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發表於 04-8-6 02:26 |只看該作者

baby hit his head, pls heip

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Re: baby hit his head, pls heip

I learn this tactic to discipline baby from the book "Raising a happy, unspoiled child".

When he bangs his head to the wall or does something to hurt himself, you have to stop him immediately. Take him to another room, let him sit and you hold his shoudler firmly with your hands, don't let him move. You remain silent, after a few minutes, you tell him if he does that again, you will do the same thing to him. This is a good way to discipline baby.


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發表於 04-8-6 17:08 |只看該作者

Re: baby hit his head, pls heip

2 possibilities:
1. he feel unhappy or angry, he don't know how to express, so he hurt himself
2. he want to test your response , and see how nervious u are.

So, u must stop him and tell him "no", try to find out why he do this and let him know u care about him, but u will punish him if he hurt himself again .


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發表於 04-8-7 10:26 |只看該作者

Re: baby hit his head, pls heip

根據bb心理學, 這是正常的表現。因為他不懂得用其他方法表達他的不快或不滿。如果, 他要撞的地方不會對他扣成嚴重傷害, 專家說: 應盡量「不去」制止。 因為你的緊張, 會令他知道這樣做有效得到你的注意。 當他學會用言語去表達自己時, 這行為便會隨之而去。約兩、三歲左右。 如果他撞向有危險的地方, 只需抱他到另一處安全的地方便可 (例如他在地撞頭, 你便抱他往軟膠地席上)。

另外, 怎樣去幫他用語言去表達呢?就是當bb撞頭時, 可因應當時發生的事件去作出回應。如: 「媽咪見到bb嬲喎, 因為媽咪唔抱。」「媽咪唔明bb想點, 所以bb唔開心。」 etc.....

我都是用這套方法。效果ok, 他的確撞少了, 但偶爾還會。事實上, 他的確在開始學習用言語表達自己, 及媽媽明白他的意向時, 便停止了這行為。

You may refer to this website, I got information here
---> Toddler Behaviour - Head Banging

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發表於 04-8-7 14:26 |只看該作者

Re: baby hit his head, pls heip

我個仔都有打,我無理佢,過左幾個月(即而家),佢已經無打自己啦


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