我冇跟。因唔單止證件,我好多professional documents要改。我英文名原來的first name+maiden name 個flow 好好,改咗姓唔好聽。同埋工作上我唔想d人唔認得我。冇改。但我個大仔好搞笑,成日見到新老師auto-mode解釋:
Yeah.... Mom has a different last name than the rest of the family, but she is still my mom. My parents live together. She had just decided not to change her name so her patients still know who she is!
我結婚時就係唔知邊個朋友同我講要改,於是我先去改左 Social Security,加左老公的姓喺我自己姓後面,跟住就有有經驗的朋友叫停,話唔好改,改好麻煩,所有文件都要跟住改,於是我就冇繼續改其他的文件。而家問題就來了,我的 Social Security 有老公姓,於是報稅要用老公姓,開銀行戶口時跟 Social Security,於是又 carry 左呢個姓。但其他文件因為我冇再改落去,所以全部用返我自己姓。日常生活都冇乜點,但有一次我要去銀行提一筆較大的現款出來,銀行要睇我 picture ID,我冇一個 picture ID 係有老公姓,我冇辦法證明我就係 account holder,最後提唔到錢出來。我真係覺得長此下去唔係辦法,或者應該要去 Social Security 度改返唔要老公姓