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發表於 08-4-28 12:58 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

老公這陣子鬼鬼祟祟的同佢家人默默的傾電話~~

問佢做什麼佢又話沒事~~

昨天99打電話比佢~我問什麼事???
佢話他已經遊說到99將間屋租比人~~:;pppp:

我心立即好不舒服~
1 佢應該傾了很久的了~~
2 點解我又是最後一個知??

我又應該比什麼的反應佢呢??

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發表於 08-4-28 13:02 |只看該作者

That's fine. She (your 99) has the right to 將her屋租比人.
And I have my right don't allow her to live in my flat.

原文章由 Funghei 於 08-4-28 12:58 發表
我又應該比什麼的反應佢呢??

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發表於 08-4-28 13:10 |只看該作者

原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-28 13:02 發表
That's fine. She (your 99) has the right to 將her屋租比人.
And I have my right don't allow her to live in my flat.

99佢地去邊到住的no right去control因為flat是的c6的~~
而我

是c6不想我知佢家中的事~~那我是什麼人??~~

問佢我都問到自己覺得自己好煩~~

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發表於 08-4-28 13:26 |只看該作者

Don't be unhappy la. I think your C6 thought this case is not relevant to you, so he did not tell you jei. My C6 always talk to his mum over the phone. He will not tell me what they discussed until I asked.

If you ask me, I think this is really their family case, it's none of your business.

Just keep calm, this is not an issue at all.

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發表於 08-4-28 13:28 |只看該作者

You should be happy about it!
因為flat是c6的 => you don't need to pay (or partly pay) for the flat !
Your husband don't want you to know 佢家中的事 => you don't need to worry about your 62,99.......
If I was you, I will

P.S. My husband always let me (in my name) to refuse my 99's requirements.

原文章由 Funghei 於 08-4-28 13:10 發表

99佢地去邊到住的no right去control因為flat是的c6的~~
而我是c6不想我知佢家中的事~~那我是什麼人??~~

問佢我都問到自己覺得自己好煩~~

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發表於 08-4-28 13:30 |只看該作者

My C6 always let me to answer my 99's call. And ask me to tell my 99 he is out / taking bath / sleeping.......

原文章由 c-wong 於 08-4-28 13:26 發表
Don't be unhappy la. I think your C6 thought this case is not relevant to you, so he did not tell you jei. My C6 always talk to his mum over the phone. He will not tell me what they discussed until ...

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發表於 08-4-28 13:33 |只看該作者

我又係咩都唔知ka,但我覺得仲好la唔洗煩,佢地唔講我唔知,到有咩事起上黎我都可唔洗理
幾好呀.

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-28 13:30 發表
My C6 always let me to answer my 99's call. And ask me to tell my 99 he is out / taking bath / sleeping.......

My husband always let me (in my name) to refuse my 99's requirements我c6都是好的是佢~不好的而佢又不想做的就是我不想用我作衰人 ~~

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發表於 08-4-28 13:53 |只看該作者

原文章由 kellyly 於 08-4-28 13:33 發表
我又係咩都唔知ka,但我覺得仲好la唔洗煩,佢地唔講我唔知,到有咩事起上黎我都可唔洗理
幾好呀.

我都想自己有d種想法~~
但c6的家人有什麼事的時候一定會牽涉到我:;pppp:
因為佢地家人好奇怪的~有什麼事的時候c6的姊姊妹妹佢地會在酒吧呀~傾而我c6又會消失一晚~~佢試過的了~~

有一次我問佢~點解你敢奇怪的有事不在家中討論而要在酒吧傾?/

c6竟然答是因為佢地是敢的

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發表於 08-4-28 14:32 |只看該作者

That's waht man like to do.............
He want to looks as a good son!!!!
However, I don't angry with him. Sometimes I will ask him do he want to refuse them (99) by my mouth? And don't forget to ask thank you to me!!!

