If she don't take care my kids and do other things =>接受唔到
She is allowed to sit on the sofa and watch TV (for kids) with my kids (provided that she is explaining what happened inside the story to my kids).
She is allowed to sleep with my kids in the afternoon.
She is not allowed to do any housework and leave my kids alone.
my cam installed in the living room, mainly to monitor my 17-month old... if my BB is sleeping, then my maid will hide away from the cam la (maybe in her room.. or maybe in our room )
I can accept she do some of her own stuffs in her room if she finished her work and BB is sleeping... but can't accept she use our stuffs (e.g. hi-fi, telephone, TV, DVD player, computer)..... in fact, I supposed she should either stay in the kitchen or her room except cleaning or putting back clothings into our room / the work room lor!!