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Re: 忘憂俱樂部續集 - 玩之一族

Tiffany 寫道:
yinyin,
我尋晚問左佢想點，佢又問返我想點，我話係未分開下好d，佢問我佢搬定我搬，之後佢又出左街，今朝6am先返

Tiffany
洗唔洗講倒要搬走咁嚴重呀! 平心靜氣傾吓啦! 唔好咁輕易講"分開下"; 唔好因為一啖氣而衝口而出講D咁嘅說話啦. 其實有冇想過個BB只係導火線, 可能仲有其他問題存在而你哋冇發覺呀

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tiffany, danielboy & sarama
next week 我都ok架, 出來申下個人諗野會通d.

audreymom
happy birthday!!!

yinyin & danielboy
你地好好plan諗定仔女條路.
我其實冇咩點諗, 好c懶.
我目的只有一個, 就係唔好要我辛苦陪讀書.

sarama
你有咩煩jet?

btw, 我想要eye doctor contact.
可唔可比多次你上次帶sara睇果個info我?

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yinyin

SC 2005 Nursery (Part 1)SC 2006 Lower (Part 1)

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發表於 06-6-29 10:32 |只看該作者

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Tiffany

你係咪真係想分開下ga???
如果為了小b 搞到2個人到如此田地, 唔係好值得.

我真係想返gym 架, 不過要我12:30帶佢去我又未安排到,如果我工人帶aaron跟你地一齊去可以嗎?

上2個星期ionie 問我aaron 呢, 我都好想帶佢下來玩, 可過我要唱歌, 因此我交了佢比何老師同佢地課室玩具.

bignose
如果你急需要, 近近地九龍城播道醫院都幾好架
我女上年暑假去check 過費用hk$180

http://www.evanhosp.org.hk/photos/poster/optometric_700.jpg

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發表於 06-6-29 10:33 |只看該作者

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yinyin,
I fully understand. 所以I always emphasize, 學校好唔好, 好depends on 個人既expectation, 蔡繼有果類學校真係accommodate到我既need, 但school fees真係貴, 所以你哋叫我生, 我真係afford唔到, 不過蔡繼有真係勁難考, 我無信心. 去北京我曾經諗過, 但我好衰, 始終對大陸人無好感, 陳守仁我有事去唔到, please check PM.

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發表於 06-6-29 10:38 |只看該作者

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yinyin
congratulations!!!
好羨慕你有勇氣生3個生朋友, 好勁呀.

Audreymom,
happy birthday!

Tiffany,
聽到你咁講, 真係好令人擔心. 兩夫妻關係, 唔係由bb去maintain架, 而係要多D溝通. 佢唔主動傾計, 咪係主動同佢傾lor. 有乜野唔開心, 出來同我地一齊傾下, 我地個個都支持你架.
果晚我都好想問下你, 但我hubby係度, 費事佢88掛掛. 仲有, ionie真係好乖好可愛, 相信你肚入面個bb女都會一樣咁可愛架. Cheer up.

Danielboy,
我地諗法好似, 去外國讀書同溶入外國生活係兩回事. 我地3姊妹都在外國讀書, 最細細妹溶入得最好, 因佢過去時得5, 6歲, 比我地更易適應. 我想比makus早D過去都係呢個原因, 想佢第時在外國生活, 可能我唔係咁睇好HK. 好驚18年後果班雙程證mama所生既仔女來晒HK, 到時政府既配套又唔知點咁, 受害既咪係班細路. 開會時班醫生係咁諗計吸引雙程證mama來醫院生, 係就係可以增加收入, 但有冇為將來個社會諗下呢.

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發表於 06-6-29 10:44 |只看該作者

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bignose
我目的只有一個, 就係唔好要我辛苦陪讀書>>> 好甘聽, 我都係甘唸, 最lazy 係我地lu.

