It make me very depressed that I discover my husband bring his girlfriend to my house few times .
I feel very very sad and if anyone can tell me what to do since I have one child .............
We have been married for 9 years .......
I check his message and know he dated her at the time that my helper go to school n pick up my child and also another helper from my neighbour saw a lady come to my house sometimes when my helper is not here , I already told him I know this n now I always have bad memory if he only stay at home alone , also can you tell me if you can see my E-mail address since I don't want anybody knows ???
He feel sorry to me ( but actually I don't know this is true or not ) n promise me will not do it again but I really really not TRUST him anymore , I try to ask my helper to stay more times at home and I will let my child to take shcool bus for the coming term , what is your opionion ??
i really think u should minimize any chances that ur hubby can bring a girl back home.
man is not trust-able. and especially he HAVE ALREADY DONE SOMETHING WRONG.
i disagree with 人大師法. HE HAS DONE STH ALREADY.
not just day dreaming with a girl .
Thanks for your advice , as I already planning to ask my helper to stay more time at home n let my child to take school bus . But the thing is there is no more ' TRUST' between our relationship n now I always feel depressed , alsways thinking what is he doing when he is alone at home . Please give me more advice ?????????
He just tell me they are TALKING in my house but from his eyes , I am sure they did something wrong
and also he admit this is not the first time , later I ask him to go away and leave my house but he didn't give me any answer, but if happens again , I will throw all his things out of my door . MY HEART IS REALLY BROKEN .................
May I ask why he is always at home? He doesn't have a job???
I can refer you to a very good book on this subject. It is called "同床異夢－－婚外情的轉機". In there, you can find out the meaning and value of marriage and family, how the couple should handle the affair and how to get your husband/wife back. You can borrow it from public library.
I know you must be very sad now. But I ensure you will feel better if you know what to do and how to do.
Thanks for your advice , I can tell he is a disciplined Service man so he has much time at home . Now I treat him as usual but I feel always unhappy n sometimes I HATE HATE him very much .
Sorry to hear you are really pity. Before you talk with him directly about his fault, have you thought to ask for a social worker to have a free consultation
? So please don't cry and don't think you are alone, all the lady would like to support you because you was betrayed by the man. :-|
I never think to ask anyone to help n also I can't tell anyone about this matter ( include my family members) I have to bare this alone and keep in my heart . at this moment I don't know what to do , just pretend everything as usual but deep in my heart ( VERY VERY SAD AND DEPRESSED)
Do you mean I have to ask the social worker to help me to maintain this marriage or ???? I am not forgiving him but what else can I do ???
As a outsider and not a professional, it is not easy to determine what you are going to do correctly. I suggest you ask a social worker's consultation for yourself to understand the full picture of your family.
They can help you to find the right directions. I mean standing alone is not the way to find the solutions. There are a lot of cases handling by the experienced social workers in Hong Kong. They will have some good suggestions or solutions if anyone ask for their help. Anyway, good luck to you no matter what you
are going to do.
By the way, how about your baby ? don't forget your baby is your good supporter although she/he still doesn't understand what happen. :-|
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