佢見到我出門口又大哭 <--係一個過程 la~ better than BB woke up and often think you disappear!
you have to let your BB understand that you will leave home for work but you will return!! Separation is one of the things that BB need to learn .. even you avoid to let them experience this, doesn't mean the reality in the future can prevent that happened.
BB already 20 months old... If your maid is a good one, you can give her some education material (like A B C card, color / shape card, books) and let her to play with BB on a fixed time daily
if your BB like DVD, you can set 2 slots of DVD time, 20 mins for each , one in the morning and one in the afternoon
before my babies go to pre-nursery (2 years old), my schedule for the maid is :
6:15am wake up and prepare for work
6:30-7am vacuum and mop the floor, wipe the sofa / furniture, do one load of laundry, collect hanged clothing
7am - 8am make milk for BB, get change, clean BB face, feed breakfast
8am - 9am 20 mins DVD / play time
9am - 11am morning nap for BB, maid hang dry laundry, fold clothing, prepare lunch for BB, housework (e.g. bathroom cleaning, kitchen cleaning.... etc etc) ** if she finish all task, she can read
11am lunch for BB
12-1pm my 99 will come over, so lunch for maid, clean master bedroom (since BB sleeps in our room)
1pm bath BB (while my 99 is still here)
2pm - 4pm Afternoon nap for BB, maid do housework and prepare dinner ingridient
4pm/4:30pm milk for BB
5pm - 5:30pm DVD time (20 mins)
5:30pm - fruit time for BB
6pm - 7pm playtime (can assign some material for maid to read for BB for 30 mins)
7pm dinner for BB (usually i will be home to feed / monitor), maid go prepare / cook dinner
of course you need to adjust the schedule as bb gets older and if you find your BB might not sleep much.. but then I found that as long as you set a steady schedule, BB will eventually follows.. of course soemtimes it's easy to go with what BB wants to ... but what he/she wants are not always the best for them.
my first maid is kind of like your current maid... she will eventually put reading at her first priority.. and eventually, she leaves all the housework behind.. and when BB is awake.. she just let BB play next to her while she kept on reading her books / magazines..................... and once i told her to do housework, she felt that is extra and not feeling happy
So, i think without proper guideline and restriction, they will get lazy eventually.. that is human nature.
note: she didn't need to look after BB at night as BB sleeps with us.
原帖由 eshiro 於 10-10-29 12:22 發表
my first maid is kind of like your current maid... she will eventually put reading at her first priority.. and eventually, she leaves all the housework behind.. and when BB is awake.. she just let BB ...
原帖由 eshiro 於 10-10-29 12:22 發表
my first maid is kind of like your current maid... she will eventually put reading at her first priority.. and eventually, she leaves all the housework behind.. and when BB is awake.. she just let BB ...
totally understanding... my ex-maid also 第一個工人 and taking care of my 第一個b~ And i also though "睇書" is good .. so, i told her she can rest and 睇書 when she finish the work la.... but eventually, she 睇書 more than work .......just out of control~~ when i have 2nd BB, she got busier and less time to 睇書.. she even used this reason ("no time to study!") and not to renew my contract tim lor~
原帖由 eshiro 於 10-10-29 13:03 發表
totally understanding... my ex-maid also 第一個工人 and taking care of my 第一個b~ And i also though "睇書" is good .. so, i told her she can rest and 睇書 when she finish the work la.... but eventu ...
原帖由 eshiro 於 10-10-29 13:03 發表
totally understanding... my ex-maid also 第一個工人 and taking care of my 第一個b~ And i also though "睇書" is good .. so, i told her she can rest and 睇書 when she finish the work la.... but eventu ...