你都知我份人ge la, 第1時間唔開心, 第1時間申晒出黎, 我99單野咪"申"左law.....

makusma
<<好驚18年後果班雙程證mama所生既仔女來晒HK, 到時政府既配套又唔知點咁, 受害既咪係班細路. 開會時班醫生係咁諗計吸引雙程證mama來醫院生, 係就係可以增加收入, 但有冇為將來個社會諗下呢. >>
呢排我地班11月預產期mami 都不斷係度講甘呢個話題, 越講越嬲, 係大陸有好多呢D package (around HKD18K, 唔包醫院費用) 比呢班mami 黎HK 生仔, 而我地ge 政府, 就1味放人落黎生.....到班小朋友適齡時, 就黎HK 讀書, 大部分都係入政府學校, 而我地HK 呢班小朋友就無可耐何要去津校or 私校.
今朝聽radio, 陪正plan gan 轉直資

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發表於 06-6-29 10:54 |只看該作者

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MON, 我同您個諗法似d, 有係無錢移民吖............同, 返北京呀上海呀都唔錯, 我見我公司d上海北京同事, 佢地諗野闊過我地好多好多.......

danielboy, 我讀大學時見親外國d出名u既professor嚟授課, 嘩, 同local既俾真係無得比! 佢地未必教好多好多, 但佢地真係識引導我地點去諗..........我希望我下世投胎有機會讀最一級既學府...........所以我都希望亞囡讀到! 移唔移民都好, 去外國讀書一定無走雞! 聽您咁講, 本來plan F3送佢走, 或者要提早讀完小學就走..........咁, 我都唔係要做好多年野咋喎, 好開心名正言順提早退休!

tiffany, 我地始終係外人, 亦只有您最清楚成件事, 無論您點決定, 我地都支持您, ok! 唔使同我地交待d咩, 最緊要您覺得舒服, ok!

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發表於 06-6-29 11:09 |只看該作者

Re: 忘憂俱樂部續集 - 玩之一族

yinyin, 5年生4件辛唔辛苦就好depends on您係一個點既亞媽! 我嗰個同事, 4囝囡都未同佢地沖過涼, 請兩個工人, 唔同佢地溫書(送佢地讀d happy & easy 既學校)! 淨係專住佢地既行為........係咪好好多呢! 咁似乎生多幾過都唔怕!

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audreymon, happy birthday nei!

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Sara-mama,
Exactly. 間間醫院都當雙程證mama係business, 唔諗清楚會有乜野consequence. 前兩日開會個marketing又提呢樣, 佢自己唔要BB, 更係唔關心啦. 好彩我地院長英明, 即刻拒絕, 佢話咁多大陸人在我地醫院, 係對本地mama唔公平. 希望HK政府都係咁諗就好啦.

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monmantong

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發表於 06-6-29 12:00 |只看該作者

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Meowross,
BK is so

I typed a lot of messages and disappeared !
actuallty, to study in university in China is not a big problem, i believe the univerisities in china will be better than HK Universities, because i know the teacher qualities are very good. However, I don't have confidences about the food qualities in china. Even you have to pay very high price on foods, it does not mean you can get the same things.

living standard and quality in china one day will be good, and I believe 20 years later, everyone are looking at China. so that everyone, even the Foreigners love to invest in China.

I envy you that you have money to fly oversea and study with her..

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發表於 06-6-29 12:08 |只看該作者

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Tiffany,
Totally agree with Carson_mum. BB 既sex唔會喺一個relationship扮演咁重要既role, 恕我直言, 你哋本身溝通上有問題在先, 鬥氣分開冷戰係coward行為, 而且極度幼稚, 愚蠢不負責任

. If I were you, 我會揾社工, 你哋兩個都咁火爆, 三句唔埋兩句一定鬧交, 你哋需要一個第三者, Catholic Marriage Advisory Council (Tel:28101105) 有呢d service, 但你同老公都要肯合作, 有共同目標 & 決心去挽救呢段關係.

Hi all,
順帶一提, 佢哋經常有seminar/discussions, 我由婚前, 婚後, 生BB前, 至點教仔既活動都參加過, 幾有得著架.

