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發表於 06-12-28 21:46

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

大食媽咪>呢兩日劇情又有轉變，我老媽子同老豆勁唔想我開刀，話既然有五成機會可以入私家醫院順產，最差的情況只不過係去聯合住兩晚集中營，比較起無端端開一刀，除笨有精。

我下星期去檢查時，我要問清楚醫生我係咪夠位生，夠的話老媽子就叫我搏一鋪，避免開一刀。

大食媽咪寫道:
Harubi,
0矣,香港政府真係...

其實我隔0左兩三年先再生,都未必一定要開刀. 之前,我仲諗住今次不如試0下自己生,點知正當咁諗之際,我亞妹就同我講,差d生死佢,叫我唔好試. 而家你仲咁講添...我估我下次都好可能揀開刀生...

Birth -- 3.7 kg 1Y -- 11.1 kg 2Y -- 13 kg 3Y -- 16.3 kg 4Y -- 17.6 kg 4.5Y -- 19 kg 5Y -- 20.4 kg 5.5Y -- 20.8 kg 6Y -- 23 kg

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發表於 06-12-29 07:00

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

Harubi,
係呀,我都唔明,好多人都好抗拒開刀生仔. 其實我又覺得無所謂丫,唔生仔又唔代表一世人都唔使開刀. touchwood,如果第時有乜東瓜豆腐,都係要開刀做手術架啦

除非你打算生好多啦,開好多次刀就話唔係咁好0者...

不過,都係睇你個人意願啦. 如果其實你自己都唔係咁想既話,不如就順0下兩老意,搏一搏啦~

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AKW

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發表於 06-12-30 04:10

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

大食媽咪,
咁都幾好噃, 你老公同亞囡一齊學講廣東話! 不過你亞囡應該會好快超越你老公~
我諗我囝囝好似我老公咁, BB時好肥好大隻, 之後越大越高就越來越瘦... 不過我囝囝真係好大力, 又無時停, 每次換片換衫都好似打仗咁, 攪到我成日都好累

你亞囡係活躍型定文靜型?

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shah

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發表於 06-12-30 11:10

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

AKW
your son is heavy too woo~!are u have helper?
i have no so when i born my son later ,i "m thiner than before...because so tired la

and he night time will wake up 2-3 times

daytime i sometime take him outside playing,because so boring at home la~~ :mrgreen:

AKW 寫道:
shah,
My son is very heavy already! He's only 8.5 months, but he weighs almost 24lbs!!! It's hard for me to hold him for a long time.....my shoulders and my back ache all the time
What do you usually play with your son at home?

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發表於 06-12-30 12:38

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

AKW,
does the company subsidy the medical? It is not all pay by your own pocket, right?
yes, the grocery may be cheaper in Canada, but other than that, US will be cheaper as the buying power is 10 times bigger than Canada. eg, we bought a car seat for $150 and I see the same model in Kmart is only $90! I cant go to US, so I have to pay more eventhough I know it is cheaper to buy it in US. Besides, we need to add 14% taxes on top of almost everything while US doesnt charge so much, right?

It is like working in HK or working in China. Everything in HK is expensive but it is still worth to work in HK as the salary is much more.

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AKW 寫道:
xother,
Even the salary might be higher in the States, but we have to pay for the expensive medical expenses and other stuff. My friend (the one who lived in Toronto, but also stayed in the states for a few months) told me that everything is more expensive in the states than in Canada, even groceries. So, wouldn't it be the same at the end?

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發表於 06-12-30 12:54

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

Harubi,
I just want to share my opinion here. If you can give birth by natural, it will be the best for you and your child. If you go for surgery, you need to be knock off and do you think that is good for your child? Yes, surgery is very common nowadays but why we need to ask for if there is an option?
My sister couldnt give birth by natural and she has to rush to have surgery. She said every time you go knock off, your brain get some damage because of the medicine. Her child also get hurt as the doctor cut too deep and has some scratch mark on his head. I also see on TV that one lady got "meat eating bateria" after the surgery and a big scar left on her tummy.

I agree with your parent as we all want to give the best to our child.

