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女兒因同學仔唔同佢玩不喜歡上學,怎麼辦 ?

讀K1女兒因同學仔唔同佢玩不喜歡上學,怎麼辦 ?請教大家 ! 謝謝

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Re: 女兒因同學仔唔同佢玩不喜歡上學,怎麼辦 ?

Try to understand the reasons by discuss the problems with her teacher, it may be due to your daughter's attitude (sorry to say that), if not talk to the teacher to have the problems solved.

On the other hand try to teach and explain and encourage to your little girl of how to communicate and get along with her schoolmate, praise her right after she did the right thing.

Hope can help.

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Re: 女兒因同學仔唔同佢玩不喜歡上學,怎麼辦 ?

Thanks for your suggestions. I think so but baby ( I feel ) is a very nice kid and love to talk with other kids. I will talk with her teacher soon. Anyway, thanks !

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Re: 女兒因同學仔唔同佢玩不喜歡上學,怎麼辦 ?

It is difficult to judge how the kid will be in school by how they act at home because the environment is different. Although my son is just in N1, I always talk to his teacher to have a better understand on what he did, his ability, social skills, eating habit and whatever kind of progress.

A good teacher should be more than happy to share with you everything about how your daughter behave at school and love to cope with you in order to help her out (or the rest of the class).

Do not worry too much, the first thing you need to do is to find out the reasons.

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Re: 女兒因同學仔唔同佢玩不喜歡上學,怎麼辦 ?

It is another question. I think the school teacher is restricted by the school's styles.( cultures ) She always said my bb always studied with highly concentration but I don't think so. ( by my observations and the actual results )

Can I get the point if we let her move to another kinder ?
Which kinder do your kid study ? Sorry to ask you such Q ?

CarChu 寫道:
It is difficult to judge how the kid will be in school by how they act at home because the environment is different. Although my son is just in N1, I always talk to his teacher to have a better understand on what he did, his ability, social skills, eating habit and whatever kind of progress.

A good teacher should be more than happy to share with you everything about how your daughter behave at school and love to cope with you in order to help her out (or the rest of the class).

Do not worry too much, the first thing you need to do is to find out the reasons.

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Re: 女兒因同學仔唔同佢玩不喜歡上學,怎麼辦 ?

If I were you I would only consider to change the school under the follow criterias:

1. The child doesn't like and cannot cope with the school, teaching method, and cannot get along well even she behave well at school (meaning there is some problem with the school not the child)

2. Teaching method, attitude and experience of the teach and the school as a whole that does not meet my desire.

It sounds like you are now agree with certain points that raised by the teacher somehow...it may be because standard between the teacher and yourself is different and or you are not quite agreed with the way they teach.

Something parents didn't notice that they tents to have higher expectation on their own child and therefore you are not quite happy with your child "concentration". You may talk to some of your friends with childrend at the similar age to get a better picture.

Your child possibly can contcentrat to do certain thing but not what you have been observing (such as she can spend hours of time to play with puzzle, of certain kind of activities but not reading and writting.

Try to understand the situation as a whole. If you don't like the way the school teachs and your daught is not happy with going to school eventhought she has been good, I think change to another school could help but you have to be sure of the culture of the new school that she is going to study. After all have a young child like her to adopt to an entirely new environment will give her some kind of pressure.

My son is now with a "Gai Fong" nursery, he will be studing in a more proper Kide in September.

PS: We cann't expect the teacher to start the conversation, we should be the one because we are their mother.

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Re: 女兒因同學仔唔同佢玩不喜歡上學,怎麼辦 ?

我個仔都係成日話d 同學唔鍾意佢, 佢一時時話唔肯返學,
我了解過原因, 多數係d女仔話唔鍾意佢, 但我個仔好鬼衰, 硬係鍾意同女仔玩, 但佢地依個age(4.5yrs old)係好鍾意男同男玩, 女同女玩.
我就叫阿仔多d同男仔玩, 佢又話d 男仔好曳, 真比佢激死(佢唔曳,我都偷笑了)

我就教佢上堂要定定地, 唔好攪小朋友.
若定定地人地都話佢, 就問下人點解唔鍾意佢, 又問下老師,
返學小朋友係要相親相愛, 若依個又唔鍾意 , 果個又唔鍾意不如返屋企吧.
(係咪激左d ?)