no big deal la........everyone have the right to say what they want in the forum.
who is right or wrong is not for us to judge as everyone case is different.
sometime is the 新抱 or 99, who knows. others just give comments...
in chinese society, most likely 99 will foresee her 新抱 as outsider and help
her own son. i believe that but not all 99 is. especially those traditional one.
well, no need to argues....as u cant help them in real life anyway....just give comments.