我諗起一齣舊戲 Sleepless in Seattle,女主角心繫未見過面嘅盲約,情人節同未婚夫晚餐時向佢悔婚兼道歉,未婚夫講:“... I don't want to be someone that you're setting for. I don't want to be someone that anyone settles for. Marriage is hard enough without bringing such low expectations into it, isn't it?”
講得真好。而家你妹妹就係 someone her boyfriend is settling for,要維繫咁樣嘅婚姻,太辛苦