Tiffany, Sara-mama, bignose & all,
Next week 忘憂 go go go. Sara-mama, 你唔drink得,等我呢個衰婆坐你隔離引下你.

mon,
Exactly. Hong Kong students are mostly reluctant to participate in discussions. They don't even know how to ask questions properly. You will notice this when you go to say, even primary school seminars, when the parents would only ask questions on how interviews are conducted, what questions will be asked and what kinds of children will be selected. My God! They only focus on the end result. They only want to enter the school because of its name and try to mould their children in the "correct form" to suit the interviewer's taste. Nobody ever asks the teaching approach and philosophy of a school to see whether it really meets your expectations. When they are asked why they choose a certain school, they just say they don't know or give silly answers like, "my friend said it is good". So damn stupid. Sorry 我頂唔順呢d野, 以前我問有d同事點解咁做, 如果佢夠膽答我, "唔知呀, XX話咁", 一句"唔知呀", 我真係嬲到........

我幾鬼寸架.

maksuma
我哋幾兄弟溶入外國生活無太大問題, 哥哥同我返黎for other reasons, 但結咗婚就唔走得咁易. 唉! Honestly 我幾後悔返咗黎.

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Re: 忘憂俱樂部續集 - 玩之一族

Mon, 唔使envy喎, 您咪宜家開始蓄囉! 我都係蓄啫嘛! 再唔係到時賣左層樓咪有$套現同亞囝去讀書囉! 隻佬就話之佢c

有$就唔便捱騾仔啦!

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發表於 06-6-29 12:30 |只看該作者

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Tiffany,
also, last time when I attended some talks about marriage(held by my church), the speaker said whenever we have quarrels with our spouses, never should we meantion " separate " or divorce", because once we say these words, we will easily break the relationships...
please consider carefully and have a talk seriously with him. remember not to speak any word to hurt each other ..

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Sara-mama

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發表於 06-6-29 13:06 |只看該作者

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makusma
你地個院長得確英明, 好采我gan 你地間醫院生仔姐!
聽講法國醫院就有同內地ge 機構聯繫, 幫好多大肚婆黎HK 生仔, 最近有個HK mami 作動去到法國醫院, 醫院無晒位要佢轉去另1間醫院. 醫院為左增加收入, 攪到我地班mami 好無奈.

danielboy
衰婆你話坐就坐ge la

, 等我自已帶支私貨去先(提子汁) :lol:

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發表於 06-6-29 13:39 |只看該作者

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makusma & Sara-mama,
雙程證mami黎HK生仔, 真係人神共憤

中國係強國有前途啫, 但唔一定要住喺中國架嘛, 鬼佬揾大陸佬$洗唔洗移晒民黎呢度? 再講, 揾少d唔緊要, 我追求簡單生活, high親大陸佬都好難簡單.

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發表於 06-6-29 13:57 |只看該作者

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danielboy,
no regret, at least you know a lot of pretty moms here.

if you are not in HK, maybe you feel very boring.. but if you go back to Australia, then you still catch up the time for visting BK, at least the time difference is only 2 hours. but if you go to Canada/US, you cannot chat with us at the day time.

I am so eager to look for a very simple life, to be a housewife at home, cook for children, take care of my hubby and myself, but not in HK. but my hubby does not like emmirgation, he said if he needs to do some " blue collar works " .. because he is not professional or has high qualification.

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makusma

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發表於 06-6-29 14:27 |只看該作者

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Danielboy,
Honestly, 我都有後悔返咗黎. 好彩我同hubby有共同想法, 一定會返過去. 不過我好鬼衰, 見hubby開始search & apply果面D工, 又有D唔舍得HK. 我諗我最唔舍得既係我份工&一班同事.

唔好話我其視, 我真係好唔like班雙程證mami. 有時見佢地頻頻撲撲咁入院出院, 都唔知為乜. 有d由生到出院, 老公都唔見(可能在大陸), 又幾慘. 仲有果D在醫院門口坐到零晨先入院, 為左比小一晚住院費, 都幾無奈.

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makusma/saramama

如果book 定開刀時間生仔會否好d .
同埋d 雙程證mami多唔多去浸會生ga.

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