原文章由 Funghei 於 08-4-28 13:45 發表

My husband always let me (in my name) to refuse my 99's requirements我c6都是好的是佢~不好的而佢又不想做的就是我不想用我作衰人 ~~

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發表於 08-4-28 14:34 |只看該作者

I won't angyr with my husband. Sometimes I think that he use my name to refuse his parent's requirement is better then he don't refuse them..............At least he know what he should do and what he shouldn't!

原文章由 Funghei 於 08-4-28 13:45 發表

My husband always let me (in my name) to refuse my 99's requirements我c6都是好的是佢~不好的而佢又不想做的就是我不想用我作衰人 ~~

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發表於 08-4-28 14:39 |只看該作者

原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-28 14:32 發表
That's waht man like to do.............
He want to looks as a good son!!!!
However, I don't angry with him. Sometimes I will ask him do he want to refuse them (99) by my mouth? And don't forget to ask ...

其實我有時覺得兩公婆有什麼是要分你的家事，我的家事呢??:;pppp:
如果任何一方家中有事都會牽涉到另一方的(老公或老婆)~~

而其中的過程大家的知情權又去到那裡???

mouth:

問得多大家沒趣~~不問又話不關心~~

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發表於 08-4-28 14:49 |只看該作者

my point is: 你的家事 is your business. If you need my help (discuss with your, us my name to refuse them), I can help you. If not, then solve by yourself. They are your parent/brother/sister.
我的家事is my business. If you want to know, I will tell you. If not, I will solve by myself.
Don't mix two families' 家事 together.

原文章由 Funghei 於 08-4-28 14:39 發表

其實我有時覺得兩公婆有什麼是要分你的家事，我的家事呢??:;pppp:
如果任何一方家中有事都會牽涉到另一方的(老公或老婆)~~

而其中的過程大家的知情權又去到那裡???mouth:

問得多大家沒趣~~不問又話不關心~~:si ...

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-28 14:49 發表
my point is: 你的家事 is your business. If you need my help (discuss with your, us my name to refuse them), I can help you. If not, then solve by yourself. They are your parent/brother/sister.
我的家 ...

OIC~~我想其實現實是不可能將兩家人的事都變成自己的事~~

看開d~~看開dd~~

C6有權不話佢d家事比我聽~~~而我呢~~我的家事
is my business~~~是不敢???

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發表於 08-4-28 15:05 |只看該作者

Are you the elder daughter in your family?

原文章由 Funghei 於 08-4-28 14:54 發表

OIC~~我想其實現實是不可能將兩家人的事都變成自己的事~~

看開d~~看開dd~~

C6有權不話佢d家事比我聽~~~而我呢~~我的家事
is my business~~~是不敢??? ...

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-28 15:05 發表
Are you the elder daughter in your family?

嘩~~你又知的??

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發表於 08-4-28 15:33 |只看該作者

It is the chara. of elder son/daughter.
It is because the elder one always think that he/she has teh responsibility to their families......They like to handle all the 家事
I am the younger daughter in my family. Therefore, I alway think that it is not my busniess to handle those 家事. Don't disturb me! I am selfish !

原文章由 Funghei 於 08-4-28 15:19 發表

嘩~~你又知的??

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發表於 08-4-28 15:45 |只看該作者

原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-28 15:33 發表
It is the chara. of elder son/daughter.
It is because the elder one always think that he/she has teh responsibility to their families......They like to handle all the 家事
I am the younger daughter ...

唉~~完來是性格~~我自己都不知~~

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發表於 08-4-28 15:59 |只看該作者

That's why some old people say: it is better for a younger daughter/son marry with a elder son/daughter.
My husband is the elder son in his family. He like to make all the decision for his parent/brothers/sisters. And sometimes he complain about I am not care about his parents ( as I don't want to involve in).
And sometimes, he is angry about me if my we (or my brother) make some decision for my parent. And now, I let him handle all the 2 families' 家事 and I don't involve in. We 2 are all feel happy.

原文章由 Funghei 於 08-4-28 15:45 發表

唉~~完來是性格~~我自己都不知~~

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