After 2 kids, my husband and I planned not to have kids anymore. My elder child is 7 years old and my second child is 5 now. We had a baby again last Sept, the feeling is so good! The older kids does not stare at you and laugh anymore but this little one always laugh when she sees my face. No matter how mad I was after teaching my 2 older kids doing homework, just looking at this little one, I feel very relax again.
I've thought this question over 5 years. I really hope to have a second kid. I got miscarriage when my boy was about one & half years old. After that time, my husband strongly reject to have a second kid. Because he can't stand for the large pressure, from financial and psychological.
I forgive now. But I still think my boy is a bit lonely sometimes.