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agnes65511


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發表於 04-6-1 19:23 |只看該作者

我老公搞婚外情, too ...

He started the affair since Oct., 2002, the time when I found myself pregnant ... the whole period of pregnancy was the WORST time in my life! I can never forgive him for doing this to me! He still continues the relationship with that girl now ... I think for the rest of life I would be tortured by them till I die with my baby! I often have nightmares at night ... in my dreams I often recalled the moment when I was painfully giving birth to my son in the hospital, my husband is still holding & kissing another girl while his wife is delivering baby for him ...

I don't understand how he can be so cruel to me! And I also hate that girl very much ... as a well-educated "doctor" of United Christian Hospital (A&E Department), she doesn't feel ashamed at all to destroy my family!!! She even phoned me to scold me, saying that I should leave my husband, so that she can stay with my husband forever!
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wingmama123


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發表於 04-6-1 21:01 |只看該作者

Re: 我老公搞婚外情, too ...

咁你自己咩打算呀，你老公咁對你，你應該離開他
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X_Tine


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發表於 04-6-1 22:00 |只看該作者

Re: 我老公搞婚外情, too ...

無論點...你都要堅強d呀...我支持你ga...有咩5開心...上黎傾下啦!~你husband甘衰....遲d佢實知死ga...只要你過左呢關...日子會好好多ga...你bb 依家幾大呀...男仔or女仔?比心機照顧佢呀...好可能遲d得係同bb ga ja...
唉...另一方面呀...你husband既然心都變左...我知道你好傷心...甘又點呢...都要生活ga...所以盡量放開d...時間可以減輕你痛苦ga...
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Ding


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發表於 04-6-1 22:45 |只看該作者

Re: 我老公搞婚外情, too ...

agnes65511

我完全明白你心情同感受,當年我都一樣.....記得我同佢講我有左,佢嘅答案竟然係"唔係呀嘛"!我聽到已經心知不妙,後來發覺佢同icq入面一個女仔發生左感情,當時佢話會同個女仔講唔再繼續,可惜佢只係呃我仍然同佢繼續落下,有bb果段日子我衣世都唔會忘記,好似生活喺地獄一樣,又唔可以同人講.所有bb野都係自己一個去買,有時行到隻腳抽筋都無人幫.但我無去憎恨任何人,只怪bb黎得唔岩時候,感情嘅野邊個都唔可以控制,我自己咬住牙關,堅強面對,雖然日子過得好傷心,但我肚入面有我嘅希望... bb出世..佢爸爸連第一眼都無望就走左.我唔知佢去邊亦唔想知...... 衣家我個仔3歲幾.. 佢爸爸亦喺佢歲幾時同個女仔分手... 我同老公關係雖然唔可以好似以前一樣.. 但總好過兩個人不瞅不睬 ..

agnes65511, 你一定要堅強行落去,唔可以俾任何一個睇死你,以為你好軟弱.就算將來離婚..你肚入面個bb係無人可以搶走架.. 而且有一日係老公發覺個女人原來係咁差嘅.. 佢一定返番你身邊 .. 而時間係最好嘅良藥 .. 只要你將全部心機放晒落bb度,老公嘅地位只會佔你個心一少部份... 千祈唔好亂諗.. 堅強d.. 有唔開心就上bk傾下啦...

祝身體健康

Ding
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發表於 04-6-2 00:24 |只看該作者

Re: 我老公搞婚外情, too ...

Ding,

妳真係好堅強，佩服。
Kirsten born at 31/12/2003 N/B Weight = 3.33 kg One Month = 4.6 kg Two Month = 5.37 kg Three Month = 6.11 kg Four Month = 7.3 kg (70cm long) Five Month = 8.11kg Six Month = 9.37kg (72cm long) 7.5Month = 10.9kg (24 lbs) 8 Months = 11.1 kg (24.4 lbs) 9.5 Months = 11.5kg (25.3 lbs) 10.5 Months = 11.8kg (26 lbs) 12 Months = 11.4 (25 lbs) 16.5 Months = 30 lbs 20 Months = 16kg (35.2 lbs)
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JamieMami


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發表於 04-6-2 10:25 |只看該作者

Re: 我老公搞婚外情, too ...

I am sorry to hear that, 佢咁對你, 你無謂再為這種人傷心了, 要好好地生活, 如果佢仲係人嘅話, 叫佢比足你們嘅生活費, 唔駛同佢客氣

但如果我係你, 我亦唔會主動和他離婚, 因為我唔會咁易比個女人咁得逞, 而家咁嘅地步, 佢急你唔急, 因為個女人會怕比人知道佢鉤人老公, (話哂佢係有教育嘅人), 咪由得佢等吓先, 睇吓佢地好得幾耐, 如果你老公感到受壓, 佢自然會同你提出, 你可以告佢地通姦, 睇吓佢地仲有冇face見人, 甚至寫信去比個女人嘅醫院/老板, 等佢比人知道佢嘅人格係點
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史科菲


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發表於 04-6-2 20:23 |只看該作者

Re: 我老公搞婚外情, too ...

好同意 jamiemani 的說法, 你知道佢的背景亦可以還以顏色. 不過你老公一定幫住佢.
佢呢D人應該去打佢小人. 身為一個well educated 的人去傷害一個有左bb 的人, 真人渣.
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學姬公主


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發表於 04-6-2 21:16 |只看該作者

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點解你甘憎你老公都依然繼續同佢一齊？？　有時選擇離開會令自己好過ｄ.......
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shirleywoo


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發表於 04-6-2 23:48 |只看該作者

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Agnes 65511:對你的遭遇深表同情，懷孕本是女人一生中最需要丈夫關懷的時刻，但你的丈夫卻令你傷心欲絕！真不明白男人心中所想的是甚麼，家中有為家庭犧牲一切的賢妻而不去珍惜，冒住家散人亡的險都要去攪婚外情，而現今有很多女人更是如你丈夫的新歡一樣，明知對方有妻有兒也去拆散別人家庭，還將責任推到對方妻子身上！！！我只可以說的是，受害人絕不只你一個，希望你可以振作，一心一意照料好bb，我相信好人終必有好報，你那個衰老公終會知道原來最好的始終還是你！！！姊妹們共勉之！
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bluedaisy


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發表於 04-6-9 13:07 |只看該作者

Re: 我老公搞婚外情, too ...

