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洋房

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發表於 07-12-3 17:00 |只看該作者
如題,我老公唔幫我


別墅

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2#
發表於 07-12-3 17:04 |只看該作者
一定會! 如果我冇錢用要向老公救求, 老公一定會幫我, 但我份人較倔強, 好多時都吾同老公問, 盡量都自己搞掂算, 吾想煩佢, 到真係搞吾掂先會同佢講......請問, 樓主發生咩事?, 你老公關係點?, 佢點樣吾幫你呀


翡翠宮

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3#
發表於 07-12-3 17:06 |只看該作者
咁就要睇下佢係咪之前warn過你叫你唔好咁大使/爛賭等.... 否則在正常情況下一次半次無理由咁忍心架喎
原文章由 tinasy 於 07-12-3 17:00 發表
如題,我老公唔幫我


大宅

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4#
發表於 07-12-3 17:10 |只看該作者
一般我覺得會幫既,但梗有另類情況(例如爛賭/慣性爆卡o個d)

你發生咩事老公唔幫呢?


別墅

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5#
發表於 07-12-3 17:11 |只看該作者
原文章由 ringoivy 於 07-12-3 17:06 發表
咁就要睇下佢係咪之前warn過你叫你唔好咁大使/爛賭等.... 否則在正常情況下一次半次無理由咁忍心架喎

我都同意,你嘅說法!


子爵府

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6#
發表於 07-12-3 17:13 |只看該作者
睇下咩事啦~ 要睇下抵唔抵幫囉.


珍珠宮

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發表於 07-12-3 17:25 |只看該作者
對對對:)
原文章由 ringoivy 於 07-12-3 17:06 發表
咁就要睇下佢係咪之前warn過你叫你唔好咁大使/爛賭等.... 否則在正常情況下一次半次無理由咁忍心架喎
一個人之所以快樂,不是因為她擁有得多, 而是因為她計較得少


子爵府

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8#
發表於 07-12-3 17:25 |只看該作者
幫都要藉得先幫,你估老公就一定要幫,有時幫你變害你.自己檢討下係咪每次有財政問題都要人幫先
原文章由 tinasy 於 07-12-3 17:00 發表
如題,我老公唔幫我


洋房

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9#
發表於 07-12-3 17:44 |只看該作者
首先,我係在職媽媽,收入唔多,沒有做錯任何事,對家已盡全責,家中所有開支由我負責(供樓,工人salary除外),management fee,electricity, gas, water , daily expenses of the family, marketing, bb所布支出,奶粉,diapper,打針,工人所有什費等等,仲有自己交通費,保險費... i didn't waste a bug ( i can't afford to waste a bug), because my salary cannot cover all the expenses that i need to pay. i ask for my husband's help, he earned 4-5 times more than me per month. His expenses is only the mortgage and the bun bun's salary, his insurance and his mother's 家用. He refuses to help me, he said that is my responsiblity, i should handle it myself, he said he won't give me a bug. i know he doesn't has financial problem, he bought a new camera lately, it's about $3000, i request him to help me or support me some of the expenses, he refuses...


伯爵府

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發表於 07-12-3 17:50 |只看該作者
咁佢供樓會用左幾錢左右? 佢知唔知你人工大約有幾多? 同埋係咪結婚前已大家同意每人負起部份呢?? 你試下列個表俾佢睇, 當然列明收入及一般支出費用再俾佢睇下, 睇下佢可唔可以每月再俾多d咁啦.


洋房

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11#
發表於 07-12-3 18:00 |只看該作者
供樓會用左幾錢左右? around $15000, only about 1/3 of his salary

he knows my salary is not enough to cover
before we get married, we promised to share the expenses, because the salary of my previous job is more than the present job, i quitted the job because he requested me to do so or he will get divorced. later, i was pregnant, he asked me to stay at home until bb is born, but he didn't give me any 家用, i only used my saving to survive, but i need to go to marketing, share the expenses, but he is willing to give 家用to his mother, who had a work at that time.
after bb is born, i find i must find a job to survive, he knew that i got a job, request me to share more with him, but my salary is far less than the previous one, can't cover the expenses lor ,he still refuses to help me lor


大宅

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12#
發表於 07-12-3 18:10 |只看該作者
咁有無問佢咩理由唔幫你呀? 個b佢都有份個喎, 理應要比返一半bb既洗用你架.


子爵府

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發表於 07-12-3 19:41 |只看該作者
原文章由 tinasy 於 07-12-3 18:00 發表
供樓會用左幾錢左右? around $15000, only about 1/3 of his salary

he knows my salary is not enough to cover
before we get married, we promised to share the expenses, because the salary of my previous ...


tinasy,

你人工有無一萬蚊?不過如果乜都要比,真係唔夠喎,你老公無理由唔知架喎?-(  


珍珠宮

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14#
發表於 07-12-3 19:56 |只看該作者
會~
我之前爭落好多卡數,仲有財務公司
條數加加埋埋都唔係細
全部都係老公幫我


複式洋房

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15#
發表於 07-12-3 20:17 |只看該作者
我覺得咁樣又真係唔係咁岩
不過
我有個朋友結左婚幾年,最近生埋BB,佢地夫妻一直以o黎都係將屋企大大小小既費用加起上來,再計埋各自給父母的家用後,將成條數除二,每個月頭就各自將錢存入聯名戶口,試過有一段時間佢老公搵唔到咁多錢,佢寧願佢老公去揸埋夜更的士都話唔理佢,總知所有野都要一人一半。


子爵府

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16#
發表於 07-12-3 20:27 |只看該作者
兩公婆計到咁清, 真係冇乜意思....
尤其個老公有困難, 寧願佢去做兼職都唔幫下佢, 似乎有點兒那個...
原文章由 jasonjodie 於 07-12-3 20:17 發表
我覺得咁樣又真係唔係咁岩
不過
我有個朋友結左婚幾年,最近生埋BB,佢地夫妻一直以o黎都係將屋企大大小小既費用加起上來,再計埋各自給父母的家用後,將成條數除二,每個月頭就各自將錢存入聯名戶口,試過有一段時間佢老公搵唔 ...


禁止訪問

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發表於 07-12-3 21:07 |只看該作者
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伯爵府

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18#
發表於 07-12-3 21:17 |只看該作者
點解要計到咁清o既
我覺得兩公婆如果計得咁清, 好似好辛苦咁


子爵府

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發表於 07-12-4 00:23 |只看該作者
he asked me to stay at home until bb is born, but he didn't give me any 家用, i only used my saving to survive, but i need to go to marketing, share the expenses, but he is willing to give 家用to his mother, who had a work at that time.
after bb is born, i find i must find a job to survive, he knew that i got a job, request me to share more with him

咁佢唔得啦!叫你留喺屋企養胎.又唔比錢.老實講你之前講嗰d水電煤+供樓+bb洗費.我個人覺得全部都應該係佢負責.其實你的零用都係要佢比.咁先係啱.

咁老實講,你係佢老婆.好似以我亞媽為例.佢都係無做嘢.管理好頭家.自故就係男人出去搵食,女人就理頭家.雖然宜家女性都會出嚟做嘢.但唔代表男人個責任會小咗.唔可以話你有做嘢就要你分一半嘢去比錢.
爆愛車縫作


翡翠宮

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20#
發表於 07-12-4 01:30 |只看該作者
have you list out all your expense and show him that you CAN"T afford?

and why dun you ask him to pay home expense if he asked you to quit the pervious job??

talk to him, he's your husband and your baby's father. it's his obligation to raise his own kids!!!

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