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為他們高興嗎？老實話，小部份。心情好覆雜就真。因為99一向偏心細仔，細媳婦又係佢心目中既好媳婦。咁細媳婦係大陸人，一年上來2,3次探親，目前固然無返工。叔仔份工就約$7500。佢地就跟99一起住，有否俾家用等，我就唔知都唔想問。唯一知道係，細媳婦每次往返香港，都係坐飛機。前排，老公先話，99催佢地生b，佢地話過幾年先。點知，呢幾日就聽到呢個消息。又撞上呢排, 我自己都苦惱咁是否生第二胎，在目前有工人，囡囡又要開始返學既情況下，我地無能力再生。若工人2年後完約先生，又無人湊b。以家見到叔仔佢地咁，都有少少嬲99偏心。你地呢？有無經歷過？我都怕自己亂諗。唉........

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Yes, my 99一向偏心細仔 too. When we 生第1胎, my 99 wants to take care of my BB and ask for extra 5000 per month. And she said we need to 'pick up' my son before 6:00pm in weekdays. Therefore, we decided to employ a yan ayn + my mother to take care of my son.
However, when 細媳婦生第1胎 (1 years later). My 99 take care of their son without ask for 1 cents. However, I am not angry about my 99 because she has her right to chose who's bb to take care of.
On the other hands, you are lucky as you two have a good job and can employ a helper !!
If your 叔仔 can earn 30000 per month, I am sure he will not marry a wife from mainland china. He can find one in HK easily, right?
For a family with a total income of 7500............I will worry about the future of their baby!!!!

now, 佢地就跟99一起住and your 99 pay all the expenditure. Howevr, your 99 will pass away one day..........and then .......

原文章由 Lydia_Yan 於 08-4-17 11:57 發表
為他們高興嗎？老實話，小部份。心情好覆雜就真。因為99一向偏心細仔，細媳婦又係佢心目中既好媳婦。咁細媳婦係大陸人，一年上來2,3次探親，目前固然無返工。叔仔份工就約$7500。佢地就跟99一起住，有否俾家用等，我就唔知都唔想問 ...

[ 本文章最後由 ac321 於 08-4-17 12:25 編輯 ]

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我奶奶都係鍾意貼錢落大伯同叔仔，仲係用我地俾嘅家用。

之前都會唔開心，最嬲係當時自己都無乜錢唔敢生BB，但奶奶成日要我地俾錢支付大伯個仔嘅開支，好似幫人養細路一樣。

但係，再諗深一層，點解要嬲呢？大伯叔仔還大伯叔仔，我地還我地，就算我兩公婆俾嘅家用，奶奶貼晒落其他人身上，都係奶奶嘅自由。

我地家用該俾嘅照俾，奶奶要節衣縮食慳俾大伯叔仔係佢嘅選擇，我地亦同佢講明，只會按通貨膨脹加錢，但唔會因為佢要貼俾其他人而加錢，咁我地做咗自己個PART，就問心無愧。

所以唔好諗咁多啦，日後叔仔一家大細靠你奶奶又好，叔仔突然發達又好，你、囡囡、老公先至係一家人，叔仔只係親戚，佢地生1個2個......100個都同你地無關。

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-17 12:23 發表
When we 生第1胎, my 99 wants to take care of my BB and ask for extra 5000 per month. And she said we need to 'pick up' my son before 6:00pm in weekdays. Therefore, we decid ...

你奶奶數口好厲害

.......仲貴過請保母.....

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totally agree!!

I think we are luck as we don't need others (奶奶) 貼

原文章由 A.C.C. 於 08-4-17 12:41 發表
我奶奶都係鍾意貼錢落大伯同叔仔，仲係用我地俾嘅家用。

之前都會唔開心，最嬲係當時自己都無乜錢唔敢生BB，但奶奶成日要我地俾錢支付大伯個仔嘅開支，好似幫人養細路一樣。

但係，再諗深一層，點解要嬲呢？大伯叔仔還大伯叔仔，我 ...

