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發表於 08-11-12 13:14 |只看該作者

我之前個bun講到明佢吾鐘意stay in mom, 我早上11點出門口返工, 6點回家, 佢都話我係1個stay in mom。佢告訴我很多朋友的僱主也是stay out, 吾會有人督住佢地做野。我同佢講, 不如你辭左份工去搵個stay out mom。佢夠膽死答我: Because I need money, so I need to suffer。之後我都炒左佢, 樓主, 你有無小朋友? 你比one month notice 佢怕吾怕佢玩野?

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皓媽

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I normally wake up at 11am and will not stay at home in the afternoon until my son come back around 4 o'clock. I will go out with my friends one to 2 day a week, so I don't think I 監視距地, but 我係一個冇耐性的人need the house must be clean & tidy, the helper only needs to do the household work, cleaning and cooking. She can sleep at 9pm and wake up at 6am

Within these 3 years,
(1) the 1st helper is an 42 years old, no experience in HK but work in Taiwan before. Always forget things even I remind her for more than 20 times and she don't know how to take care a child when the wheather change cool or hot. So I fired her.

(2) Communication problem.

(3) 35 years old single bun work in HK for 8 years with excellent release letter, unpolite, lazy,talk mobile after one month, then i fired her after 9 months. I know from her friend that she pregnant but she don't know when I fired her.

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發表於 08-11-12 13:59 |只看該作者

你雖然覺得你無監視住佢, 但只要你在家, 佢地已經好吾自在。我不在家時個工人可以坐在梳化傾電話,午睡, 在廚房睇報紙(我個仔告訴我)。而你在家時她可以這樣做嗎? 佢梗係PREFER一日到黑也不在家的僱主啦。

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皓媽

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I have a 8 years old son. I think she is not so bad as I think may be her friend tell her to do it. (唔受得氣) I will observe her during this month and told my son if there have any special must call me. This is the first time that I not fired the maid immediately.

She say sorry to me after she sign the letter of termination, and then continue to do her job like normal. Surprise!

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回覆 #2 Connielai 的文章

啊!!!!!!!!!!我隻實我係屋企佢都午睡架喎,仲要坐沙發。

[ 本文章最後由 123BB 於 08-11-12 16:10 編輯 ]

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原文章由 123BB 於 08-11-12 16:08 發表
啊!!!!!!!!!!我隻實我係屋企佢都午睡架喎,仲要坐沙發。

you accept?

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回覆 #1 春卷的文章

唉, 又冇野做,唔俾佢訓又可以點??我已經養懶左佢, 所以邊個請著佢就pk。

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而家嘅工人真係比以前差，我都suffer緊換工人．見左咁多本地工人，完全無信心（仲要係同一僱主做了數年），我直情覺得佢地已經唔適合打工，係呃飯食．情願請個新嘅，重新再教．希望下一個可以啦．

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發表於 08-11-12 18:17 |只看該作者

皓媽, 你呢個topic簡直講緊我心聲, 我工人岩岩又resigned, 我由個仔出世前到而家第4個工人which我個仔is 19mths now

第一個: 吸毒既, 黎到hk, 乜都唔識做, 都唔緊張, 試過唔知醒, 跟住我叫佢起身(冇責怪口吻), 佢即時彈起身碌落床, 跟住面又唔洗牙又唔刷就衝出廳唔知做乜, 搞到發出巨響, 佢係好似控制唔到情緒咁, 跟住我叫佢冷靜, 佢就好似個漏氣既波咁坐左係地下望住我, then有一日我起身既工人面都青晒, 問佢咩事, 佢話唔舒服, 跟住我老公又沖野比佢飲又不停咁問佢點, 佢最終自己講係一早起身係我門口食左支煙, 咁我問佢係咪smoker, 佢話唔係, 第一次放假時, 去左隔離條村識左d bun bun, 人地比佢, 佢原本想掉左佢, 但係出終好奇所以試下喎, 我問佢見過煙未, 佢話佢家姐都係smoker, 我話你家姐都係smoker你而家先好奇? 之後係屋企我係net-cam見到佢iron我d沖涼毛巾A同B兩條, iron完A就到B, 再iron返A又到B, 就咁iron左over 1hr囉, 最後我當然fire左佢啦, 跟住係廁所個櫃既深深處搵到個煙盒, 入面唔係煙, 係d錫紙黎架, 我下一個maid話比我知, 佢平時接我個囡放學前後都有去買煙架.

第二個: 曾經黎hk同一個employer4年攞左reference, ex-employer話佢ok笑容, 佢呢係你叫佢就做, 不過唔會黑面, 有禮貌既, 咁ok啦, 黎到, 果然係同ex-employer講既一樣, but我慢慢train左之後都好ok, 湊我個仔好有心機, 好景不常, 佢同老公感情有問題, 佢老公要佢即刻返去, 如果唔係就帶走個仔以後唔比佢見, 咁我冇辦法唔比佢去, 咁我地都講好左, 如果將來有機會, 我都會比返佢返黎做. 呢個做左6個月

