I cannot agree more I just did my FET on the 12/5. I heard nurses and doctor say the more you care and more restrictions you give to yourself the harder to get success. Alot of JM said you have to bed rest etc. my doctor said no such thing as you are not pregnant yet and if you set yourself so much limits...you are under stress...the chance is lesser.
Since I have failed a few IUI and one time IVF, I now take it this time FET may not succeed.....it might take me again and again to try but it's okay really never mind.....hope for the best. This waiting period my husband allow me to go shopping with him and eat happily, he also realized the more restrictions he set on me the harder. Today is my 2nd day after FET, I feel okay great back to work and am going do do a nice facial tonight. Just don't think you are an "alien" or pregnant woman.