any cultural shock to live with them?
Teacher is a good pay job, so you may not need to worry too much, but it is always good to have saving and have ability to send your kids to learn different skills or hobbies.
Your kids still very young to judge. Wait she is older, then you will know how headache to entertain them or keep them with you.
Do you watch "super nanny"? I like that show very much and you know the interest part of the show is the problem always come with the parent, not the kids. I dont mean that you have problems but it is good show for us to learn what's wrong in our daily life. My daughter also like that show and she can point out all the bad things happen. We like the "thinking chair" technique as it really work for kids.
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yennie 寫道:
hi xother,
I met my husband in Hong Kong. He was a teacher, most of his collegues were Chinese. He is very keen to learn Cantonese too. I said "forced", but not really...If I "forced" him, he would have lessons with me every week! Anyway, my husband and I are planning to move back to HK for 2 yrs in 2yrs...so it will be useful for him
We planned to have our second child-> we think 1.5 yr apart is ideal. Unforturnately my family are all in HK. I am living with my iin-laws, they are really really good in-laws and help me a lot (babysit a lot~ so that we can go out to see a film, or have a meal)
Last week, I started working in the creche, twice a week. Which I think is really good for me and Francesca as she can learn to share toys with others and play with them.
To be frank, I don't really care about money. Things happen, get over it. I see your idea of "double income", but both of us think it's important to look after our kids when they are young. They will learn faster coz' the bonding between us. Francesca behave very well, no matter where she is. Pre-school or creche doesn't make any different coz she knows what she can and can't do.
Tonight is freezing cold-> wet, chilly and rainy. Wamer than b4? I don't really know as this is just my 2 winter in England. For me, it's cold, full stop.
reginang 寫道:
shah
我地一家去上海,已經是第2次去架la,不過果邊有朋友,包食包住麻,又去hea 下囉 :mrgreen:
本身自己好鐘意去旅行,去邊都得,總之有得去下就開心,不過我多數都會帶埋astha一齊去架,祗要吾好怕麻煩,因為咁細個點都要帶好多野架,過到呢關呢,其實anytime 都可以去旅行架.
deebrown 寫道:
AKW,
Kiely is now 27 months old. Setting up a band? Where do I have time? Plus HK is not a live music friendly place. So many live band in HK is 賓賓 & also need a lot of connections.
xother 寫道:
AKW,
Yes, we need you to work! Please dont stay home and use your skills to benefit other kids who need help.
Just curious do you also need to study psychology in order to understand the clients more?
It is hard to say if his stress has affected his life but since I am his wife, I just dont like to see it. I suspect he just whining as we all know husband is another big kid!