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JV2003


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發表於 07-8-7 23:59 |只看該作者
Just start my maternity leave for a few days & found that my elder son seems to like to 'stick' to me, e.g. always asks me to "make" him sleep. Understanding that it's normal because mama always stay at home with him, esp. it is summer holiday now.

However, my 2nd baby is coming & I plan to BF. Knowing that one of the key factor makes it success is to BF as on demand & need to take enough rest. Now, I'm really worry how can I 'separate' myself to both of them? As I afraid my elder son may misunderstand the baby 'take away' his mama even I already make him feels that the baby is 'good' & he shows love the baby very much at this moment.

Any experienced mami, pls give me some tips how to handle it. Can I 'make' my elder son sleep or read story book at the same time BF? Will that affect baby from drinking?

Thanks.
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reginang


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發表於 07-8-8 01:40 |只看該作者
我係全職全人奶媽咪, 平日有grandma 幫手睇大女, 不過有時grandma 都會晚上出街, 又撞啱hb 夜收工, 咁果晚我就會抱埋細佬同家姐一齊瞓, 到大女瞓左, 我同細仔都會撤退.
基本上, 夜晚11.後我都係入房餵仔, 一齊瞓, 佢瞓住食我躺著餵, 所以陪大女一齊瞓都冇咩問題.
你趁現在還未生, 多d 同大仔灌輸有關bb 的所有事情, eg. 媽媽要餵baby 食奶, 一齊睇下育嬰書, 叫大仔同baby 傾下計.
我女現在都有呷醋架, 大人都會啦, 咁我咪抱細佬時都同時攬下家姐囉, 等佢知媽咪都錫佢, 而且同家人夾好, 吾好樣樣提住細佬先, 如果細佬喊, 我吾會馬上去抱, 我會特登問下家姐, 細佬喊喎??? 點算好?? 媽咪抱細佬啦..... 我女9成會話好.....
我平時餵細佬在廳餵, 家姐衫頭會好奇, 不過我會比佢睇, 佢有試過要摸我個breast, 當時細佬食緊奶, 咁我就捉住佢手仔, 摸下媽咪摸下細佬, 咁佢睇下睇下就會接受, 依家細佬一喊仲會叫我餵奶tim....
祝你bf 成功 !!!

原文章由 JV2003 於 07-8-7 23:59 發表
Just start my maternity leave for a few days & found that my elder son seems to like to 'stick' to me, e.g. always asks me to "make" him sleep. Understanding that it's normal because mama always ...
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Lovelybbs


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發表於 07-8-8 09:48 |只看該作者
我同你情況一樣，有一個仔仔4歲，囡囡剛出世時，屋企人好反對我全人奶，其中一個原因是全人奶好困身，佢地覺得我會忽略仔仔，因為囡囡末出世前我地係100%時間俾晒仔仔，佢地怕我會因為掛住餵奶而無時間陪仔仔，咁仔仔就會唔開心。

說真的，餵人奶真是會引起以上問題的，囡囡出世後，我完全不想去街，原因就是因為囡囡要隨時食奶，我每次出街都要考慮餵奶時間，同埋出去的地方是否方便餵奶，有沒有哺乳間等問題，這些都是很實際和不能避免的問題。那時我是想，若果囡囡是飲奶粉的，我就可以將她交托給婆婆照顧，那就可以有時間陪仔仔去街了。

久而久之，仔仔已習慣跟爸爸去街，去睇戲，去返學，爸爸陪 睡覺，爸爸幫手沖涼，爸爸講故事，這一切一切以往都是我負責的，老實說，我是有點對不起仔仔的感覺，在最初的幾個月我很多時候是想為仔仔而停人奶架。

但這些問題是會解決的，當囡囡漸大，開始加入固體食物後，她飲奶的時間穩定了，我開始覺得出街不是一件麻煩事，最近我們一家還到海灘玩，雖然只是一個多小時的時間，仔仔玩得很開心。

而囡囡因為是飲人奶的關係，濕疹好了，我們有說不出的親密關係，她時刻都要媽媽，我很喜歡這種感覺（但老人家就說她太痴身）。老公也很多謝我，這些時間他和仔仔建立了很密切的關係，當然我也會盡量抽時間陪他。


所以，這個問題是會發生，但時間很快會過，一年後你回想起，你會覺得是值得的。

[ 本文章最後由 Lovelybbs 於 07-8-8 09:52 編輯 ]
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monkichi