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Yes, from monday to friday and in day time only.

And an extra 2000 for milk powder (formular) and dipper
i.e. extra 7000 .........
Therefore, we decided to employ a helper.
When we employ a yan yan, my 99 ask my husband can she put my 叔仔's son in my flat so that my yan yan can take care of the 2 kids...............
數口好厲害 :;pppp: :;pppp: :;pppp:

原文章由 A.C.C. 於 08-4-17 12:44 發表

你奶奶數口好厲害 .......仲貴過請保母.....

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咁都得

你點覆你99

原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-17 12:53 發表
Yes, from monday to friday and in day time only.

And an extra 2000 for milk powder (formular) and dipper
i.e. extra 7000 .........
Therefore, we decided to employ a helper.
When we emp ...

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我就冇叔仔,不過就有個8婆姑仔,我真心希望佢快d有左,仲要生多幾件tim,等隻99唔好再煩住我地

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原文章由 Lydia_Yan 於 08-4-17 11:57 發表
為他們高興嗎？老實話，小部份。心情好覆雜就真。因為99一向偏心細仔，細媳婦又係佢心目中既好媳婦。咁細媳婦係大陸人，一年上來2,3次探親，目前固然無返工。叔仔份工就約$7500。佢地就跟99一起住，有否俾家用等，我就唔知都唔想問 ...

傻豬黎架

,唔好為左e d事唔開心,最好叔仔老婆快d生tim,咁你99咪少左煩你地lor,樂得清靜

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I 覆99 : As you know, I am very lazy. I need a helper to take care of my son at night. I also need some one to take care my son on saturday and sunday. (She likes to travel to mainland china in weekends)

原文章由碟碟於 08-4-17 13:21 發表
咁都得你點覆你99

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原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-17 12:53 發表
Yes, from monday to friday and in day time only.

And an extra 2000 for milk powder (formular) and dipper
i.e. extra 7000 .........
Therefore, we decided to employ a helper.
When we emp ...

嘩... whats your husband reply??

如果係我會同 c6 講唔得囉!! 理由係印印專心照顧我地個B好正常, 因為我地係請佢返黎做呢樣野, 如果顧住睇我地個B而唔小心整親叔仔個B就唔好啦, 到時咪又係個印印同我地受罪?!

所以, 打死都要講掂你C6!! 等你個99咁好數口丫嗱, 唔好俾位佢入呀!!

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原文章由 Lydia_Yan 於 08-4-17 11:57 發表
為他們高興嗎？老實話，小部份。心情好覆雜就真。因為99一向偏心細仔，細媳婦又係佢心目中既好媳婦。咁細媳婦係大陸人，一年上來2,3次探親，目前固然無返工。叔仔份工就約$7500。佢地就跟99一起住，有否俾家用等，我就唔知都唔想問 ...

點解唔為佢地開心呢,佢地又唔係問你地拎錢...我寧願我99少D理我地,雖然而家已經唔多...真係天意弄人,有D媳婦(即係我)就唔想成日見到99,唔想99理我地,你就剛剛相反...算啦,至於你話想生第二個,我又覺得冇乜衝突喎...你有工人睇住都已經OK啦...囡囡又番學...咁仲好啦,到你生個陣,你囡囡都已經番左一段時間學啦,工人又唔駛咁辛苦同一時間睇2個..

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My 99 told my husband her (叔仔's wife) requirements.
1.) you can't put her son on the floor because it is dirty (I let my son play on the floor because I think it is more save)
2.) you can't put her son on the sofa because it is dirty too. Everyone can sit on the sofa.
3.) you can't put her son on our bed because it is dirty too.
...........and so on.
Then, my husband just said 2 words : no way!

原文章由 OneOneMa 於 08-4-17 13:52 發表

嘩... whats your husband reply??

