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shah


伯爵府

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魅力王子


1661#
發表於 06-12-13 09:04 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

AKW
my son aready 23months,times goes so fast ar~when i see your baby so lovely,i also want have second one ar~ :mrgreen:
AKW 寫道:
shah,
Your boy is very lovely too!! How old is he?
My son is 8 months old. He can pull himself up and walk along the furniture! He is very active, moving around all day long~
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xother


大宅

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1662#
發表於 06-12-13 11:45 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

hi all,
Let me correct what I want to say about being a full time mom. Yes, I agree the first 2 years of the child is very important and it is better to be with mother because no one will love the baby as much as the real mommy.

But when the child is older, we should let them go outside and mommy has to go back to work, especiall if that can improve the quality of life, however, if the money you made is less then the childcare or the father has made enough support the family, then it is another issue.

We all want to close to our child, but we need quality of time, not quantity. You may spend whole day with your child but you dont listen or to understand your child. On the other hand, you spend half an hour each night to talk to the child before they go to sleep. That is big difference!

From my sister's experience, you will have a better relationship with your child if you dont need to push them to do homework!

For those moms who are working in order to provide a better enviroment, I hope you talk to your kids every night before they go to sleep. For myself, I always talk to my daughter when we going home from daycare and try to know her friends in order to create a common topic. Watch TV during weekend and playing games at home. I dont feel anything missing as she is busy at daycare while I am working.
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yennie


男爵府

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1663#
發表於 06-12-13 21:45 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

I am quite close to Tunbridge Wells!
less than half an hour drive~
We always go shopping in T. Wells~
veldasharpe 寫道:
Hi yennie,

My husband's hometown is Kent. My parents in-law are still living in Tunbridge Wells. Are you anywhere near that???

[quote]
yennie 寫道:
I'm in kent
[quote]
reginang 寫道:
hi yennie
你住英國邊一part架 :lol:
[/quote][/quote]
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yennie


男爵府

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1664#
發表於 06-12-13 22:05 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

hi xother,
sorry~I mixed that up!
thanks for your sharing. I do agree that when our kids get older, we need to let go. When I let go = time to go to work. For me, I'd say when Francesca is 6. My husband's mum started working again when he was 10. I don't think I will wait until my kids are 10.
We all have different views. xother, pls don't take it too personal! We are not arguring, are we? We are all good mothers (I believe), we all wanna give our best to our kids. Just do what you think is the best!

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xother


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1665#
發表於 06-12-14 00:07 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

yennie,
Of course we are not arguing. We just state what we believe and do what we can do to make our life better, sometimes I may be wrong but you can correct me too.
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AKW


複式洋房

積分: 498


1666#
發表於 06-12-14 06:36 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

xother,
I'm sure the hotline is for anybody who needs to talk to a psychologist, regardless of the problems. Do you think he's finding an excuse not to call the hotline?
Many somatic problems are triggered by psychological problems. His pain is probably related to stress and anxiety. He just doesn't believe it.
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AKW


複式洋房

積分: 498


1667#
發表於 06-12-14 06:43 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

veldasharpe:
Does Alexandra roll over or crawl? What solid food do you give her? Rice cereal? Does she like it?
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AKW


複式洋房

積分: 498


1668#
發表於 06-12-14 06:45 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

shah,
Your son is almost 2 years old. Are you trying to have another baby? Do you want to have a daughter?? If you have a daughter, I think she will be very beautiful
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xother


大宅

積分: 1136


1669#
發表於 06-12-14 07:27 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

AKW,
thank you for standing on my side that it is psychological problem. I always say to him to go to mental hospital is the final solution for him!
As all the problems are in his head, it doesnt change him if I talk to the psychologist. Yes, he is reluctant to seek for advice and I think that is normal for Asian culture which we dont believe psychology theory, right?

As my pregnacy symptom is less, he seems getting better. What a coincident! He can sleep flat now and I think as time pass, he will be cure. Or wait for my maternity leave, he will have less stress.