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發表於 07-8-8 13:14 |只看該作者
懷孕期間, 我o係圖書館借左 d 關於媽咪將要生 bb, 佢會多個細佬/妹的書畀我個大囝睇(佢o個時 2.5 歲), 畀佢有個心理準備第二時 bb 出世之後, 媽咪或者其他家人可能會留意 bb 多過佢.
仲有就係播番囝囝 bb 時候的 video 畀佢睇, 話佢知佢細個係咁, 係個 baby, 第二時媽咪肚入面個 bb 出世後, 都會係咁, 畀佢有個心理準備 nb bb 係點樣.
至於餵奶, 我日間o係屋企係o係廳餵奶泵奶, 而我個囝日間都係o係廳玩, 所以就算餵/泵緊奶, 同時都係陪緊佢.
我個 bb 食奶好快, 5-8 分鍾就食完, 食完就交畀家人掃風, 咁我又可以繼續陪大囝玩(如果佢要求的話).
我有時甚至一路抱住 bb 餵奶, 一路同佢玩(不過盡量唔會咁做, 除非囝囝強烈要求), 我個 bb 都無受影響 ... 不過個個 bb 都唔同, 你到時要睇下你個 b 肯唔肯.
我地一家四口訓同一間房, 大囝同我地同床, bb 訓 bb 床.
夜晚我地一齊入房, 我坐o係床邊餵 bb, 大囝就o係床上玩. bb 食飽訓左之後, 我就好似平時(bb未出世前)咁上床同大囝再玩多陣, 跟住一齊訓覺.

其實 nb 多數時間都係食同訓, 如果有其他人可以幫你手, 你只係負責餵奶, 而你餵奶時又係o係大囝視線範圍, 咁你囝囝應該唔會覺得媽咪被 bb 搶左o既.
多 d 邀請大囝參與照顧 bb 的事, 例如換片時叫大囝幫手攞野, 佢幫完手要稱讚佢. 同埋要多 d 話佢知 daddy 同媽咪都好錫佢同埋 bb.
如果佢有呷醋表現(例如叫你抱佢唔好抱 bb), 千萬唔好責備佢, 要用溫柔語氣叫佢等一等.
當要拒絕佢的要求時, 盡量唔好話係因為 bb 而唔得.
so far 我囝囝都表現得好錫妹妹, 又好幫手 ... ... 間唔中扭下計, 少少呷醋就一定會有咖喇, 不過都唔算多.

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ahmi


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發表於 07-8-8 13:54 |只看該作者
就算未生前教了她接受細b, 但當有一個實物整天霸住媽咪點都會呷醋. 大女當時未夠3歲, 初時都常在我在房餵妹妹時要抱, 無安全感, 又好奇問呢樣個樣, 我會安撫同照答她的問題, 安排工人放低手上工作和她玩,引開她住意, 餵完會盡量陪多d大b, 平日會告訴她妹妹細個只可以食奶, 她大個有牙可以食好多野等, 她會好憐妹妹...:-P

慣左之後就入來主要係想嗲/望下我, 一陣會自己出返去, 有時會幫手拿生果比我, 有時則要講故事, 而一邊喂奶一邊講, 都幾warm…
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TFMOM


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發表於 07-8-8 18:23 |只看該作者
Don't worry JV2003.

my two boys are 23 months apart. They were both brestfed and they have been best brothers and friends ever since they were babies untill now they are in their teens.

Before my second son was born, I read books about how to take care of siblings. I forgot most of them but I remembered we have always told our children we love them and let them feel secured. Never take away anything they are using for the new born. For example, you are going to give the old baby crib which is used by the big brother to the new baby. And change a new bed for the older one. you should let the older one sleep in the new bed sometime before the new baby arrives. by doing this, the older one won't feel that the new brother or sister take away his belongs.

You always tell your older son how lucky he is going to have a new brother or sister and the new born will love him and play with him soon. During a day, spend some time only with your older son while your new baby is sleeping. Never tell him to go away while you are caring the new baby. Let him be around. Show him how you care the baby and tell him you did exactly the same thing for him when he was a baby. And he is a big boy now. Once he is secured, he will be very co-operative.

I always tell my older son that I love him more than his younger brother because the fact is that I've loved him two years longer than his brother. I am so proud that my older son loves his brother so much and he does a good job as a big brother. And I am so lucky my younger son loves being the youger brother and he enjoys being the younger one.

Relax. Love your children and they can feel your love and things will be easy.

Please let us know when your new baby have arrived and let us share your joy.

GOOD LUCK.

原文章由 JV2003 於 07-8-7 23:59 發表
Just start my maternity leave for a few days & found that my elder son seems to like to 'stick' to me, e.g. always asks me to "make" him sleep. Understanding that it's normal because mama always ...

[ 本文章最後由 TFMOM 於 07-8-8 18:26 編輯 ]
My mission in life is to promote, protect and support breastfeeding.

希望每位媽媽都可以享受喂奶的樂趣!  每位bb都可以在媽媽懷裡享用媽媽的奶奶和感受媽媽的愛!

更多母乳資訊或哺乳支援
http://www.breastfeeding.org.hk/
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Ko


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發表於 07-8-8 22:59 |只看該作者
My elder daughter also 呷醋 as I BF her sister, and she also show interest to my breast, at that time I will hold (抱)her tight and let she few safety and comfortable.
Don't worry too much, rest is very important for success BF, as I need add formular till now:mrgreen: because insufficient sleep
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JV2003


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發表於 07-8-8 23:34 |只看該作者
Dear reginang, Lovelybbs, monkichi, ahmi, TFMOM & Ko,

Thanks a lot for your sharing & care, actually I have also borrowed books about big brother going to have younger sibling & gradually pass the message of how good & lovely is the coming baby to him. So far so good. Hope by adding your sharing, I will make it success to overcome the problem.

Thanks a lot again!
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