Today, very depressed, scold by a customer / friend / business partner, wanted to quit job, but when thinking of my little daughter (1 & half year old), :cry: :cry: , keep calm and let him shouting and scold....., really really unhappy and :-( :-( , don't know how to do. want to share with my wife, but she has a business dinner tonight, so .....????
be honest, it's not the 1st time scold by customer, due to the company policy changed in these 2 months and customers don't/never understand, they just only think that i'm playing politic with them, that's why they're so angry... :-| :-|
Don't be depressed and sad, I deeply share with your feeling especially we both have a little lid and a family. I believe most male parents have come across the same situation as you are especially if our work is so-called customer-service-oriented.
Try to find anything with which you like to do after work.
When you're scolded / shouted at by boss/business partner/customer, no need to take it personally or take it to the heart.
They shout partly because you don't miss their expectation, and mainly because they have very low EQ and LACK of self-control. Maybe they have wives always shouting at them at home. Maybe they are in their 更年期. Think in this way and take that light-heartedly, then you won't feel too heavy when faced with such difficult people.
Don't just tell yourself: I have a little girl and a family to support, so I have to bear all this. This will just make you feel pity for yourself.
Many people make big money by spending time listening to others saying LAP-SAP to them.(DJs?? Psychologists??) Why let others take away your job? Your job is YOURS. If anyone want to shout, let them shout. Take only the sensible comments and close your ears to all other non-sense rubbish dumped out through their mouth.
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