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tiksze0328

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發表於 11-2-28 10:20 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

家有一女(3.5歲) 細B6月頭出世
賓賓3月中到港
原本PLAN左大女跟姐姐瞓細B跟自己但有朋友又話咁樣辛苦自己又會"種"壞個姐姐(因為我日頭係返全職GA)
過來人可唔可以教下我點做呀?
THX A LOT!!

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2024年龍年勳章 HiPP勳章(1) 開心吸收勳章美好大世界2017勳章想生BB熱投好媽媽勳章醒目開學勳章畀面勳章大廚勳章 BK Milk勳章

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發表於 11-2-28 10:50 |只看該作者

無論我有無返工,都無試過比d仔跟工人

,佢地唔上心,大覺

到天光.

[ 本帖最後由 sillything 於 11-2-28 11:03 編輯 ]

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方方媽媽

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如果你係個工人,每晚要照顧兩個小朋友,日頭又要做家務,繼續照顧細B.你會唔會夠瞓?
唔夠瞓你又會唔會中眼瞓?繼而偷懶?
繼而疏忽照顧BB?
我唔會攞自己小朋友既安全較飛.
細B跟自己,唔係縱個工人,係合理工作分配.
你朋友,有無請過工人照顧NB+細仔架?

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sillything

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原帖由 方方媽媽 於 11-2-28 12:59 發表
如果你係個工人,每晚要照顧兩個小朋友,日頭又要做家務,繼續照顧細B.你會唔會夠瞓?
唔夠瞓你又會唔會中眼瞓?繼而偷懶?
繼而疏忽照顧BB?
我唔會攞自己小朋友既安全較飛.
細B跟自己,唔係縱個工人,係合理工作分配.
你朋 ...

嗌人做乜真係好輕鬆!有咩事又係自己同bb受.

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得大仔時, 一路半夜都係自己照顧(仔仔訓廳近住我間房), 細囡出生前半年到開始比姐姐半夜睇大仔, 細女出生會同我一間房, 因為要餵人奶, 我個人認為NB都係自己睇好D, 辛苦都無計, 到左半歲之後我諗我先放心比姐姐睇!

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我會傾向BB同自己訓
不過也見過朋友工人湊BB好好夜晚同工人訓

少奶奶的身份，丫頭的命...

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綾香公主

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我有個女兩歲幾, 細仔會喺3月中出世. 我個女一直都係同我瞓, 因為我覺得夜晚如果姐姐要照顧埋我個女瞓佢日頭無精神, 我又係全職媽媽, 所以我寧願自己照顧番, 等姐姐有精神去照顧我個女仲好. 而我亦打算細仔出世時都係同我瞓, 因為nb都係自己湊好啲. 但我有同事就將個細女由出生交俾姐姐湊, 大仔就跟自己瞓, 因為大仔唔肯同姐姐瞓. 不過, 我個姐姐係由我個大女出世到而家, 唔係好似你咁仲未到.

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發表於 11-2-28 14:29 |只看該作者

Let the helper has reasonable rest time is not spoiling her. Don't always listen to relatives' or friends' opion, sometimes it makes the case worse.

I was a working mom before. My elder daughter shared the bedroom with the helper until 3 yrs old and the younger one was borned. I took care the younger one for the first 3 months then the helper slept with him and the daughter slept alone. Whenever my daughter cried or woke up in the midnight, I was the one to check and comfort her. Also if my son kept crying in the midnight even the helper was carrying him, I would let him to sleep with me.

I think you observe the helper first and then make your decision. If she is patient enough and likes your baby, you can try to let her sleep with the baby but better not for the first few months.

Always bear in mind that we are the mom. No matter how naughty or trouble is the baby, we still love him/her. But never expect the same from the helper.

[ 本帖最後由 TelleTelleMom 於 11-2-28 14:31 編輯 ]

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Absolutely. You are the mom and it should be your top priority to look after your baby.

My son is 7 months old and he always sleep with me. Not 1 day with the maid. I prefer the maid sleep well at night and have the energy to look after my son during the day. Plus she deserves decent sleep. Bear in mind she is only helping you she cannot replace your role as the mother.

My maid offered to help me at night as she sometimes see me v. tired and I said to her maybe one day if I am v. v. tired I will pass the baby to her to look after.

原帖由 TelleTelleMom 於 11-2-28 14:29 發表
Always bear in mind that we are the mom. No matter how naughty or trouble is the baby, we still love him/her. But never expect the same from the helper.

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發表於 11-2-28 15:33 |只看該作者

我份工,日頭幾咁無精神,做錯野都唔會死人.
但我工人無精神,會傷害到小朋友.
我情願我無精神返工,好過工人無精神湊B.
真係頂唔順時,就睇醫生,攞張醫生紙返屋企抖下囉.

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我E+就係煩緊, 我大女由細同我一齊瞓, 細仔就同工人瞓, 我要一晚起幾次身睇細仔, 因為唔放心, E+細仔26個月大啦, 一定要同工人瞓, 唔肯同我瞓, 死啦, 工人8月要走啦, 都唔知點算. 有得返轉頭, 我一定要細仔同我一齊, 唔好交比工人.

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carol878

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發表於 11-2-28 16:33 |只看該作者

我大囡同細囡都係同我一間房訓.我鐘意自己照顧番.我都要返工.

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唔覺得咁樣係縱個工人....

如果工人唔夠休息, 日頭得佢同細B係屋企, 你放唔放心?

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chan328

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發表於 11-2-28 22:24 |只看該作者

who sleeps with your girl now?

I let my older son sleeps alone, my maid slept alone & my new born slept in my room on the 窗枱 until she can 轉身 & became not safe to sleep there, then she shared she own room with my maid only becos my room cannot fit the bb cot.

我係 full time mom 我都驚姐姐冇精神 gar.