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可否分享下佢哋上咗工一段日子既工作情況ma? 我個本身好乖, 依家可能過左蜜月期變得好差....

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bella626 發表於 12-7-16 12:16
可否分享下佢哋上咗工一段日子既工作情況ma? 我個本身好乖, 依家可能過左蜜月期變得好差....

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你個用左幾耐??? 而家變成點??

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我都想知!

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本帖最後由 333s 於 12-7-16 13:57 編輯

bella626 發表於 12-7-16 12:16
可否分享下佢哋上咗工一段日子既工作情況ma? 我個本身好乖, 依家可能過左蜜月期變得好差....? ...

過左蜜月期變得好差...."蜜月期" = 3M?

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發表於 12-7-16 13:43 |只看該作者

回覆：有媽咪用緊斯理蘭卡工人嘛?

I forgot when exactly did my helper arrived, I believe she has now been with us for nearly 4-5 months. Her manner is getting so worse that she is not greeting us in the house. We have to always remind her to be polite. Never say please, never say thank you. She'll simply come to me and say things like: "You, hold this for me." or "You prepare milk." etc. etc..

Never would it be possible for anyone working in HK, even us - employers, who could request for a nap in the afternoon. However, that's what she complained, saying that it's common for them to take naps when working in Saudi....

gotta work pls allow me to continue with the long story later this afternoon...

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發表於 12-7-16 13:51 |只看該作者

your case is impolite issuse their working attitude, maid want to be treated equally, to be respect, however they just stand on their own to think.

never stand on employer side to thought, maybe they never being educated altitude is also important. how to respect your employer.

we need to respect our employer when we work too.

as long as she do work up to my standard clean, tidy & efficiency, i still tolerate their attitude. never say thank you, sorry....

i m okay with nap 30-60 min in the afternoon, however she had to finished daily duties within that day too.

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333s 發表於 12-7-16 13:51
your case is impolite issuse their working attitude, maid want to be treated equally, to be respec ...

Taking a nap is not such a big issue given the helper has got all her routine housework done properly. Me and my husband is out for work all day and she's the only one home taking care of my 2-year-old. I cannot recall how many times my child was left alone without supervision, and recently, either I go home finding her with bruises on her forehead, burnt fingers from the hot stove, bleeding lips, injured hand...every time when I go question my helper, she just say that she doesn't know anything at all.

I let her sleep at 10pm and get up at 7:30am which I believe is very sufficient amount of rest. I do my own laundry, and I do even have to vacuum and mop the floor when I go home from work. I recently installed IP cams at home (with her knowing and it's written on her contract), still she doesn't seem to care. She does not use the vacuum and will only pick up hair or visible dirt on the floor then throw it away, that's it. I find the floor very sticky and approached her to ask if she did mop...the answer I got was in fact..."Yes I did....I cleaned the area where baby split her juice...". My follow-up question was, "How about other areas?"...she just didn't answer me.

Apart from that, I am quite concerned about her not taking a shower at night before going to bed. She did go for showers every night before bed for the first few months that she was here with us...but not now.... :( After all the housework and sweat, I believe it's much more hygienic to have a wash, especially when I have a young kid at home, right?

More to that, she is very fussy with food and said that Chinese food tastes awful. Even if I take her out with us for dinner to places like Man Wah, Cusine Cuisine, etc. etc..still she'll fuss around with the food. I have been giving her food allowance right after the first month that she's with us to prepare something suitable for herself, but she spends at least 1.5 hours per day preparing her own food in the kitchen. Should that be acceptable?

Sorry for such a long story...but I really have to let it out...

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發表於 12-7-17 12:05 |只看該作者

what a hell lazy & dirty maid she is?
you treated her "too best", over average of helper & employer in standard..

dont burried in mind, you need to spoke out. otherwise those negative emotion inside in, and bad effect to our health.

let me sharing some, i learnt from my past expriences. later.

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死啦, 好驚呀, 我之前係睇你d帖, 剛請了個斯里蘭卡工人, 佢8月1日上班, 經你咁講我而家個心好驚

請問你之前請過乜野工人呢?

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Really unacceptable, have you talked to your agent about this?

Looks like that your maid doesn't know that her performance is not up to standard.

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引用：死啦,+好驚呀,+我之前係睇你d帖,+剛請了個

原帖由 leekung261105 於 12-07-17 發表
死啦, 好驚呀, 我之前係睇你d帖, 剛請了個斯里蘭卡工人, 佢8月1日上班, 經你咁講我而家個心好驚

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I did try Filipino, Indonesian and Thai...Indo and Thai finished their contract...I find Thai the best but do difficult to find...that's why I went to try Sri-Lankan.

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其實個問題係..........你已請咁多個工人, 無理由你屋企無裝 cam?? 你有無俾過家規佢呢?

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引用：其實個問題係..........你已請咁多個工人,+

原帖由 leekung261105 於 12-07-17 發表
其實個問題係..........你已請咁多個工人, 無理由你屋企無裝 cam?? 你有無俾過家規佢呢? ...

I now have IP cams installed but not before...coz I believe I should trust people that I employ...however, there's really a need...aiii....

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發表於 12-7-17 14:08 |只看該作者

咁你而家係咪諗住炒佢?? 又想問你幾多年請幾多個工人呢??

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引用：咁你而家係咪諗住炒佢??+又想問你幾多年請

原帖由 leekung261105 於 12-07-17 發表
咁你而家係咪諗住炒佢?? 又想問你幾多年請幾多個工人呢??

I have started to face issues with employing a new helper during these 2 years only. I changed twice. Before, we have had 2 Filipinos working for us for 8 years, Thai and Indonesian working for us for 6-7 years.

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引用：我冇用過斯里蘭卡工人只係覺得,+任何工人+(

原帖由 sweetcouple 於 12-07-17 發表
我冇用過斯里蘭卡工人

只係覺得, 任何工人 (任何種族)都會變質! 尤其由又窮又落後的國家, 來到HK呢個花花 ...

Agree very much so...

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bella626 發表於 12-7-17 11:55
Taking a nap is not such a big issue given the helper has got all her routine housework done properl ...

why should i hire maid if :
no dusting, no mopping, no vacumm
no ironing?
no cooking?
no childcare?

my mom previous maid, indo, my mon buying food material and allowing her to cook for herself, since then 20 mth she spended 2 hrs each day in preparing her own dishes in kitchen... 餸當飯吃. 1-2lbs 凍雞. & still complaining my mom..
21th mth no any food material provided, everyone eat same dishes we/she cook, no matter one like /dislike (人人不可偏食).
三餐 (有菜, 豆腐, 蛋, 肉/雞) 不愛吃者, 可以不吃, 自己搞定! 正到暈. 家里可不再浪費食物了.
rubbish maid 約滿被港人用4K請左照顧小孩. 人家可能覺得值吧.

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hello, I remember you.... some months ago you posted you hired 2 Sri Lanka maids..... at that time, I admired you because you are the first employer I ever heard to hire Lanka maids.... it is regretful to hear your maid's performance is so poor! last month, i went to agency with my friend who wanted to hire a helper. I suggested her to try Sri Lanka as she wants a helper who is good english. however the agency said S.L. helpers are rare in the market, also the initial hiring cost is much higher than Indo/Bun..... finally my friend hired a Bun.

can you ask your agent to talk to your helper? Lanka helpers seems not easy to find new employers in HK, isn't it? I'm afraid you finally need to terminate her.....

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