原帖由 25lam 於 09-1-7 11:58 發表
唔係我地唔比....你要睇清楚.
禮金...唔係賣身錢.
唔係講老爺唔比, 自己兩公婆攪店就OK架.
記得當年我地結婚都因為呢個問題攪到好煩.
6299當時又話多, 唔願比,叫我同c6自己攪店.
我媽唔肯...仲1分錢都唔可以減(實際要幾多我唔知)一定要佢地出, 唔系就唔好娶.有要生仔又好, 女又好都就跟我姓.
我地結婚註冊年幾之后.....男家(6299)都系要比, 先至做返中式(過大禮,出門,入門.....擺酒)
原帖由 ac321 於 09-1-7 12:04 發表
I read very clearly........ and still can't understand
6299當時又話多, 唔願比,叫我同c6自己攪店
=> you and your husband don't listen to your 62 99 (叫我同c6自己攪店)
However, you ...
原帖由 mother904 於 09-1-8 14:04 發表
其實我覺得禮金係傳統同現代的爭拗,有冇都唔係問題。
我同意如果新抱覺得自己剩係嫁俾老公一人,唔當62 99係一家人,禮金應該由老公俾。同埋如果嫁左唔諗住俾家用外家,就應該要俾禮金父母。
但我又好睇過眼某d 99,嫁女就要收禮金,娶新抱就最好人地貼埋大床...有著數就要跟傳統,唔想蝕就話自己現代~~~
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