emilytsoi808:
My husband is a programmer and he needs to go to other countries, just like this time he goes to USA for almost 2 weeks.I feel unhappy about that. And he said I can go with him nest time when I have got the VISA , and my mother-in-law will look after my son.
absolutely agree with ronleung. Doubt only does harm to the relationship and yourself. We have no choice to trust our hubbies in this situation.
Due to our jobs, my hubby and I live apart, in Singapore and Hong Kong. We can only meet several times every year, but our relationship is still very good.
Every day we exchange emails and sms which really help to keep each other close in hearts. My hubby feels warm to read my sweet words, like "Have I told you today that I love you?"
Emily, don't know whether emails and sms can work with your hubby. ?-(
me too la, my hubby is a worldwide consultant and travel around the world. Now his assignment in US for 10 months and company allows him back to HK 3 weeks per time. My 1.5 years daughter miss him so much. She always pick up the phone and say "Ba Ba". When we use webcam seeing each others, my daughter must speak loudly "Ba Ba". My hubby loves so much.
Me too!!! My husband is responsible for regional business,that's why he has to go business trip every month (about 2 weeks in HK per month). He is currently in US, sometimes travel one week, but this time 3 weeks...At the beginning, I was always not happy...especially when my baby was very little...now I feel slightly better...I understand that he is working very hard and exhausted in travelling...So I should complain less and treasure the time we spend together (both 2 of us and with our daughter who is 19 months now)...
Of course, I miss him...if possible I would like him not to travel as much...but he may need to change another job, besides many jobs now require travelling, some in China, others in Asia, etc. The most important thing is to be happy together and be more understanding!