i) my bb now is 8.5 months and she likes to sit down and hold the bars of cot, whenever we put her down on cot when she is awake, she always stand up or sit down, so how to make her sleep on her back?
==>我train我個女時佢都係識企,扶床欄識行添,佢喊喊吓累時會瞓番低,無辦法令佢瞓低。即使現在,佢見我哋會企起身,有時喊有時叫,但當門關上佢就好快瞓低,幾分鐘瞓咗。
ii) also, if she wakes up in the midnight and stand up/sit down, what should we do?
==>1.如果係開始訓練的頭幾日:照第二頁所提的方法,按時安慰......
2.如果係已經成功咗:我會睇佢喊幾耐,如果超過十分鐘,可去check吓有無其他需要,如:病、凍、口渴。我女呢幾月有d唔舒服,昨夜喊醒,飲咗幾安水再自己瞓番。但平時就唔好,免得成為壞習慣,依賴咗。
iii) u said try this method before winter, just now is already winter, so shall we try[/quote]
==>我之前講的時候都係winter,但未太凍,因依家比較凍d,bb企起身怕冷親(瞓時又唔應該著太多衫)。如果有病或作病就唔應該進行。所以等多幾日暖少少睇有無機會,或開暖爐都可試。
actually, this is her usual sleeping time but she now needs rocking to sleep
but during x'mas holiday (23-26/12), we need to go out almost everyday p.m., so is it a good time for traning?
ii) during daytime, my bb sleeps inside the playpen in the living room (because so that we can see her through the 3G phone), so is it a good arrangement to train her sleeping on her own? should i let her sleep on her own cot?
iii) at nite, my bb shares the same bedroom with us, so shall we sleep only after she sleeps? because if she has not sleep and she sees us, i think she does not want to sleep.
iv) how do u tolerate the continuous crying of bb if she does not sleep?
i) but during x'mas holiday (23-26/12), we need to go out almost everyday p.m., so is it a good time for traning?
==>22/12 day time開始train就好d,有幾次相同的經驗先至有效,否則佢會好亂,有時唔駛喊好耐又有人抱住搖,有時又喊到死都無人理。
真係要有兩日完全在家的環境train就好d,不過你都可以試吓,但無保証。
ii) during daytime, my bb sleeps inside the playpen in the living room (because so that we can see her through the 3G phone), so is it a good arrangement to train her sleeping on her own? should i let her sleep on her own cot?
==>係要在被困的bb床瞓好d,否則佢一喊就會走出來,即係無用。我阿b自出世起在爬行道瞓,但train佢果兩日先開始放佢喺bb床瞓,直到現在都ok。
iii) at nite, my bb shares the same bedroom with us, so shall we sleep only after she sleeps? because if she has not sleep and she sees us, i think she does not want to sleep.
==>你要放佢喺bb床先至有得train,因為佢要自己一個瞓,否則又是壞習壞,倚賴你,要你陪至瞓,其實bb適應力極強。
iv) how do u tolerate the continuous crying of bb if she does not sleep?
==>我望住個鐘,你一定要計時,否則一分鐘都漫長,未夠鐘死都唔好出去。我好忍得,我睇咗好多育兒書,係真理就要跟,除非自己都無信心或唔肯定做得岩唔岩。
try your best la, i want to know your progress pls share more, i am still thinking whether to start or not on 28/12 as my husband has some reservation. [quote]
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do u know where I can buy it?
I will have holiday from 28/12 to 31/12 (4 days) and I want to use the method u mentioned.
I want to ask some more questions before the start:
i) when i put bb down to the cot when she is awake, if she sits down, do i need to help her lay down? because my bb likes to sit/stand if she is not interested to sleep.
ii) after she sleeps and if she wakes up and cries, after certain minutes, do i just talk to her to sleep? is it strictly forbidden to carry her?
iii) if she wakes up and sits down in the middle of the sleep time, can I help her to lay down again?
iv) my bb sleeps at the cot in our bedroom, so any special arrangement need to prepare before the training? (do your bb share the bedroom with u?)
v) just now, do u bb sleep on himself whenever u put him down in the cot? how about when u go outside, does he sleep during the sleep time?