Agree with JamieMami. 佢急你唔急.

但我本人性子急, 如果我在這種情況下, 我唔係好懂得調較自己去適應這種轉變.

我想一個自己愛的男人, 又同佢生BB, 佢變了心, 怎樣可以把他看作隱形, 不瞅不睬, 靜觀其變, 看他的發展. 我覺得自己一時間很難把自己抽離, 用第三者的感覺處理這種事.

我都唔贊成離婚, 太便宜那個賤貨. 但同一個變了心的男人一齊生活, 是一種折磨. 孩子長大了, (如果還是一齊住的話) 都會叫佢聲老豆, 又要同BB著想, 況且在這種家庭生活, 會有孩子最基本需要的love, family warm嗎? 父母的態度, 孩子不會覺得奇怪嗎?my godness, 太予盾了.

離婚, 分居, 維持原狀, 為誰著想?自己或是孩子? 或者甚至是那個男人, 給他機會, 也給自己及孩子一個機會? 可惜機會率又似乎完部在那個賤男人手裡.

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agnes65511


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發表於 04-6-9 13:58 |只看該作者

Re: 我老公搞婚外情, too ...

I am very helpless...
I don't know what to do...
Thanks all the BK moms who have been so supportive & encouraging !!!
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kriztine


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發表於 04-6-10 08:48 |只看該作者

Re: 我老公搞婚外情, too ...

Agnes65511,

其實眼前最重要的是BB, 雖然呢個男人唔再愛你或唔值得你去愛, 但係為左你個小朋友, 暫時都唔好離婚住, 如果你覺得時間難過, 可以將全幅心機教好個BB, 投資係佢身上, 將來等佢大左萬一真係要離婚, 阿仔一定係你個邊.

我可以原諒我老公, 因為佢仲有悔意, 仲知道自己有個家有老婆有仔女.

仲有一樣野好緊要, 如果有時間的話, 去讀一D課程去增值自己, 你已經知道呢個男人靠唔住, 將來一定係要靠你自己, 有時間讀多D書唔係壞事, 我而家都報左IVE讀DIPLOMA同埋係將會係工聯會讀D興趣班, 等我老公揍住個仔, 佢就無咁多時間出去搞三搞四啦....

Be brave girl, you can have your own world.
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Re: 我老公搞婚外情, too ...

agnes65511,

I believe you can overcome the problems and raise the baby well. You are such a brave mum and woman. But do take a very good care of yourself. Keep healthy and strengthened. And we, the bk mums, are always on your side and supporting you.

Best wishes
mfkhung
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[size=x-large]一個正賤貨, 一個正人渣
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我都好明白你既感受! 而且仲要日日見到佢個心仲會好唔開心, 不過, 唔好放棄你同埋 BB 既專嚴, 就算你讀書唔夠個賤人多, 唔代表不唔可以無修養過佢, 你記住啦..每每你個狗不如的老公出去滾或在你面前做了什麼什麼, 你就即刻同自已講: 佢係係到 KILLING HIMSELF , KILLING HIS LIFE, 我同BB 就識得什麼是真正既家庭生活, 來日方長, 個賤女人會殘, 你個所謂老公會老, 但係, 你同你個BB就有好多時間, 到時, 佢想回頭, 本錢就係你手, 而家, 你越急, 個賤人就越開心
因為佢會覺得你頂唔順就會放手.....
佢再打比你, 你就理直氣壯同佢講: 你唔直得我為你既所作所為花時間同你講野...就收佢錢...又彧者同佢講: 我唔急, 你急
嘜野...之后就收佢線...
難做人的係你個所謂老公, 比番個波佢自已搞...
你一心一意照顧BB吧...佢之係你既所有.....

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發表於 04-6-10 23:40 |只看該作者

Re: 我老公搞婚外情, too ...

anges65511:

你不用太激氣,亦唔駛唔開心,天有眼o既!!!專心湊大個B,你見到佢一日一日咁成長,乜都值得嫁!!!
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發表於 04-6-11 10:51 |只看該作者

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anges65511:

千其唔好激氣,要開開心心咁同bb生活,堅強d,我地會支持你!
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poormama


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發表於 04-6-12 14:10 |只看該作者

Re: 我老公搞婚外情, too ...

Dear agnes65511,

Dont feel unhappy! U could come across this very soon. Try to think positive and does things positive to your bb. He/she is the one who loves u most cause he/she spends all the time with u during pregnancy. U r not alone. Your bb is with u all the time!

Same case with u, my husband left me 1 month b/4 my baby girl was born. I was so helpless during my pregnancy and after bb was born. He came back 2 months later. Now my bb is 3 months old. All I want now is work hard, save more $$ and get a divorce asap and raise bb up by myself because I know the person I am with now is not the one I want to spend the rest of my life with. I always daydream to win mark 6 so that I could no longer live with him in the same flat. The world is still the same without your selfish husband. If bad thing doesnt go, good thing cant come! Believe in yourself. U can do it!!
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發表於 04-6-12 14:18 |只看該作者

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agnes65511,

Be strong!!! Dont' let your husband and that girl look down on you. One day, they will suffer the consequence they caused!!!
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