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[美國] Any Moms Had Breastfed their Babies til 18 months old or beyond? [複製鏈接]

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發表於 13-10-18 15:33 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

My baby will be turning 18 months in more than a week, and I'm still nursing her.
As WHO recommends breastfeeding til 2 years old and my baby's been healthy since I'm nursing, I try to nurse her as long as possible and as long as she wants. However, it's very frustrating that she wakes up many times almost every night to rely on me to nurse her back to sleep. Even during nap time, she doesn't like to sleep in the crib by herself. I'm a little worried that both of us might not have good quality of sleep, although we wake up late in the morning as I don't go to work.

I had breastfed my older one til 16 months, but he didn't have that problem at all. Maybe becoz I pumped out the breast milk and he drank it from the bottle instead. But my younger one didn't like the bottle since 2 months old, and in fact I don't have time to pump out the milk.

Some of my friends told me I should wean her now, but I kinda feel bad of doing it since she still likes to be nursed.

Any moms have your personal nursing experience to share?

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我估女係會痴身D，我大仔係半人奶B，個女係全人奶B，我兩個到我產假完後都要用樽飲，大仔冇問題，因為一向都埋身加樽餵，個女就煩啦，唔肯用樽，初初幾個月真係人到顛，朝早發脾氣唔食，到我一返屋企佢就兩眼發光。我大仔餵到10個月，因為發現有咗妹妹，所以幫佢戒，冇難度好易就轉到。個女去到第23個月至戒，佢又係要我埋身餵至肯瞓覺，朝早又要餵一次至可以出到門口返工。但我又OK，當時都唔知點捱到。去到第23個月女病，晚晚未食就瞓咗，於是幾日下來好番後我就同佢講大個女啦唔駛再食奶奶瞓覺，佢冇點扭就戒咗。

我個女係食飽就唔會再食，而家都係，就算有佢鍾意食果D嘢，如果已飽就唔會再要，佢係好為食架。你個女都18個月食固體，會唔會可以餵飽D，就算要食住奶瞓都應會好快瞓著，慢慢戒都OK架，我識人去到3歲，不過我覺得一要返Nursery或Preschool都好易戒到。

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wow ... how could you nurse your girl til almost 2 years old?!
the first time when she got sick was 23 months old?

actually i also want to nurse mine til 2 yrs old if possible. but i'm not sure if i can survive for 6 more months and also my milk supply is getting lower and lower ...
also, my baby doesn't like formula and whole milk!

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引用：我估女係會痴身D，我大仔係半人奶B，個女係

原帖由 rose-mag 於 13-10-19 發表
我估女係會痴身D，我大仔係半人奶B，個女係全人奶B，我兩個到我產假完後都要用樽飲，大仔冇問題，因為一向 ...

請指教：我囡囡而家10個月，但有了細b3個月，我好想keep 餵人奶，但囡囡而家每晚都1個半至2個鐘起身(近3星期)，死要埋身食奶奶，佢食一陣又瞓返，我覺得好辛苦無得休息，好想戒，但個心又好想餵到佢兩歲，我可以點做?

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bee_happy 發表於 13-10-19 23:54
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wow ... how could you nurse your girl til almost 2 years old?!

The first time that my daughter got sick was at her 3rd month. She coughed so much that we had to take her X-ray but since then she had never been sick until the 23rd month. I give the credit to breast milk. Honestly speaking, after 1st year old, she started to take more solid. My milk supply depended on her demand. Breastfeeding reduced to 4 times, then 3 times, then 2 times. Actually, I know that my milk supply reduced a lot and would not be sufficient to feed a meal. My daughter enjoyed the bonding rather than having the "food". She ate a lot of solid, my milk was just like snack for her. So, I just kept nursing but did not give myself pressure on the quantity. If you want to nurse until 2 years, just keep it up and don't worry about if your daughter would get enough. You can supplement with solid and other food. She does not need your milk to thrive after the 1st year. She should rely on the solid food.

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jojojoanne 發表於 13-10-20 05:48
請指教：我囡囡而家10個月，但有了細b3個月，我好想keep 餵人奶，但囡囡而家每晚都1個半至2個鐘起身(近3星 ...

老人家話有咗第二個就唔好再餵大果個，怕營養不足夠俾三個人，
我果陣都係有咗即幫個仔戒。由第二個人餵樽，你唔在場佢點都要食，
唔係就捱肚餓，小朋友初初一日兩日會扭，去到幾日習慣後就會戒到，
好多時戒唔到都係媽咪心軟，你有冇人可以幫手？
我果陣個女出咗世，我D奶多到飲唔晒，所以有俾個大仔飲，
不過佢果陣已經18個月大，佢覺得味道好奇怪，而且見到妹妹飲奶，
佢話又想埋身食，我有話OK架，不過個仔又唔肯。

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都食固體食物，你身體慢慢無奶係mother nature叫你停啦。好似奶嘴，你唔停小朋友唔會自己唔要嫁喎。

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jojojoanne

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我明白喇！我都擔心細baby唔夠營養

thank you so much!

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jojojoanne 發表於 13-10-21 10:41
我明白喇！我都擔心細baby唔夠營養
thank you so much!

唔只係細B，我媽果陣勸我係話兩個B會扯晒我D營養，到時坐月都補唔番，
搞到一身病痛就湊唔到兩個啦，醫生都話最缺係鈣質，真係D牙生完差咗D。

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My younger daughter just turned 2 yo this month and I am still nursing her. I nursed my first one til 20 months. My daughter doesn't take bottle. She actually didn't ask for milk when I am working (I have expressed some and kept in the fridge but she won't take it); however as soon as I come home she will run to me and ask for milk. It is indeed no longer a primary food for kids at this age, for my daughter it is more about bonding and she treats my breast as 人肉奶嘴.

Honestly it is ver tiring and the same as you, she wakes up a few times a night. I tell myself, that if I decide to wean her, don't feel guilty, I gave her the best I could already. On the otherhand, I thought I could only enjoy the bonding with her, that no one else can have the same feeling, only for so much longer, which is only about 2 years of her life, so I will keep nursing her as long as she wants.

I know I am silly and stubborn. Even sometimes she drives me crazy, I tell myself I am so blessed to be able to supply her, and I have been getting support from my husband and even family! That's how I can insist...

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I breastfed my daughter until she was around 18 months old. She weaned herself when I got pregnant with her brother. She suddenly refused breast milk. I guess that the taste changed, and as a picky eater, she didn't like the new taste.

For my son, I fed until 2 years +. I didn't really force him to wean, but we slowly transferred him to sleep by himself in another room. After a couple of nights, he stopped asking for milk at night. Once that stopped, he slowly stop daytime as well. It was a painless process.

I still missed breastfeeding the 2 kids. It is a wonderful experience for both the mom and the kids. Just do things naturally, they will stop eventually.