第三個: 等左個幾月, 終於到, 因為以上兩個都係同一個agent, 咁我就試下轉agent啦, 點知, 請左個大小姐返黎, 佢黎到乜都唔識做, 教佢又唔明, 叫佢洗月, 佢就搵2隻手指拎住條魚, 一路洗就一路大叫(好驚喎), 跟住有一日我放工見個仔隻手咁紅, 跟住就問下工人啦, 佢語氣super輕鬆咁答我: 係呀, 我頭先抱住佢拎粥, 佢一手嗱左落d粥到, 我話咁bb點呀, 有冇喊, 佢仲用個好cute既樣講: no mom, 當時果一刻我真係想煲返滾d粥比佢試下痛唔痛, 跟住有一次佢同我講, 佢其實係菲律賓都有工人用架, 佢黎hk just for experience, 跟住做左2個月, 佢覺得唔好玩, 就走啦, 因為佢家姐比錢佢黎架, 玩完唔鍾意咪走人囉

之後, 我想請返第二個工人返黎, 佢都好想, 亦同佢老公傾好左, 咁我direct請佢啦, 點知過唔到body check, 因為佢有左, 我都算好彩, 黎左先有左我仲大鑊, 咁跟住就請左第4個

第四個: 教書既, 做野肯學, 但係唔主動, 你叫佢做, 佢會做, 你叫佢學, 佢都好肯學, 好錫我仔女, 但係0危機感 & 0注意衛生, 試過有一次唔見我個女, 我叫佢帶我個7歲既女去巴士站撘巴士, then我去個站到接我個囡, 話左比佢知撘幾多號, 點知去到巴士站, 連續有幾架車, 我個女心急, 就上錯左巴士, 工人係站到睇到佢上左架3 digit既巴士, 懷疑佢錯架, 佢就係車外用手勢叫佢落返黎, 我個囡仲以為佢just say goodbye, the架巴士就開走左啦, 跟住我個囡去到西灣河見唔對路落左車, then call我, 我去接佢時咪call bun問佢發生乜野事, 我問佢知唔知呀囡上左架咩車, 佢話3 digit, 咁我問佢你知唔知佢應該上架咩車, 佢話知, 咁我問佢點解唔截住, 佢話我試過用手勢叫佢落返車架, 咁我問佢你明知佢上錯車你都唔call我? 佢唔出聲啦, 我就真係比佢激死, 跟住又唔close kitchen gate, 我個仔入左去, 將碗鹹蛋白照頭淋搞到全身敏感眼都腫埋, 即刻要入醫院睇醫生, then 上2個星期先比我發現, 佢洗奶樽係將d放左1日既奶加水加洗奶樽液mix埋洗奶樽, 唔怪得我個仔不停痾啦, 咁以上咁多野我都冇鬧過佢, 只係解釋比佢聽個嚴重性, 跟住佢又經常好多request, 3月黎, 5月話要放假, 跟住我唔比佢老公又話出黎hk要我工人每晚出去瞓, 話佢瞓覺時間係佢架喎, 最後我都唔比, 跟住久唔久小小事就同我resign架啦, 前排又話要出年3月放假, 跟住又改4月, 跟住再改3月, 我話你唔可以再改, 佢話好, 跟住再改1月, 我唔比佢又resign我咪由得佢resign囉, 咁威脅我, 我都唔玩啦, 真係好慘, 個個工人都係咁, 好似唔憂做咁

我自問係一個好顧主, 從冇對工人呼喝, 做到咁錯都係解釋比佢聽, 生日, christmas果d, 都有份禮物仔.........

我岩岩又confirm左個新bunbun, 如果今次都唔得, 我就比個仔去育嬰院架啦, 唔想再受氣, 個仔去育嬰院都起碼有d受過專業訓練既人湊, 起碼都唔會傷害佢先, 真係好受氣

sorry, 可能太長氣, 但係真係想呻一呻

原文章由皓媽於 08-11-12 11:48 發表
I change to a full time mum for three years, and during this period, i dismiss four bun bun. Yesterday, I complain my 45 years old bun about she cannot clean my bath room tidy and then she said again ...

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2023年兔年勳章畀面勳章 BK Milk勳章

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發表於 08-11-13 14:16 |只看該作者

原文章由 123BB 於 08-11-12 16:39 發表
唉, 又冇野做,唔俾佢訓又可以點??我已經養懶左佢, 所以邊個請著佢就pk。

成間屋點會無野做? 可以叫佢將廚櫃裡的調味料執哂出來逐樽抺, 睇吓放煲,鑊既地方污吾污糟, 污糟就叫佢抺, 再叫佢執床下底, 抺玩具, 鞋櫃 (攞哂D鞋出來叫佢逐層抺), 點會有時間瞓覺？咁你間屋乾吾乾淨?

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發表於 08-11-13 14:31 |只看該作者

回覆 #1 Connielai 的文章

老實講我間屋我認為又幹淨喎, 我要佢每星期抹一次窗架, 廚櫃佢都見到污漕就抹囉, 可能我要求唔係好高呱

我個女未夠6歲已經換左5個工人啦。

[ 本文章最後由 123BB 於 08-11-13 14:33 編輯 ]

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2023年兔年勳章畀面勳章 BK Milk勳章

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發表於 08-11-13 15:26 |只看該作者

原文章由 123BB 於 08-11-13 14:31 發表
老實講我間屋我認為又幹淨喎, 我要佢每星期抹一次窗架, 廚櫃佢都見到污漕就抹囉, 可能我要求唔係好高呱我個女未夠6歲已經換左5個工人啦。 ...

你要求吾高又會換5個工人?廚櫃外面通常都好乾淨, 但入面就會"痴立立", 抽油煙機, 微波爐我都會要工人每星期抹一次。

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