If I look at the positive side, he is a good husband as he worries the family so much! Just hope everything is fine and we will see the sunshine shining again!
AKW 寫道:
xother,
I'm sure the hotline is for anybody who needs to talk to a psychologist, regardless of the problems. Do you think he's finding an excuse not to call the hotline?
Many somatic problems are triggered by psychological problems. His pain is probably related to stress and anxiety. He just doesn't believe it.
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shah


伯爵府

積分: 17739

魅力王子


1670#
發表於 06-12-14 10:22 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

AKW
i want to have a daughter but because only me take care my son.i feel so tired~so maybe only a dream...
and What is your baby's favor toy?my son like toy car so much~!
:lol:
AKW 寫道:
shah,
Your son is almost 2 years old. Are you trying to have another baby? Do you want to have a daughter?? If you have a daughter, I think she will be very beautiful
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shah


伯爵府

積分: 17739

魅力王子


1671#
發表於 06-12-14 10:28 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

dear all mami
good morning~
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veldasharpe


複式洋房

積分: 231


1672#
發表於 06-12-14 17:15 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

AKW:

My Alexandra is very lazy. Once I put her down on her front, she will pretend coughing!!! So, she cannot roll over or crawl yet!!!

I am giving her rice cereal. She likes it very much as I usually give her solid food while I am having lunch at home. Also, I always put her where she can see me when we have dinner. So, she is very keen to have solid food.

AKW 寫道:
veldasharpe:
Does Alexandra roll over or crawl? What solid food do you give her? Rice cereal? Does she like it?
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veldasharpe


複式洋房

積分: 231


1673#
發表於 06-12-14 17:15 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

deebrown:

Where are u???
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deebrown


大宅

積分: 2938


1674#
發表於 06-12-14 17:21 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

Here!!!

Went out last night for hot pot, also drink too much , today my head......OMG
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veldasharpe


複式洋房

積分: 231


1675#
發表於 06-12-14 20:02 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

I used to have party like that.....but.....
deebrown 寫道:
Here!!!

Went out last night for hot pot, also drink too much , today my head......OMG
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layon


大宅

積分: 2374


1676#
發表於 06-12-14 20:09 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

Hello veldasharpe

I have to work on Monday
I will miss Arthur so much!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hope I can keep BF.
Since Alexandra is taking solid food, you can reduce the BF, am I right? I think you are doing really well, we both have to add oil

BTW, what brand of rice cereal you are giving to Alexandra? I receive some sample from Nestle, not sure if it is good or not
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layon


大宅

積分: 2374


1677#
發表於 06-12-14 20:12 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

Harubi,

How big is your tummy now? I think it is really good that Takumi is a big boy because it is much easier to take care of if it is big

My son is a good example, he can now sleep from 2230 to 0900hrs

I have to work on Monday so he needs to wake up at 0630hrs, don't know if it works or not I tried it one time and he seems to be fine. Hope everything goes well
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Harubi


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1678#
發表於 06-12-14 22:29 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

layon> my doctor told me this afternoon that Takumi is among the top few babies if counting the weight of 100 babies in average. You can then imagine how big my tummy is...my doctor is a bit afraid that I have got 糖尿 as my BB is so BIG!!!

My mom said that the same that it's better if the BB is bigger. But it's a bit strange as my whole body is not much fatter than before I was pregnant, except the tummy. Anyway, my hubby and I were glad to hear that Takumi is very healthy!

My colleague who gave birth to a baby girl around the same time as you went to office yesterday. She misses her daughter all the time, and guess it takes time for you to get use to the life without Arthur! Ganbatte!

Birth -- 3.7 kg    1Y -- 11.1 kg   2Y -- 13 kg  3Y -- 16.3 kg   4Y -- 17.6 kg   4.5Y -- 19 kg  5Y -- 20.4 kg  5.5Y -- 20.8 kg   6Y -- 23 kg
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deebrown


大宅

積分: 2938


1679#
發表於 06-12-14 22:48 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

HI girls,
When Kiely was about 2 months old, I started to cry everytimes when counting down the days before had to go back to work. Even the first few weeks at work. The 荷爾蒙 was real mess up while BF.
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deebrown


大宅

積分: 2938


1680#
發表於 06-12-14 23:48 |只看該作者

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

veldasharpe 寫道:
I used to have party like that.....but.....

I don't go out very often now, lack of practise, very easy to get drunk. Don't worry when your baby gets abit older you will have your own time more. Of course BF is abit 痴身 too.
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