男人鍾意對方就必然會想同對方一對一相處. even talking is purely enjoyable. He ever looked at you without your noticing him? He ever made excuse to amke you stay with him? He ever joined any gatherings he would not have chosen to if not for you? He ever asked you in a gentle voice whether you felt well or not? He ever touched you in a place only female friends can without arousing suspicion from others?
有很多男人鍾意講廢話要lai平衡心理,千期唔好上心. That remark doesn't mount to anything. If I fancied a girl/woman, I would definitely try to get involved in occasions not in my bowl of rice - just to get close to her and watch closer. Maybe his peeping is just out of oberservation purpose and no more. Superiors often do that, u know.
如果因為怕羞而唔可以同自己鍾意的人一齊就有d悲哀.
From a man's angle, if I fancied you but gave up actions just because I was shy, I would regret very much. OK, this is his own business, I know I know.
Then why don't you tell him your intention. It's the 21st century. We are alraedy trying to forget Confucius. Then do it.
Then you yourself try asking him. Even the most stupid man can see the look on the woman he fancies and get the meaning of green light if you try that question.
Your trying and asking the question is equivalent to flirting him. What man can resist such temptation? If he can, he doesn't love you. He doesn't even like you.
To eliminate the slightest possibility that he's that dumb, you turn your back on him and flirt with other men. See what happens. He still does nothing, he's not what you think he is.