Me too, 由day one 開始佢就自己一個人瞓自己間房, 當熄燈閂門會自己瞓, 但 到7 ...
1st theory: 狠心 + 忍心
I wont open the door no matter how hard they cry, until I hear they turn and face down ( the sound of crying is difference). After 3-5 times, they would know it is not workable to draw our attention and stopped. And you must trust the bio-clock of the baby,actually they would know when to do what and when shld go to bed, try to put them to bed at the same time everyday and set is as routine.
2nd theory: do sth before bed and make as routine
Jux like wht I said, set routine and training is something that should follow strictly. I would let my kids have milk, after that will take them to toilet then change clothes and next clean face and teeth, finally put in sleeping bag==> After you have done all these steps, they would know it is time to go bed, they would play less and prepare to sleep by themesleve.
I have used the above methods to train my 2 kids and so far is successful (4 yrs and 9.5mths),hope it is useful to you too
Vicky, thank you for the shared, I had followed the routine and never put him into his bed until the time for him to sleep, so he knows he need to sleep at there, he will 捽眼. It works and made me have peace for the 7 months.
Maybe he is interested in standing so much, he can't stop standing, even he is very tired, eyes was closed but still try to stand up. That's why he will wake during he sleep in the mid night and cry, because he found that he is not standing up. Everynight, I have to calm down him for several times, it happen on your kids?
狠心, now if I just let him on his bed, close the door and run away, he will cry until 嘔, he will not stop until people come to stay with him. I believed he is just become lost of the 安全感, I don't know why and still looking for the advice.