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supergirl

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發表於 04-6-10 12:45 |只看該作者

同老公冷戰!

同老公冷戰了5日, 話說星期日我呀媽一家人專登黎搵我地飲茶,佢唔去不單止,重罵我好同埋bb 一齋去, 等佢唔可以同bb 去玩. 最后佢自己去左睇戲,跟住佢d 亞哥亞嫂又黎搵我地食晚飯(因同奶奶住),我都有應酬佢地,相反佢一句野都無同我講,小氣到死!咪唔鬼同佢講野囉.但其實自己都好唔開心! :-(

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chickenwing

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發表於 04-6-10 13:03 |只看該作者

Re: 同老公冷戰!

I can understand how you feel. I had the same thing(冷戰) just two days ago. But now it's okay.

You may start to talk to him first, ask what's wrong (that's what I did, actually, I sent him email to asked) then he start to talk to me and tell me what went wrong and we had a long talk...

That make me releazed I had done somthing upset him which I didn't know...

Hope yours 冷戰 over soon.

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supergirl

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發表於 04-6-10 14:17 |只看該作者

Re: 同老公冷戰!

Actually he does not like me to meet with my mother, because he doesn't like her, so everytime when I visit my mom, he behave like this. That's why i dont want to talk with him first, or it sounds like he is right!

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DeDe123

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發表於 04-6-10 14:40 |只看該作者

Re: 同老公冷戰!

supergirl:

我同老公都有咁情況,但係我地好快就會冇事,其實每次都係為咗好小事,你千其唔好咁唔開心,唔知男人係咪結咗婚就會咁小氣.

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563angela

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發表於 04-6-10 15:41 |只看該作者

Re: 同老公冷戰!

我同老公成日都會嘈架啦, 成日都係為左d小事, 不過第二日大家都冇野架啦

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Long

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發表於 04-6-10 16:49 |只看該作者

Re: 同老公冷戰!

小心冷戰會益左第二個女又咁就死啦 :-P

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羊媽咪

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發表於 04-6-12 10:53 |只看該作者

Re: 同老公冷戰!

依家O的男人真係好衰, 同佢生埋仔仲不懂鍚老婆, 都唔知點解。

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supergirl

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發表於 04-6-12 12:29 |只看該作者

Re: 同老公冷戰!

咪係! 一心諗住幫佢生完仔會對自己好d, 點知原來唔係,重攪到自己做捚"賓賓",脾氣又差,又成日吵架.都唔知為乜?

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ho0918

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發表於 04-6-12 18:46 |只看該作者

Re: 同老公冷戰!

我都有同老公泠戰,但隔了幾日就無事!但通常都是都是睇邊個開口先!

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dcz

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發表於 04-6-12 23:26 |只看該作者

Re: 同老公冷戰!

Hi Chickenwing,

I find it very hard to talk to him first every time after we have a cold war. Even when he trys to talk to me, I still don't want to say anything, cos' usually it's his false. How do you think that I can do better in the cold war?

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Capuccino

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發表於 04-6-13 00:52 |只看該作者

Re: 同老公冷戰!

我都同老公冷戰緊, 我唔覺得自己有錯, 佢話佢係咁架喇, 轉身就落左街去pub睇波, 我好激氣, 自問處處為佢著想, 佢竟然咁對我, 係小事, 但我真係要諗o下以後應該點...

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~小熊貓~

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chickenwing

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發表於 04-6-13 20:31 |只看該作者

Re: 同老公冷戰!

Hi DCZ,

Yes, you're right, it's not so easy to talk to him again while having cold war... but usually, he'll try a few times to talk to me... after a few time and he still try, than I talk him back...
But, sometime he won't try so many time since I might did something anger him, then I will try to email him (or icq etc)... and we talk again...
As the other mum said, too much cold war is not good for the releationship... try not to allow cold war more than 3 days, that's what I set anyway. Hope that work for you too

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dcz

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發表於 04-6-14 00:09 |只看該作者

Re: 同老公冷戰!

Hi chickenwing,

Thanks. You are right, too many cold wars is not good for the relationship.

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Longbabe

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發表於 04-6-14 00:56 |只看該作者

Re: 同老公冷戰!

我都會久唔久就同佢冷戰架, 雖然好多時都係比佢激親, 我唔理佢, 佢咪唔理我欏, 但通常都係我tum返佢先 :-x , 然後佢先會問我做乜唔理佢. 之後講係淸楚就無事, 佢就會對我好返的....不過佢無乜記性, 久唔久又會唔記得佢應承左我既野架喇....

唔所以有乜野都係講淸楚好的..如果唔係就會越攪越唔開心, 我試過同佢冷戰左成個星期...自己都好難受, 忍唔住都係要tum返佢先.... :-(

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bluedaisy

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發表於 04-6-15 19:00 |只看該作者

Re: 同老公冷戰!

Supergirl, you may not agree with me. But my view is that whether a man loves you did not depend on whether you give birth a baby for him or not.

The most basic principle, as I think, between a couple, is that to be fair and considerate, think of the other's feeling. That is he should be fair to you, consider you and care your feeling and you have to do the same to him.

The title, "Husband" is just a 名義, I would treat my husband as my very good friend. 理論上及實際上, 相方都沒有欠對方什麼.

我唔贊成冷戰. 不要留怒到天明. 冷戰只是逃避問題而已. 如果兩個都是成年人, (我意思是心智成熟, 真的抱住解決問題態度), 相信一定有契傾的.

I wish you 2 would finish the dead lock soon and discuss the issue positively.