如果係我會同 c6 講唔得囉!! 理由係印印專心照顧我地個B好正常, 因為我地係請佢返黎做呢樣野, 如果顧住睇我地個B而唔小心整親叔仔個B就唔好啦, 到時咪又係個印印同我地受罪?! ...

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floor, sofa, bed 都唔擺得, 咁成間屋都咁dirty, 唔駛擺你度湊啦. 咁寸既. 咁你奶奶點湊佢個孫, 總不成由朝到黑抱住.

原文章由 ac321 於 08-4-17 14:14 發表
My 99 told my husband her (叔仔's wife) requirements.
1.) you can't put her son on the floor because it is dirty (I let my son play on the floor because I think it is more save)
2.) you can't put her ...

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嗯...... 因為99對囡囡唔係咁鍚(雖然呢個係佢第一個孫)，又接近不聞不問。原本咁樣無所謂，我就俾我媽湊。咁囡囡就鍚婆婆多d, 佢就唔抵得，開始搞好多小動作，老公又信哂佢, 最後搞到好多事出來。
我剛開始係擔心，佢會鍚未出世既bb多d，最後諗通左, 反正以家佢都唔係好鍚囡囡啦﹗仲有最擔心係，佢會叫我地出錢if細媳婦決定係香港生，咁果筆3-4萬的錢，maybe我地要出一半。因為叔仔原本係大陸開鋪，結業後決定返香港搵工，電腦/數碼相機等都要我地出。今次可能都走唔掉。我以家就係因為經濟問題，唔敢生第二生，若真係要出果筆錢，不如用在自己身上？﹗
99偏心，我一早都知，佢已經幫叔仔係大陸買左一個當時接近90萬既店鋪(如何供，誰供，供完未等, 我都不知道)，大陸層1000呎既樓都係叔仔名，香港既應該將會都係叔仔既。我地2公婆月入只有$25000，供樓, 囡囡、俾工人，俾雙方父母，仲要每次出去食飯，有99親友都一定係我地出。唉....... 不過我唔恨有，情願靠自己，過得安然

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叔仔's wife bought a baby seat with seat belt (similiar with those for car). My 99 can only hold her son in arm, put her son in teh baby seat (put in the living room, in fornt of the TV) or put her son inside his baby bed (inside the room).

And now, her son is 2 years old. He don't know how to speak a meaning word.

原文章由 8C9 於 08-4-17 14:32 發表
floor, sofa, bed 都唔擺得, 咁成間屋都咁dirty, 唔駛擺你度湊啦. 咁寸既. 咁你奶奶點湊佢個孫, 總不成由朝到黑抱住.

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原文章由 Lydia_Yan 於 08-4-17 14:40 發表
嗯...... 因為99對囡囡唔係咁鍚(雖然呢個係佢第一個孫)，又接近不聞不問。原本咁樣無所謂，我就俾我媽湊。咁囡囡就鍚婆婆多d, 佢就唔抵得，開始搞好多小動作，老公又信哂佢, 最後搞到好多事出來。
我剛開始係擔心，佢會鍚未出 ...

有冇攪銀錯,叔仔老婆黎香港生,要你兩公婆比錢?你要同c6講清楚,如果有錢比個大6婆黎生,就不如將d錢留比自己生第2胎好過,你99真係......好不銀知所謂

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Now the doctor say their son (2 years old) may be 發展遲緩. The doctor suggest them to let his son play with my son. It can help his son to learn quickly.
Then, my 99 request us (my yan yan) to take care of their son in day time again (I think it is his 叔仔's wife idea...........)
And my husband directly say: NO! OUR FLAT IS TOO DIRTY FOR KIDS!

原文章由 8C9 於 08-4-17 14:32 發表
floor, sofa, bed 都唔擺得, 咁成間屋都咁dirty, 唔駛擺你度湊啦. 咁寸既. 咁你奶奶點湊佢個孫, 總不成由朝到黑抱住.

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