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發表於 06-12-30 23:49

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

xother>Yes, I agree with you. As I will visit my doctor coming Tuesday, if he tells me that I can give birth naturally, I will go for that. Though there is some chance that I have to stay in the public hospital, but I should be OK to bear that 3D/2N. One trouble thing is, I need to repack my bag as I have to bring more stuff to hospital if I will have to stay in the government one.

Birth -- 3.7 kg 1Y -- 11.1 kg 2Y -- 13 kg 3Y -- 16.3 kg 4Y -- 17.6 kg 4.5Y -- 19 kg 5Y -- 20.4 kg 5.5Y -- 20.8 kg 6Y -- 23 kg

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發表於 06-12-31 08:55

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

hi gals. cannot get onto the Internet for days after the earthquake in Taiwan. Alex is still not well....coughing and runny nose....

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shah

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發表於 06-12-31 09:34

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

my son also has sick this week,always cough too....
Alex take care all~!

veldasharpe 寫道:
hi gals. cannot get onto the Internet for days after the earthquake in Taiwan. Alex is still not well....coughing and runny nose....

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發表於 06-12-31 11:07

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

Good morning all

Have been real busy at work and day off. Hope everyonew is ready for the New Year Celebration. We don't know what to do yet. Maybe go to LKF / TST. Can't believe is already NYE.

Velda & SHah,
Hope your little one get well soon.

Harubi,
I do agree with your parents. If you can , is the best for both your child and especially for yourself. I had no choice at the end to have C-section. The scar is giant and it took me at least 8/9 months before I feel it's fully healed. It's really itchy all the time especially in winter. I need to put cream around the scar all the time, plus it looks horrible. I often blame the surgery of affecting y singing as well.

Go natural if you have a choice, girl.

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發表於 06-12-31 20:01

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

deebrown>Yes, Madam! I will check with my doctor on Tuesday to see if I have the capability to give birth naturally. If so, I will go for this, though I still don't want to stay in a public hospital!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!

Birth -- 3.7 kg 1Y -- 11.1 kg 2Y -- 13 kg 3Y -- 16.3 kg 4Y -- 17.6 kg 4.5Y -- 19 kg 5Y -- 20.4 kg 5.5Y -- 20.8 kg 6Y -- 23 kg

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發表於 06-12-31 20:18

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Harubi:

I think it is a very personal thing to choose whether you want to give birth naturally or by C-session. I have decided that I wanted a C-session the moment that I knew I was pregnant. Why?? I think it is just a personal choice. I have heard a lot of 'accidents' for babies born naturally and I have a very good friend whose son was paralysed for life due to some complications when she gave birth. So, I would rather take the risk myself by having a C-session. My mother in-law tried to talk me out of it but I was determined. Actually, my husband did not agree with that too but he was too afriad to voice out. Anyway, I will support you no matter what you choose. But I agree, don't go to public hospital if you can afford private.

Harubi 寫道:
deebrown>Yes, Madam! I will check with my doctor on Tuesday to see if I have the capability to give birth naturally. If so, I will go for this, though I still don't want to stay in a public hospital!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!

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發表於 06-12-31 21:33

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

velda>I agree with you that that's a personal choice. You know, when I knew I was pregnant, I decided to choose natural birth. The only reason why I am switching between the two now is I want to secure a bed in private hospital. If I can secure a bed at the time I rush to hospital (i mean private one), I have no hesitation to choose natural birth. The availability of bed is a BIG problem for the moms-to-be these few months!

I talked with layon the other day asking her to lead a team to arrest those overstay PRC pregnant ladies...there are plenty of those in hospitals...*just kidding*

Birth -- 3.7 kg 1Y -- 11.1 kg 2Y -- 13 kg 3Y -- 16.3 kg 4Y -- 17.6 kg 4.5Y -- 19 kg 5Y -- 20.4 kg 5.5Y -- 20.8 kg 6Y -- 23 kg

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大食媽咪

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發表於 07-1-1 06:23

Re: 精靈混血 BB 媽媽大集會 Part III

係呀,其實順產同開刀都各有好處.
人地話順產既產程,對bb身體有好處. 不過亦聽過好多自己生bb出既意外,所以真係好睇個人意願.
anyway,最緊要都係生得開心,bb媽咪都健健康康.

Harubi,
祝你一切順利~

[size=x-large]各位媽咪&小朋友,祝你地新年快樂,身體健康

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